| Empty vessels make most noise... |
Jul 9, 2008 4:11 pm
Mood: amused, 789 Views |  | Do you ever find yourself in complaint mode? Do you ever bemoan your luck, whinge at the people character or whine about people actions?
It's not hard to find good reasons to complain about most things/people, if we look hard enough! For those who find themselves complaining a lot it does tend to be learned, developed and practised habit over a long period of time, probably since childhood. For them, it will always feel OK and natural to seek out the things that could be, should be, ought to be better! After all nothing is perfect in an imperfect world! (especially virtual)
The Complainer expects others and the World to make them happy, thought happiness is a self-created state of mind. The Complainer tends to feel powerless and often hopeless, lost in thoughts of his own.
The Complainer is essentially angry. They believe they can effect change and get what they want just by displaying their anger at what has just happened, or not happened. They would probably even start complaining if someone suggested that complaining is not such a bright idea!
Then, you have at the other end those for whom the world is a wonderful place, constantly full of surprises and discoveries, despite what others may see as not wonderful. When things go wrong, or turn less than expected, they accept it, take in the way it is and just keep moving...
Occasionally they are tempted to stop and jump in the light of a negative reflection, but it doesn't last long as they realise that life, in the meantime, is moving on.
Have a beautiful day.
Frenchguy
Song of the day: RADIOHEAD "House of cards" |
| |
|
9 Comments | |
