2 types of unavailable men... Mar 27, 2008 12:58 am Mood: contemplative, 2207 Views Tonight I had dinner with one of my girl friends...Our conversations ranged from family, work, hobbies, and guys and gay guys… We talked about patterns and type of guys one tends to date, if any…Along the conversation, the word “available” and "unavailable" came up… There seem to be two types of guys who are not “available”: guys who might be successful with their career with financial stability OR guys who are available physically, meaning, they have time to spend with you but too broke to do anything…I guess what we really want is little bit of both, you know the word, “moderation”… I was telling her that I didn’t mind dating guys who were broke, car less(yes in los angeles…lol), and/or with dead end jobs when I was in twenties, not even early thirties since I always emphasized about their personality, character, etc…but as I’m approaching my 40s, I do not want to date guys who seem to be “struggling” still…guys who are in 30s plus who are going through “changes in life”… just a thought... 8 Comments

Randoms… in honor of Frenchguy… Mar 19, 2008 3:44 am Mood: sleepy, 1888 Views 1. do you believe in feng-shui? absolutely 2. what color are your walls? muted purple, oranges, yellows 3. do you have any thing on your walls? magnetic poetry, calendar 4. do you have flowers? [COLOR greenorchids and daffodails currently 5. do you know your neighbors? Do you talk to them?no unfortunately 6. do you use stairs? as much as i can 7. when was the last time you had ice cream? What is your favorite flavor? Brand? don't remember...ben & jerry's chunky monkey and haagen daz's dulce de leche 8. coke or pepsi or 7-up? water 9. when’s the last time you had ramen? don't remember 10. do you like Chinese food? nope 11. have you ever had sticky rice with mango? yes, i love it!!! 12. what is the grossest thing you ever ate? not sure 13. have you ever been pick-pocketed? yes, in madrid14. have you ever pick pocketed someone? yes the pickpocketer (see above)15. can you swim? nope16. do you know how to ball room dance? nope, i need a partnerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!! 17. do you sing while driving or showering? only when i drive but hardly know the lyrics 18. when was the last time you “ walked on the beach”? don't remember 19. does your “athletic” mean “average” on your profile? nope20. does your “average” mean “overweight” on your profile? nope21. do you have a picture on the profile? how recent is your picture? yes, most recent one is less than a month and least recent one is about 2 years...22. did you vote? I believe U.S. is not the only country that voting is going on… yes23. for women, do you prefer flats, tennis shoes or heels? heels24. for men, are you labeled as “metro-sexual”? 25. when’s the last time you talked to your mom or dad/son or daughter? today...26. has anyone gave his/her number on a street or public place other than bars? yes, on a street 27. have you ever given your number to someone at a public place? yes, exchanged numbers at borders28. do you throw pennies into the fountain? nope 29. when was your last dream? If so do you remember your dream? oops when i was writing i had a dream...sadly i don't remember 30. do you get nightmares? yes, the same one... PLEASE FEEL FREE TO ANSWER THEM BEFORE ME!!! THANKS!!! 10 Comments

Locks of Love...and MY hair... Mar 12, 2008 12:06 am Mood: mischievous, 2522 Views Last week I finally “chopped off” about 16 inches of my hair so that I can donate to “locks of love"… “Locks of Love" is a public non-profit organization that provides hairpieces to financially disadvantaged children under age 18 suffering from long-term medical hair loss from any diagnosis. We meet a unique need for children by using donated hair to create the highest quality hair prosthetics.” This is a second time that I’ve done this… I’m not sure if I can do it again, getting more and more grays and all… Normally I prefer my hair short to shoulder length… But with reasons such as an “ex” preferring long hairs(which I think some other girls do too)to the advice of my old fashioned stylist who recommends that I will never find a guy if I cut my hair short(hehe)and that I will look younger with longer hair I've been keeping them long. The most impressive part is that about 80% of donations come from other child who wants to help other kids. Ladies, summer’s coming and variations of “bob” length hairstyles are in i.e. Katie Holmes, Posh Beckham, Rihanna and lot more korean actresses. Why don’t you look into it and get a new hair-do??? It could be the best hair style ever!!! Check out “locksoflove dot org”…The good and easy thing is that the minimum length is only 10 inches… Anyway, just wanted to share… 37 Comments

Being Sick... Mar 10, 2008 12:46 am Mood: calm, 1676 Views some people know that i was sick for last two weeks or so... it seemed like one of the worst flu? that i've ever caught... anyway, it seems like many have been sick or are sick... my friend, spidey calls it a "crud" (i forgot what it stood for)... for the ones who are sick, i hope you all are getting better and don't give it to others... i gave it to my mom and now she lost her voice...yikesssssssss!!! for the ones who aren't sick, PLEASE don't get sick!!! 14 Comments

I Wonder... Feb 18, 2008 10:36 pm Mood: contemplative, 3132 Views I wonder what I’m doing… I wonder why I’m thanking you just because you’re answering my phone calls… I wonder why I’m apologizing to you when you’re answering just to tell me that you’re busy… I wonder why I get sad thinking about you… I wonder what is happening, if anything is happening… I just wonder… 29 Comments

Monday Blues----NOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT Feb 4, 2008 9:33 pm Mood: beautiful, 2871 Views the day started off just perfectly…woke up without using my snooze button… even my morning routine went smoothly unlike other days of haze and daze...as i walked out of my place, the cool wind embraced me...first thing i noticed was a crisp outlined San Gabriel Mountains and a glimpse of a sun that just has risen... the dreaded commute was going well too...i’d pass by the residential areas with dated but beautiful and quaint houses, of which you always dream about living one day yourself...since there weren’t many cars i was able to check out some houses along the drive...in the process, i observed a woman sweeping the curb and i wondered when was the last time i saw that(kinda sad)... luckily, i didn’t hit any traffic on the freeway either, which was surprising because i always think there are more traffic on monday...(don’t ask me why though) as i entered into another city, my eyes spotted Angeles Crest Mountain, welcoming me as i drove by the empty streets lined with swaying trees, as if they are saying “good morning” to you… thus my day started off perfectly... 17 Comments

New Year's Resolution... Dec 30, 2007 8:42 pm 4166 Views while back, strawberrytea wrote how difficult it is to make new year's resolution as they seem hard to accomplish... i remember writing about new year's resolution, last year's that is... anyway, do you have/make new year's resolutions??? if so, please share... thanks! happy happy new year and holidays!!! sabine of course, i have new year's resolution!!! new year's what??? 0-o no, i gave up on new year's resolution... 25 Comments , 21 votes

10 Reasons Why I would be a Bad Girlfriend... Dec 10, 2007 9:20 am Mood: adventurous, 5091 Views 1. Your parents and siblings might like me more than they like you. (haha) 2. I'm canal without the "C". 3. I might embarrass you by tripping or falling out of nowhere. 4. I wave and say “hi” to babies and kids anywhere and everywhere. 5. I might get too excited over minute thing at a public place. 6. I might just embarrass you by being myself and being weird. (see above) 7. Depending where we go, I might know too many people that you might feel uncomfortable. 8. I go off tangents left and right and that might drive you crazy if you can’t keep up with me. (friend &self-diagnosed ADHD) 9. I hate driving so you have to do all the driving. 10. Did I mention that I’m clumsy? 35 Comments

10 REASONS Why I should be your Girlfriend... Nov 30, 2007 11:13 am Mood: flirtatious, 5985 Views 1. I have a warm and friendly smile. 2. I'm a good cook(in my imagination of course)- can make various kimchees and jji-gaes,japchae, maewoon-tang, dak dorri-tang (4 rx..lol), lasgna, gazpacho,sangria, some thai, and etc. from scratch. please feel to add to the list...haha =p 3. I can pretty much talk about anything to everyone and listen to others too (sometimes)...haha 4. Will listen to you talk how "manly" you are. 5. I'm a good kisser. 6. I'm a wanna be nerdette. 7. I can recommend good movies, books, arts and music if you're bored of just because. 8. I'm genuine and sincere. ^.^ 9. I recycle. 10.Did I mention that I'm a good kisser? =p p.s. this is the very first blog i wrote when i first got onto kff last august, HOWEVER, i'm still single...HMMMMMMMM p.p.s i also have lots for awesomely great single friends(both male and female) but not necessarily koreans...=) SOD: yellow by coldplay 59 Comments

Upgrade??? Too high tech??? Nov 30, 2007 10:47 am Mood: amused, 3760 Views I’ve been staying at my friend’s house… This is my second week and my stay will end soon… Maybe it’s me or maybe it’s a guy thing… Everything at his place is so high tech that i have been having problem using any of the simple necessities in his place… Granted, trying to adjust and to use someone else’s things are never easy especially when my friend is out of country… Here are some examples… He has this high-tech sensor device trashcan that suppose to open if you’re around… The problem is that the freakin trash can opens every time I walk by to get something from the refrigerator but doesn’t want to open it when I’m actually standing in front of the trash can to throw something away, like a banana peel… So what do I??? I walk around and take the long way…well at least I’m walking 10 more steps instead of 2 steps…hehe Those steps can add up you know, especially you’re constantly opening the fridge door…haha I think it took me couple days to finally figure out how to use his another high-tech coffee maker…whatever happened to regular drip or french press??? Oh I don’t even think I should get into tv and his cable system… I know as a fact that I screwed up his pre-programmed tv shows attempting to turn on the tv and trying to watch something through cable…hopefully he won't kill me with one of his other high tech gadgets... Actually that was good since I didn’t even bother with the tv till the second week and I really didn’t need tv… I’m what you call “technically challenged” woman…but all I need is someone to show me HOW to use it…I don’t mind learning it on my own by my mistakes but not at my friend’s expense such as screwing up his pre-programmed shows… I think I definitely like simpler things in life… Ahhhhhh those good old daysssssssssssssssssssssss Simpler the better, not too much choices and not too much confusion… SOD: paranoid android by radiohead MOD: blade runner: final cut 9 Comments

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