wow~!~!~! hate to sound like i'm actually enjoying wuts going on... cuz i really don't like unfortunte things happening to any one ... but very bad negative things have occurred to 2 male members of this site this past week~ they r those who prey on poor vulnerable females on this site who have gone thru alota painful experiences... sorry to say this but they deserve exactly wut has happened to them n hope they take this as wake up call~