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Thanks
Instead of beating aroung the bush, a simple "No thanks"
is a thank you - less time ... |
0 |
4 |
0 |
0.00 |
6/6/2008 6:15 pm |
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If you play the game...
It is always hard to be on either end of rejection. In the
end though you gotta remember that the only reason you got
rejected is because you chose to play (or try to play) the
game first.
... |
0 |
2 |
1 |
3.70 |
8/30/2007 2:48 am |
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Gentle hearts
If next time you has a problem with a friend,
just let the problem be with you and close your door gently.
"No thanks" mean the most that problem was never
meant to be like that. ... |
1 |
15 |
4 |
2.08 |
3/17/2007 3:48 pm |
delyon, 55 M
12/25/2006 3:59 am
5
Articles,
Score
0.0
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Napoleon
Napoléon sayed
-"the best way to break up in love with a woman is to
escape......"
... |
0 |
6 |
1 |
0.00 |
12/25/2006 3:59 am |
delyon, 55 M
12/25/2006 3:12 am
5
Articles,
Score
0.0
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logique
If, after reviewing the sender's profile and email,
you decide that you're not a good match, saying "No,
thanks" can mean a lot to the other member. It will
provide closure and let them know it's ... |
0 |
4 |
2 |
2.42 |
12/25/2006 3:12 am |
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Don't do drug
I don't do drug cause u don't
know what its do to you.
So say drug free and give it to me... |
0 |
10 |
3 |
0.00 |
10/19/2006 7:11 am |
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What about a call?
Do you think saying "no" with a telephone call
is the best or the worst way to avoid a ... |
4 |
27 |
21 |
0.77 |
7/31/2006 11:57 am |
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How to say no?
What is the best way to let your date know that there won't
be a second ... |
6 |
81 |
34 |
1.17 |
6/7/2006 10:16 pm |
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An open letter to "that guy"
I'm really sorry I sent you the automatic "No
Thanks" reply.
<br>
I do feel a little bad about it.
<br>
I shouldn't, I know. I'm very clear in my profile
about what I prefer ... |
1 |
66 |
17 |
1.99 |
2/27/2006 11:14 am |
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thanx
thanx for helping to find GF
wilson ... |
0 |
23 |
9 |
2.57 |
11/14/2005 4:47 am |
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It's tough being a perfect 10 !
A recent study proved that nine out of ten men liked women
with bigger boobs. Sadly it also proved that the tenth man
liked the other nine... ... |
1 |
234 |
39 |
3.24 |
8/23/2004 12:00 am |
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Gender is not important. Attitudes are.
To all the fellow people out there, man and women BOTH, who
insist in cussing at others who tells tells them 'no, thanks'.
<br>
You don't need to be afraid to say 'no, thanks, I am not ... |
0 |
128 |
79 |
7.02 |
6/25/2002 12:00 am |
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Follow your intuition
When you chat with someone/talk on the telephone/or meeting
in person never ever let someone insist on giving out your
personal information.I had recently met someone on the
inter-net dating ... |
1 |
204 |
60 |
7.34 |
6/16/2002 12:00 am |
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Girls taking guys out for sport?
Ive never heard that term before, ,, I must have been hiding
under a rock for all these years LOL!! But guys, ,, seriously, ,, I
would think that you would know that is happening to you,
so dont ... |
0 |
253 |
56 |
1.70 |
5/31/2002 12:00 am |
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A Non-lover's MInd
Silence of a non lover's mind
who has stopped longing for the
lover he can only desire
He dreams of her and hears her moaning in his bed
Reliving the loving he never had
<br>
He is ... |
0 |
156 |
41 |
0.73 |
4/24/2002 12:00 am |
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A few helpful hints for men...
I can't say how many times I receive a message from a man who
wants to chat, meet, move in with me and/or marry me without so much as having received an
email back from me! One of my biggest ... |
2 |
207 |
93 |
7.03 |
4/20/2002 12:00 am |
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Not a movie star But?
I am 42 I have been divorced 4 years and I can not meet the right
kind of woman and when I answer a personal ad I get no response
what do women want a movie star, prince charming and Donald
Trump ... |
1 |
125 |
41 |
5.35 |
3/31/2002 12:00 am |
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Judgment call
Let's start this with, I'm male. As much as we'd like to believe
this world is equal, it isn't. I just started reading the
"No Thanks" thread. As a beginner, I came up with the following. ... |
0 |
150 |
60 |
7.57 |
3/7/2002 12:00 am |
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Saying No.... A 2nd man's perspective
Having read a few of the articles regarding saying thanks
but no thanks, I've decided to add my two cents to the wishing
well. I've spoken with many friends in the chat rooms about
the subject ... |
0 |
37 |
105 |
9.17 |
3/4/2002 12:00 am |
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When a guy asks you out and you have a boyfriend
Hi
I work at loblaws and a really sweet looking guy has askedme out. he's funny nice and the best person i would love to
out with, if i were single however; i had to say no. I thought my ... |
2 |
126 |
45 |
4.11 |
2/24/2002 12:00 am |
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how u say no thanks?
you just say it will be very nice from you if we could stay
friends but right now i dont look more then that..and you
are very special person but i dont look now for a serious
relationship..  ... |
0 |
343 |
59 |
0.00 |
2/16/2002 12:00 am |
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A Failure to communicate!!
There seems to be a lack of communication in the online community.
I have met several people on the free ad services and after
the first meeting, there is no further communications!
Not even a ... |
0 |
29 |
57 |
8.01 |
2/2/2002 12:00 am |
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How To Say
Hmmm? How shall I tell my "emailer" (her/him) that I cannot
possibly envision a dialogue, much less a relationship
with her/him? <br>
I believe that I can offer a proper response which ... |
0 |
63 |
96 |
8.61 |
11/27/2001 12:00 am |
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If I say No, take it like a man
I've only been using FF for a short time, but I've noticed
that the behavior I've seen from the male members here is
similar to every other similar service. Men who are not
in my area, or in the ... |
0 |
145 |
126 |
8.42 |
11/4/2001 12:00 am |
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I don't believe it! I saw Claudia Shiffer on my dating website!
So of course I sent her a smile hoping for a reply in the near
future. The next day I'm looking at a Sears catalog, and
who do I see? That great looking babe on my dating website!
I sent her a note to see if I could catch her attention the
week before... alas! no reply. Now all of a sudden I seem
to be recognising celebrities all over this thing and others!
What is with this? Can't these people find hot dates in and
around Hollywood? Why do they have to put their pictures
here? Then just today, I met saw the woman of my dreams... turned
out to be Salma Hayak! I just don't understand! Why can't
we just have normal people, with normal faces posting normal
pictures! Isn't there a celebrities dating service somewhere?
And if there is... tell me where I can tell these people to
stop putting up fake pictures! |
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2001-10-28 |
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FREE B'S
To All,
Heaven forbid that what I am about to write is going to soundsarcastic or even bitter. If you live in a reality la la land
then read no more!!! I can honestly say that I have been dating ... |
2 |
381 |
98 |
4.39 |
8/18/2001 12:00 am |
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Answering e-mail, a mature woman's point of view!
After having read several articles about whether or not
to respond to those who have taken the time to write you in
response to the profile you have place with a server, I wish
to express my ... |
1 |
247 |
257 |
8.76 |
8/15/2001 12:00 am |
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Don't Lie
I can't tell you how many men I've met on line and talked to
by phone that I eventually found out they were lying about
something. In fact, men have also told me it's true of women
(just so ... |
2 |
251 |
133 |
8.76 |
8/8/2001 12:00 am |
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keep it close
My advice to teens is and i'm going to keep it real, i'm not
going to sugar coat it, what in the world are you in the rush
f0r, keep your legs close and your books open, theres
know way that a boy ... |
0 |
174 |
37 |
3.66 |
8/4/2001 12:00 am |
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keep it close
My advice to teens is and i'm going to keep it real, i'm not
going to sugar coat it, what in the world are you in the rush
f0r, keep your legs close and your books open, theres
know way that a boy ... |
0 |
188 |
23 |
2.19 |
8/4/2001 12:00 am |
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Some response is better than none
I fell like apparently many others that if you get a response
to your add you should respond back to them to let them know
your interest level. Whether you are interested or not
it is the ... |
0 |
361 |
83 |
7.42 |
7/7/2001 12:00 am |
kimik,
6/23/2001 12:00 am
1
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On why, sometimes, we don't reply
After reading the article on "A new rule for guys" I got the
urge to add something. One of the big turn-offs for me and
a reason I don't reply sometimes are the e-mails from guys
looking for an ... |
1 |
127 |
197 |
8.29 |
6/23/2001 12:00 am |
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Fear of someone's reaction does not excuse bad manners
I am struck by the fact that there is such a debate as to
whether or not it is good manners to respond to an email
from someone in whom you are not interested.
<br>
On the surface, it ... |
1 |
112 |
34 |
4.23 |
6/14/2001 12:00 am |
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Here's a new rule for the guys...from a guy.
Back on 12-17-2000, I wrote the article "answering e-mail...a
man's point of view". While it was well received, I feel
I could add a new rule for the men who write to women, and to
a much lessor ... |
0 |
68 |
296 |
8.66 |
5/5/2001 12:00 am |
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the article is right
I would have to agree with this recent article. Many men
do have funny/whacked egos. But hey...C'mon..we are aLL
human in this race/planet. We are all creatures of nature.
When any man thinks he ... |
0 |
183 |
19 |
0.75 |
4/25/2001 12:00 am |
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Men - Here's why we ignore you.
I've had lots of experience with email contacts - either
through a personal ad I have placed or ones I've responded
to. Unfortunately, when I am not interested in someone,
I now just ignore him. ... |
0 |
166 |
202 |
3.73 |
4/24/2001 12:00 am |
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Ladies, Please Be Considerate!!
Hello Women of FriendFinder...
<br>
i am writing to all of you who seem to be unable to even lift
your pretty little fingers to respond to an e-mail or page...this
is plain and simply a ... |
1 |
49 |
222 |
7.26 |
3/16/2001 12:00 am |
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When you have to say no
There are times when you have to say no I've discovered.
After being contacted by a girl who wanted to meet for coffee
etc, I discovered that she was married. We stayed out that
night till after ... |
1 |
333 |
95 |
8.08 |
3/9/2001 12:00 am |
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Why is it so hard?
As a woman of today, even being the strong independent woman
that I am, I still find it hard to say "NO THANKS" to a man who
wants to go out on a date...why is that? Maybe it's because
I feel ... |
1 |
169 |
43 |
3.76 |
3/5/2001 12:00 am |
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When she disappears...
Do the math. When she (or he) disappears, it usually means
they were finished with what you thought was the beginnning
of a relationship, or whatever. It's easier to not answer
than write back and ... |
1 |
39 |
60 |
1.55 |
3/3/2001 12:00 am |
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Are we guys cheap untertainement?
I came across the profile of a nice looking lady, single,
well educated, non-smoker... everything then! write
to her, get nice answers. write more to her... being told
(in an approximate english) ... |
0 |
237 |
57 |
2.80 |
2/25/2001 12:00 am |
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girl said no thanks?
frailty, thy name is woman,
as shakespare says, do u agree?
as long as i'm concern i do agree, its true.i'm describinga
stroy,
one day a girl came accross me and she looked liked as if she ... |
0 |
58 |
35 |
0.00 |
2/24/2001 12:00 am |
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Saying NO And Thats That
I have found thar saying no and explaining why does not work
to well with people that write inapropriate messages.
Often times when you give people reasons it gives them a
reason to answer back ... |
0 |
60 |
34 |
4.59 |
2/21/2001 12:00 am |
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Sometimes only love is not enough!!!
I met somebody thru putting an add on the net.
Already after few e-mails and hours of talking on the phone.
We decided to meet, and the chemistry was there, we click,
and lots of talking and ... |
0 |
66 |
28 |
3.65 |
2/17/2001 12:00 am |
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It's nice to get a response, but . . .
It's tough to put aside preconceptions, and I've tried,
but many of the men who have responded to my profile are so
far off the mark of what I hope for that it makes it tough.
And it is NICE to ... |
0 |
64 |
108 |
6.24 |
2/17/2001 12:00 am |
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Ditch The...Unpleasent Woman.
C'mon guys, let's face it...All good things must come to
an end, right? Right! K...So it's agreed then, you're love
in paradise has just turned into a Hell hole.
How can one tell when the ... |
0 |
44 |
36 |
1.17 |
2/8/2001 12:00 am |
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When no causes cheating
I was going out with this girl once. (I thought) she was really
nice, friendly, funny, pretty, a great girl. We were going
out for several months, when she wanted to get more
physical. I declined, ... |
0 |
28 |
28 |
2.32 |
1/18/2001 12:00 am |
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Discreet Encounters??? NOT!!
I girl I did not know well, but had ran into a few times at local
single parties..invited me to go out with her to a nightclub
she visits regularly. She said she had lots of friends that
go there, ... |
0 |
325 |
29 |
3.74 |
1/16/2001 12:00 am |
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Please stop embarrasing me
Well, You sent your message, you waited, you waited some
more, then you sent another asking if you got the first,
then you waited, then sent another asking if you got the
last message about the ... |
0 |
124 |
88 |
7.57 |
1/10/2001 12:00 am |
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If your best frined or Bf Wants you to do something then you dont want to Tell them No.
Do not be forcred into thing`s that people want you to do
Like sex for a exsample if your not ready and they can not
wait then they are not worth it am i correct on that part ,
I Know i am on ... |
0 |
39 |
18 |
3.12 |
12/31/2000 12:00 am |
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It saves a lot of time and effort to say no
I'm an attractive young female who has just moved to the
US from England, I have proved to be quite popular and have
been asked out several times. As I was never this popular
back in England I ... |
0 |
90 |
26 |
2.92 |
12/25/2000 12:00 am |
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Honesty is the best policy
I was recently on a first date with an attractive man
and we ended up kissing passionately. The kiss was
horrible and I also felt that a passionate kiss should
be saved for a later time.If I ... |
0 |
15 |
28 |
5.40 |
12/19/2000 12:00 am |
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Rape..Not Good!!!
Hey in the year of 1996 I was with some friends. We were all
partying. And one of the guys was my best friend the other
one was like my brother. We have all three known each other
for most of our ... |
0 |
14 |
40 |
2.36 |
12/18/2000 12:00 am |
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Answering e-mail...a man's point of view.
Having read a few articles here about e-mail answering
etiquette, I thought I would add my point of view. As a man
who has been a member for about three months, I can imagine
that women receive ... |
0 |
49 |
224 |
8.66 |
12/17/2000 12:00 am |
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FEMALE COMEBACKS
FEMALE COMEBACKS
<br>
Man: Where have you been all my life ?
Woman: Hiding from you.
<br>
Man: Haven't I seen you someplace before?
Woman: Yes, that's why I don't go there ... |
0 |
205 |
89 |
4.77 |
12/6/2000 12:00 am |
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Not being interested doesn't mean you can't care
I have been involved in relationships for a while now, and
I have had my share of "I am not Interested".
However, it has been my experience
that the best way to let the party know that you are ... |
0 |
176 |
35 |
7.38 |
12/5/2000 12:00 am |
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Killing them Softly
Since I am a widow, financially secure, I have attracted
interest from several near-indigent older and younger
men of my acquaitance. This has posed a problem to me, since I'm
someone who always ...
|
0 |
39 |
30 |
2.26 |
12/3/2000 12:00 am |
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When you get a message from someone you dont want to reply to
It is perfectly acceptable according to my experince,
just leaving the message unanswered. If the person insists
and sends another one or several further messages and it
keeps annoying you, you ... |
0 |
60 |
66 |
1.42 |
10/10/2000 12:00 am |
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To answer an e-mail or not to answer?
After having gotten on the friendfinder circuit, you are
now getting e-mails about possible matches. Of course,
there are those matches which are interesting and those
which you are rather ... |
0 |
14 |
56 |
0.17 |
9/20/2000 12:00 am |
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Being Honest
I find the Internet a great vehicle for connecting with
like-minds. Particularly the FriendFinder site - if you
are single and looking for a possible relathionship to form.
You can send e-mails to ... |
0 |
325 |
29 |
4.24 |
9/20/2000 12:00 am |
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No means No
I'm sick of all these stories about guys raping girls. If
this sort of thing turns you on you have your own problems.
Do not assume that because it happened in a story where a
girl says "no" and ... |
0 |
34 |
19 |
5.37 |
8/3/2000 12:00 am |
|
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Turning responses into friendship, not romance
Over a period of time, I have received numerous E-mail responsesto my ad. Some of them were terrific matches and some were not I try to treat each and every one with respect and answer every one. ... |
0 |
185 |
73 |
5.62 |
5/18/2000 12:00 am |
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Cyber Break Up Letter
Dear [insert screen name here] (if that is your real
name), I regret to inform you that, under a plan for
the periodic removal of unpleasantness from my life, I
must terminate our ... |
0 |
165 |
58 |
2.57 |
4/27/2000 12:00 am |
|
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What do you mean No?
This incident just happened to my cousin recently. She
was out on a date with a guy she just met, and after being out
awhile they went back to her place. Just as things started
to get "hot and ... |
0 |
16 |
41 |
3.78 |
4/21/2000 12:00 am |
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When and why to say no!
<br>
You are in control of your own destiny. You shouldn't have
to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Every ones view of
sex and sexuality differs, but one thing is the same: ... |
0 |
18 |
36 |
4.53 |
4/21/2000 12:00 am |
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Jack and Jill
jack and jill
<br>
jack and jill went up the hill
to fetch a pail of water.
jill forgot to take the pill,
so now they have a daughter!
<br>
... |
0 |
507 |
14 |
1.06 |
4/17/2000 12:00 am |
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Sex...it's all about being an adult...
Sex is a big deal...so we hear from everyone around us nowadays.
The age old questions of 'How young is too young?' and 'Yes
or no?' come up on a more than regular basis. The question
people ... |
0 |
31 |
74 |
3.23 |
4/14/2000 12:00 am |
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Show a little respect for your peers
I just started doing the internet meeting people thing
a month or so ago, and it has been rather interesting at times.
I've had the oppportunity to meet up with a few of the people
I've talked to ... |
0 |
10 |
36 |
6.35 |
4/14/2000 12:00 am |
kemee,
4/7/2000 12:00 am
1
Article,
Score
0.0
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How to say
First of all let me start out by mentioning that I am a 39 year
old black female totally heterosexual. <br>
I had been on line for a week, a person Emailed me and told
me how much they ... |
0 |
52 |
59 |
6.82 |
4/7/2000 12:00 am |
nasi1,
4/3/2000 12:00 am
1
Article,
Score
0.0
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I miss you..
I miss you
I know we`ve said our goodbyes
and I know we`ve gone our
separate ways,
but I still miss you
I wish that peaple were like chalkboards,
and we could wash our memories clean.
... |
0 |
15 |
54 |
5.99 |
4/3/2000 12:00 am |
|
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When to be wary of meeting that special someone.
Even though you have found that special "someone" on the
net and you think you know all you need to know about him/her,
please keep safety in mind.
<br>
1) Remember, you do not really ... |
0 |
20 |
53 |
6.29 |
3/27/2000 12:00 am |
|
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Tender is the night
We had a special dinner at a very fancy restaurant that evening.
The love of my life came late to pick me up and was "rushy", told
me how many things he would have to do on the next morning.I
gave ... |
0 |
252 |
10 |
2.19 |
3/25/2000 12:00 am |
|
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When you want to say yes but you got to say no!
Sometimes saying no is a matter of self respect and keeping
a committment to yourself. I made the decision to save sex
until after marriage because my personal and my religious
beliefs both ... |
0 |
19 |
36 |
5.22 |
3/22/2000 12:00 am |
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Saying NO! is like Saying GOODBYE!
<br>
How many of you women out there have liked a guy, went out
and when it came down to doin the dirty, said no and ever saw
the guy again? Well I would imagine few.
I believe it comes ... |
0 |
208 |
20 |
5.81 |
3/21/2000 12:00 am |
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Physical attraction..the hardest thing about internet matchmaking
I think people are dishonest if we say "looks do not matter."
OF COURSE they matter. It is hard when you make a somewhat
close emotional connection (as is easy to do when using
a keyboard), but ... |
0 |
64 |
92 |
7.72 |
3/20/2000 12:00 am |
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Cyber bye-byes
There is nothing like being rejected, the coldness and
emptiness of being trashed - but worse still is being sent
to the eternal cyber trash can. Like being left suspended
in space. That's the ... |
0 |
26 |
45 |
5.93 |
3/18/2000 12:00 am |
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let your mind be your driver
Oh, my heart has it's reasons
I can't say that it's right.
It wants me to do things .
The actions arn't always right.
It has it's own rythem
It has it's own beat
It want of me action
... |
0 |
79 |
12 |
0.86 |
3/17/2000 12:00 am |
|
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How to Handle Loads of Mail
I write that article to answer one happy man who receives
heaps of love letters from three quality ladies at a time.
Man, you really do have a problem, but that's not of a kind
you cannot solve. ... |
0 |
51 |
26 |
4.54 |
3/17/2000 12:00 am |
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In The Shadows
Meet me in the shadows
Beneath a bright new moon
Hold me in your loving gaze
Tell me the night's in bloom
Whisper promises in the dark
Say what I want to hear
Open your heart and love me ...
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0 |
48 |
7 |
0.75 |
3/10/2000 12:00 am |
|
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When to say NO!
Sometimes in a relationship you just can't say no to the
one that you love. Well I found out that once you get into
the habit of doing that, things can take a turn for the worst.
This isn't really ... |
0 |
173 |
26 |
3.24 |
3/7/2000 12:00 am |
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Will you regret this in the morning ?
After a couple of awkward internet dates I finally found
a nice lady to share some good times with. We were both lonely
and seemed to hit it off in our letters. After the first date
we just kissed ... |
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Too soon?
When your date wants to take you home or whatever funny thing.
Please say no or you might end up as his or her prey... even
though the former is unlikely. Even though no matter
how much you ... |
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44 |
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2/27/2000 12:00 am |
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What's inside...
Saw the most wonderful man here tonight. Handsome, great
smile, good job, lives in a nice city, seems to have everything
going. Then, in his "who I am" write up he began to talk about his
personal ... |
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2/26/2000 12:00 am |
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Disappearing Acts
Anonymity is no excuse for being rude. Unfortunately,
many people (both male and female) seem to think that it's
o.k. to just disappear suddenly from the "getting to know
you" stage of a ... |
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2/20/2000 12:00 am |
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It's a matter of respect!
When the e-mail arrives in your box with a request for correspondace,
don't just delete it and trash it. Take a moment or two to
tell the person you are no longer interested, busy, or what
ever, ... |
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2/18/2000 12:00 am |
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I have said
Abstinance is the best policy-- not what I think. Just postponment.
I have made a promise to myself to wait until I am ready.
The pressure on teens today from the media, peers, etc.
to have sex ... |
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2/18/2000 12:00 am |
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Saying what you mean.
If you go out with someone, and find that you don't really
want the same things. Go ahead and be upfront with them about
it before they get too emotionally involved. It isn't fair
to continue a ... |
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2/17/2000 12:00 am |
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Response to
Hi all,
<br>
The advice (if you will) that I would give to
"More ResponsesThan You Can Handle" is a couple of things.
I think one key
ingredient is communication. Are any of ... |
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1/23/2000 12:00 am |
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Let's Put it in Context
Saying "No, thanks". Two little words, yet they can generate
so much angst in the "dumpee" and occasionally guilt in
the "dumper". It's understandable, yet in a way so unnecessary.
<br> ...
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1/18/2000 12:00 am |
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when yes maybe means no?
hellomy name is esilio. being new to this system. i am finding
it pretty lame some of the excuses (or lack there of) when
you think you have found someone suitable. nw i am not petty
but when ... |
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1/13/2000 12:00 am |
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More responses than you can handle?
More responses than you can handle?
I?ve run into a sticky situation recently. I had sent E-mailmessages to several ladies at once. Nothing particularly
exciting, provocative or ?deep?, just ... |
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1/12/2000 12:00 am |
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Honesty is the best policy
Honesty is the best policy, but it should be tempered with
kindness. I have written to many people via email, who after
a few mails seemed to drop off the face of the earth. They did not bother to ... |
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1/10/2000 12:00 am |
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It Shouldn't Affect Your Life
I think that if you or your date says no in the course of the
date or relationship, that it shouldn't really have that
much effect on it.Just cause they said no doesn't mean your
life is going to ... |
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1/9/2000 12:00 am |
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Why You Should Say No to Sex
I hope the following information will help you make wiser
choices when it comes to sexual contact. Each time you choose
sexual contact with a new partner you significantly increase
your chance of ... |
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1/3/2000 12:00 am |
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Didnt even say good bye
Well it starts like this...I chated with this female in San Fransisco for quite a while.Then she gave me her phone number.We talked alot,got to know each other fairly well.I told her to come by my ... |
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12/10/1999 12:00 am |
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A few months back I joined friendfinder and I wrote to a couple of profiles that made me feel something. I wanted to get to know someone in a far away place so that I might have the excuse to travel in the future so I chose men from the United Kingdom a place I had always wanted to visit. I thought that at least I might find a great pen pal who could tell me things about his country as well as getting to know him.
The first week of my membership I met a man in the age group that I was interested in and I will call him Bob. Now Bob and I hit it off right from the start and soon our letters were on a very personel level ,writting many times a day. Soon we were chatting on Yahoo Messenger just like two teenagers falling in love for the first time. Then the cyber sex began to creep in. I said no and like a fox he made his move in another direction and before I would know it there would be something sexual going on. Now if that is what both parties are interested in then go for it but in my case it only served to frustrate me more with him getting just what he was after. This went on for sometime and because I thought I really liked him I relented and engaged in what I thought would make him happy. But we were never talking about the things that had drawed me to him in the first place, the relationship had become CYBERED and I tried a couple of times to guide it back into the right direction. Like I said if it is what you both are looking for then that is fine but if you don't feel right about it just say no! Why go to bed confused and frustrated while he is on his end sleeping like a baby with a smile on his face.
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It makes you wonder...
I went to Prague on holiday all by myself. It was the first time and it was very exciting. On my way there the people around me were just talking the Tsjech language so it made no sense to me at all. ... |
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12/2/1999 12:00 am |
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Hearing back from someone you said "No Thanks" to
I have written to guys after I looked at their photo and realized immediately that he didn't "do it" for me; I've written to them and said "No Thanks," only to hear back from them that I am terrible ... |
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12/2/1999 12:00 am |
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hot like the sun and wet like the rain
hello from turkiye
if u wanna good ant the best friend
he's not very far away
just under your finfers
just write to me
see u soon
kisses ...
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11/30/1999 12:00 am |
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Guys...just be honest with her...
I just wanted to ad to the topic of "Saying No Thanks". First of all, lets face it, even with using a service like Friendfinder, dating is NOT an exact science. Sometimes you are going to meet ... |
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11/28/1999 12:00 am |
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saying ohh no!
How do we say ohh no to someone?
How do we say no when we really mean ohh yes yes?
Sometimes we really want people to talk, to visit, to share things with us.
So truy saying yes ohh ...
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11/23/1999 12:00 am |
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A Welcome No
We live in a busy world but does that mean the concept of common courtesy has to be sacrificed? It seems to be the case,maybe the annomity of the net contributes to it.
A brief message takes ... |
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11/14/1999 12:00 am |
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It hurt a lot
I went on a date with a man that I met on line. He took me out for dinner, drinks, coffee, and more drinks. We spent five hours together and he told me he didn't want the date to end. We kissed ... |
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11/10/1999 12:00 am |
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just say no
i was on my 3 date with this really cool guy while we went back to his place his parents were out of town we were just going to talk and then we started makeing out while then he was undoing my shirt ... |
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11/9/1999 12:00 am |
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Which one could it be?*!
I've always been told to be very careful while on the internet.Then I found out about friend finder.com....I was so excited yet afraid.I met several different people that seemed absulutly ... |
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9/18/1999 12:00 am |
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Saying 'NO' can be as easy as saying YES
Saying NO can be easyer than saying YES
It's easy to say yes to things,but when it comes down to saying NO how many of us can openly say we could do it without any hesitation.
Sex is one of ... |
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7/22/1999 12:00 am |
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saying no, somwone's gotta do it
Saying no is hard, but someone’s got to do it. That’s where you come in. I’m writing this to tell you that it is ok to say no. If you are with someone that is pushing you to so something that you ... |
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5/31/1999 12:00 am |
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At least say " No Thanks"
So you finally find the person who you think could be interesting. You've been searching the lists and checking each bio to make sure they are at least somewhat compatible and in some cases you ... |
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5/10/1999 12:00 am |
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I didn't think it was a crime
This story is going to be hard for me to tell. If it hasn’t happened to you, it’s happened to someone you know, even if you don’t know that it’s happened. I started dating my ex, Thomas, in ... |
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4/28/1999 12:00 am |
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I don't understand why people find it so hard to say "no".
i might be a little close-minded, but i don't see the difficulty in saying "no" to someone of the oppisite sex. I think it's all about self-respect. If you have enough self-respect, you won't let ... |
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4/25/1999 12:00 am |
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A Guy's Worst Nightmare
Its the worst thing that can possibly happen to an ambitious, goal-seeking suitor: asking the girl of your dreams on a date, and hearing that nasty, but sometimes inevitable, “No.” Those two little ... |
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4/16/1999 12:00 am |
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NO THANK YOU
SAYING "NO THANKS" SAYING THESE TWO WORDS CAN GET YOU ALOT OF PLACES. FRIENDS THAT ASK YOU TO TRY SOMETHING [EXA.DRUGS] ARENT REALLY YOUR FRIENDS JUST SAY NO AND WALK AWAY. THEY WILL TRY THERE BEST ... |
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4/13/1999 12:00 am |
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Let them down gently, but let them down.
I thought that I was going to be doing the nice thing when I just ignored this girl, instead it made things ever worse than I could have ever imagined. It all happened a few years ago while I ... |
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4/11/1999 12:00 am |
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Saying 'NO' to the persistent
It really amazes me no end how some men can be so persistent and won't take no for an answer...their hide is so thick that 'No' doesn't seem to penetrate through...
it could be due to all that long ... |
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4/3/1999 12:00 am |
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choosing the right person
hello young teens,well i know that it is one time when u
guys & girls r really keen on finding yourself a date, but it's
the most important thing to choose the right person.so always be
careful ... |
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3/12/1999 12:00 am |
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Why to say "No Thanks" To Drugs
All Though it may seem that drugs are cool it really isn't. If you become hooked you will end up a washed up "bum" who will do just about anything to get high. People like this are poor ... |
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3/5/1999 12:00 am |
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How to brush off signals
There is nothing worst than a girl that you don't like, likes you. How do you break it to them gently? Well, I have noticed the strong signals and you just play dumb. IE: My friend Jackie liked me. ... |
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1/31/1999 12:00 am |
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Graceful way to AVOID octopus hugs FROM men, for M or F
The man is warm and wonderful and you decided to go for
an embrace. Suddenly you are stuck with a human octopus.
Or just as bad, you don’t know how to change from simple
hug to a little more ... |
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1/29/1999 12:00 am |
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Saying no isn't as hard as it may seem
Saying no isn't as hard as you may think. It all depends on how hard you make it for yourself. For instance, if someone asks you out and you say, "I'll think about it" when you really want to say no ... |
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1/26/1999 12:00 am |
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Saying no is a BIG deal.
Many people when asked for a date/relationship often respond poorly.
Many will simply say no, many will say yes, but even more people than those two combined
will say maybe. Maybe is the worst ... |
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1/17/1999 12:00 am |
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The Mr. NOT Right Rejection Letter
If everyone else's experiences have been like mine, you've met some VERY nice men and women and you've met some "doozies" - well, "doozies" according to your own standards. Sometimes, it's very ... |
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1/16/1999 12:00 am |
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Keep your "willy" where it belongs
The hardest thing for a guy to do is to not have sex. His "willy" is wild and crazy and when there is an opening for him to see himself in, he usually takes it. Usually is the key word though. ... |
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1/12/1999 12:00 am |
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Some like It rough
If you are going to break-up, or deny someone the oppurtunity to date you:sometimes you got to be upfront. Some people just do not understand you when you give them an excuse like,"I am washing my ... |
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1/7/1999 12:00 am |
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how about a little honesty
hows this for a new years resolution....lets be honest!!! you know we've all done it. we've met the person that we have been corresponding to and well we just arent interested. instead of beating ... |
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1/4/1999 12:00 am |
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No means No
Saying no thanks can be hard sometimes when you may think
you are ready, but there is a little voice in your head
saying don't do it. Listen to that voice, because even if
you are having the ... |
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1/2/1999 12:00 am |
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What do you mean no?
In some situations saying no just doesn’t feel like the right thing to do. I’m sure you have felt it before. Isn’t it what people do? You feel you should just let whatever happen. Yet something ... |
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12/30/1998 12:00 am |
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Why Shouldn't I?
Why not take drugs? Why not have sex? Why shouldn't
I drop out of school? I feel that These are most of the
common questions many teens ask themselves. Askiing questions
like these and thier ... |
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2.40 |
12/26/1998 12:00 am |
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How to Say No to Clinton !
(1) Dammit no Bill, Ken Starr knows where I live ...
(2) I'll swallow like you inhale buddy !
(3) Mr.Clinton I'm sorry but that's my favourite dress.
(4) Daaaaaaad stop it !!! *g* ...
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12/24/1998 12:00 am |
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saying no thanks to sex
If you are under age and a guy asks you to have sex say no,
If you dont know a guy very well and he asks you to have sex tell him that you are sorry and that you dont want to have sex with him yet ... |
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12/13/1998 12:00 am |
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Survival
We didn't see it coming.
Life was as usual. We met everyday after school - went out, talked on the
phone. The only sign was that we seemed to be bickering over small matters
ever so often.
... |
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11/10/1998 12:00 am |
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Say No to the Office Beau
There he (she) is sitting across the desk from you. You get each other coffee, share a pencil sharpener, cover each other for lunch, but is it okay to take it further. DON"T DO IT! I have ... |
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0.34 |
11/7/1998 12:00 am |
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Drugs - How to say NO
We live in a society that is filled with drugs. I know because I used
to use them. Drugs are created to give us an unnatural high. This feels
great at first but soon becomes a drag. The problem ... |
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10/9/1998 12:00 am |
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No Thanks the best
Today the usage of drugs is worldwide.It depends a lot on the user himself.Some may say yes or no to drugs.If drugs is being use in the medical purpose in curing the sick than it is okay as it ... |
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9/16/1998 12:00 am |
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JUST SAY NO!!
Hi,
This is a letter to tell people how important I think it is not to let peer pressure bother you or others.
I knew this person that grew up in a rough neighborough and he was a good ... |
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8/24/1998 12:00 am |
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Why I'm Not Ready For Sex
My best friend did it when she was 15,
but I haven't done it yet, mostly because
I haven't found the right person. I feel
like I should like him a lot, and he should
care about me a lot too. ... |
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3.43 |
8/22/1998 12:00 am |
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What They Really Mean
What Woman Say, And What Do They Really Mean?
1) They say: can we just be friends?
They mean: there is not a chance in hell that I'd ever want to go out with you!
2) They say: I need ... |
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155 |
1 |
5.00 |
8/6/1998 12:00 am |
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Navigating Through the Internet Swamp
Most of us have had the experience--you get anonymous email, an anonymous ICQ, or a response from Friendfinder from a person you're pretty dubious about. There are ways around the rare-but-possible ... |
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1 |
3.70 |
8/1/1998 12:00 am |
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Its OK to say "NO" to SEX
From my personal experience: SEX CAN WAIT.
I know some of you may feel that its the only way you can
truly get close to your bf/gf, but sometimes it can only
do the opposite. I once heard "Sex ... |
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4.50 |
8/1/1998 12:00 am |
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Does he ever go too far?
The best way to say no to a guy is to say, "NO!"
Be firm and say it like you mean it, otherwise they won't take you
seriously. It's your body and no one else has the right to tell you
how to ... |
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7/12/1998 12:00 am |
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Saying NO
Hello Kids all over the world. If somebody offers you a drink or smoke say ...
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0.00 |
7/3/1998 12:00 am |
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Professor No
Okay, so you've finally started the dating scene again and found some enticing prospects online. You decide to talk on the phone, and then to meet someone in person. You do all the safe things - go ... |
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5.00 |
6/10/1998 12:00 am |
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I'm sorry, missed the word "perfect" in your profile...
While this may be great advice (in my mind) you may disagree, write your own.
First we look to the familiar answer to the personal --- "I saw your ad, sounds like we might have something in ... |
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5/30/1998 12:00 am |
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No thanks to what, who ???!!!
Hi! Saying NO thanks is not a difficult word to say.
There are many things which you want to say No to
something you don't wish to do.
Have some courage to say NO when somebody offer you ... |
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2.40 |
5/27/1998 12:00 am |
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Smoke-free mouth
Hard to say no! Well, hear this one out first!
Smoker: Want a cigarette?
Victim: Nah, I don't think so
Smoker: come on, chicken!
Victim : No! You won't get me to do that smoky thing by ... |
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5/22/1998 12:00 am |
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No one needs to go through this.....
For some reason, my article pasted like this...please feel free to arrange it as needed.
Note: All characters' names have been changed for protection
When I first moved in to my co-op, I was ... |
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0.00 |
5/19/1998 12:00 am |
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Saying NO !
Have you ever had one of those times when your friends asked you to do something you don’t feel like doing; but simply don’t know how to say it without hurting thier feelings ?
Or when your mom ... |
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0.00 |
5/19/1998 12:00 am |
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Are You weak?
A major factor that I have found in my experiences to be somewhat responsible for a great deal of pain is called "peer pressure".
We are somehow almost forced to actually believe that we are no ... |
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3.43 |
5/13/1998 12:00 am |
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my ways to say "no" to a person.
how to say no.
1. if you're in a different city that you don't go to often just say that you're gay.
2. if they're gay say that you're straight
3.say that you'll call them but "forget" their ... |
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3 |
1.47 |
5/6/1998 12:00 am |
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How To Say "No Thanks"
Telling someone that they are not appealing to you or that you are not interested can be difficult. Most of us don't want to hurt someone's feelings when we feel turned off. Often we pretend that ... |
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2.40 |
4/10/1998 12:00 am |
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Mean what you say, and say what you mean!
If you've tried everything and it still doesn't work,
have a good friend whom you trust and who he/she knows
is close to you tell him/her that "No" means "No".
Leave no room for guessing. ... |
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5.00 |
3/23/1998 12:00 am |
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How to break it to them nicely!
There are many different ways to break it to the person
nicely. But I guess one of the most frequently used ones
is "No, I think it's better if we just stay friends." Or
something like "I don't ... |
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1 |
3.70 |
3/23/1998 12:00 am |
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A MATTER OF PRINCIPLE!
I consider myself to be pretty straight forward. I am not into drugs of any sort, except a few drinks occasionally, do not patronise gambling or pay for sex. This last point is pretty ... |
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5.00 |
3/22/1998 12:00 am |
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Stalked by a 7 year old
My... interesting... experience started when I went to babysit my next door neighbor's son, Michael. It was the first time I had babysat for him, and since I wanted him to like me I brought some ... |
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2.86 |
3/19/1998 12:00 am |
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ADDICTED TO SAYING "YES"?
As a friend, I would like to advise all you out
there, especially the girls against being addicted
to saying "yes". Most girls say yes to lifts from
strangers hence resulting in their being ... |
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13 |
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0.00 |
2/28/1998 12:00 am |
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It's Alright to Say No.
For most girls, the first sexual experiance is exciting, mysterious, and can also be painful.
Most teenage girls give in to sex because of here it comes...peer pressure. Not only peer pressure, ... |
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43 |
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0.00 |
2/27/1998 12:00 am |
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Do Not Leave Them Hanging
we all here at FriendFinders get email from others that we may not be attracted to..Now what do we do about it..Do we just trash it and go on or do we answer it.
I myself try to care for others ... |
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4 |
4.02 |
2/25/1998 12:00 am |
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Not that far that fast
Hello everyone ever been caught in a cituaton with a date that you were uncomfortable with? Alot of people have. And saddly enough alot of people just dont know how to say No, or are afraid if they ... |
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3.70 |
2/24/1998 12:00 am |
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No to drugs!
Many teenagers around the world is taking drugs. Some of them for the very first time. Unfortunatly many of them dies as a result of the drugs.
As a supervisor for young teenagers that is on ... |
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43 |
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2/14/1998 12:00 am |
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How to tell him/her No when you dont want to date them at the moment!
When a man or woman asks you out and you do not want to go out with them say No thanks or change the subject and ask him or her if they would like to go do something else. Tell him or her you like ... |
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46 |
1 |
2.40 |
1/19/1998 12:00 am |
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Why can I not say "NO" to my partner.
You have difficulty saying, "No," because you are worried that s/he will be hurt if you do.
<P>
You care about him/her. And if you're like most people, you're also concerned about what s/he ... |
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1/16/1998 12:00 am |
