SHE'S ALWAYS A WOMAN TO ME Mar 16, 2008 7:33 pm Mood: thoughtful, 837 Views http://koreanfriendfinder.com She can kill with a smile, she can wound with her eyes, She can ruin your faith with her casual lies, And she only reveals what she wants you to see. She hides like a child but she's always a woman to me. She can lead you to love, she can take you or leave you, She can ask for the truth but she'll never believe you, And she'll take what you give her as long as it's free, Yeah she steals like a thief but she's always a woman to me. Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants, She's ahead of her time. Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in, She just changes her mind. And she'll promise you more than the garden of Eden then she'll carelessly cut you and laugh while you're bleeding, But she brings out the best and the worst you can be. Blame it all on yourself cause she's always a woman to me. Oh, she takes care of herself, she can wait if she wants, She's ahead of her time. Oh, and she never gives out and she never gives in, She just changes her mind. She is frequently kind and she's suddenly cruel, She can do as she pleases, she's nobody's fool, But she can't be convicted, she's earned her degree, And the most she will do is throw shadows at you But she's always a woman to me. Billy Joel The Stranger Released: 1977 Re-Released: 10/20/98 3 Comments

25 Biggest SIMPS...~WHEN THE WHIP COMES DOWN ~ Apr 11, 2008 11:51 am Mood: amused, 740 Views Some of the most powerful men are nothing but big simps. No wonder America is so feminized. ************************* [B] ~WHEN THE WHIP COMES DOWN ~ The twenty-five most emasculated, disempowered, henpecked husbands on the planet By Matt Haber It's nothing new. Some of history's most celebrated and powerful men were cut down to size by the women in their lives. Samson was famously laid low by Delilah. Ronald Reagan called his wife "Mommy." Even John Lennon fell victim to Yoko, who reportedly left cat turds in his path to remind him who was boss. Ever since our prehistoric ancestors first crawled out of the ocean, took a deep breath of air, and uttered that familiar phrase: "Sure, we can go to the Container Store on Saturday," certain men have buckled under female domination. But is there any doubt we're living in a golden age of rampant, public whipping? Everywhere you look these days, you see the telltale signs of submission: pathological obedience, public humiliation, couples Pilates. It may start with a walk down the aisle-and isn't marriage one of the cornerstones of male acquiescence?-but it doesn't end until you're side by side in the beauty shop, waiting for your matching highlights. Just ask any of these simps. But try not to laugh too loudly; your woman's trying to watch Gossip Girl. 1. Guy Ritchie After the tough-talking shoot-’em-up Lock, Stock and Two Smoking Barrels made him famous, the British director married long-in-the-tooth pop star Madonna and collaborated with her on a train wreck of a shipwreck comedy called Swept Away. The director gets extra lashes for embracing his wife’s trendy spiritual endeavors, reportedly sacrificing what’s left of his career cred on a yet-to-be-released documentary on Kabbalah. But the real reason he tops the list? This photo of Ritchie and Madge and a recently purchased strap-on. But really, who thought she needed one? 2. Doug Christie A running joke among NBA fans holds that giving a friend a jersey emblazoned with the Sacramento Kings’ number 13 is a none too subtle indication that your buddy is terminally whipped. The swingman’s wife, Jackie, followed him on the road, where in a typical game she was treated to as many as fifty hand signals of love and affirmation. In 2002 his public subjugation was celebrated in the sports pages of The New York Times, where Christie boasted: “Every conversation I’ve ever had with a woman since we’ve been married, besides my wife, she knows about.” 3. Eminem You know a guy’s in trouble when he marries the woman he’s spent years openly fantasizing about killing, then he goes and marries her again. 4. Bill Gates Once upon a time, the Microsoft founder was a rapacious evil billionaire in the Montgomery Burns mold. Enter his wife, Melinda, and suddenly Mr. Moneybucks is giving it all away through their Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. Instead of spending his money on toys like personal rocket ships, Gates is now doling out his savings around the globe. Maybe it’s his operating system: Before marrying Melinda in 1994, Gates sought permission from his ex, Ann Winblad. 5. Josh Kelley Marrying Knocked Up star Katherine Heigl might do wonders for the career of this James Blunt wannabe—she did appear in Kelley’s video—but since when did weddings become promotional events? Uh, when the bride’s got a big wedding-themed movie to carry. These striving newlyweds not only provided pictures of the big day to OK! magazine but were married three weeks before 27 Dresses tanked at the box office. At least the marriage outlasted the movie. 6. Marc Anthony “She’s always been the boss!” the lizardy Latin singer told People magazine about his El Cantante costar and producer, wife Jennifer Lopez. “That’s the first thing a man has to know.… Absolutely, no question about it.” At least Anthony is a man of his word: In 2007 the Grammy winner set out on tour with his new wife, performing as her 8 Comments

Again I Ask: Can One Readily Agree with This Analysis in Metaphysics by Immanuel Kant? Jun 21, 2008 3:44 pm Mood: beautiful, 805 Views Of Love To Men Love is a matter of feeling, not of will or volition, and I cannot love because I will to do so, still less because I ought (I cannot be necessitated to love); hence there is no such thing as a duty to love. Benevolence, however (amor benevolentiae), as a mode of action, may be subject to a law of duty. Disinterested benevolence is often called (though very improperly) love; even where the happiness of the other is not concerned, but the complete and free surrender of all one’s own ends to the ends of another (even a superhuman) being, love is spoken of as being also our duty. But all duty is necessitation or constraint, although it may be self-constraint according to a law. But what is done from constraint is not done from love. It is a duty to do good to other men according to our power, whether we love them or not, and this duty loses nothing of its weight, although we must make the sad remark that our species, alas! is not such as to be found particularly worthy of love when we know it more closely. Hatred of men, however, is always hateful: even though without any active hostility it consists only in complete aversion from mankind (the solitary misanthropy). For benevolence still remains a duty even towards the man-hater, whom one cannot love, but to whom we can show kindness. To hate vice in men is neither duty nor against duty, but a mere feeling of horror of vice, the will having no influence on the feeling nor the feeling on the will. Beneficence is a duty. He who often practises this, and sees his beneficent purpose succeed, comes at last really to love him whom he has benefited. When, therefore, it is said: “Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself, ” this does not mean, “Thou shalt first of all love, and by means of this love (in the next place) do him good”; but: “Do good to thy neighbour, and this beneficence will produce in thee the love of men (as a settled habit of inclination to eficence).” The love of complacency (amor complacentiae, ) would therefore alone be direct. This is a pleasure immediately connected with the idea of the existence of an object, and to have a duty to this, that is, to be necessitated to find pleasure in a thing, is a contradiction.' Immanuel Kant (1780) The Metaphysical Elements of Ethics ************ To be socially necessitated to find pleasure in a thing is a contradiction. Innately we are necessitated to find pleasure and avoid pain. ************ I seriously enjoyed Taechons input on the subject. For better enlightenment, his reply is herein ATTATCHED below. anyone else care to add input, please feel free to do so.: Taechons Exceptional Input: Kant is wrong in this regard and I too think he is a great philosopher. The simple fact of the matter is that entire cultures have been based on the idea that individuals have the ability to change their own minds. Make no mistake about it, the largest love organ in the body is the mind and not the heart. (Brain if you like.) One can choose to love. One can choose to remain committed. People,regardless of how romantic Kant's notion of free floating feelings of love are, he is in fact wrong. His division between "love" the emotion and "duty" is not distinct, though he would like it to be. There is not only one way to love as he supposes, but many, and each way with it's own level of duty, commitment, intensity, benevolance and the rest. The feeling of "love" can not be disected from the context in which it occurs. Without the context, love, all love, also vanishes. Here is a thought on "Love thy Neighbor as thy self." This is not a command. It is not a suggestion. It is not a guideline for moral development and it has nothing at all to do with how one goes about treating neighbors or themselves. It is not something one does, but rather, something we are. This is in fact a bit of esoteric knowledge. One can only love a neighbor as they love them self. There is, in fact, no other way to do it. Trust yourself and you will learn to trust others. Trust yourself to be who you really are. No denial. Tell yourself that you are a good person, and recognize the lie. You are in fact both good and bad. Live in delusion and your love of others will also live in delusion. Trust others to be who they are. Love yourself as you are, blinders off, and you will be able to find a way to love others the same. Love yourself with blinders on, you will only see those parts of others that are within your own vision. Knowledge does not rely on "faith." That which is "real" is there for all to see. All one needs is the willingness to open his or her eyes. Love thyself as thy neighbor. You have no choice. This is all any one of us is ever capable of doing. Those who seem to put the lives of others first are in fact the very same people who when in danger themselves somehow find the strength and will to love themselves enough to survive. The strength to love begins inside and is projected outside. We must have the strength before we can use it. Cheers 2 Comments

Intuitive Intuition May 25, 2008 9:55 am Mood: bored, 406 Views Do you ever recognize your intuition as a valuable asset? Some people do and some don't - which group do you fit into? IMHO, it can be easy to trust more in the concrete, factual reality than in such things we can't point a finger at - yet intuition can serve us more than we sometimes realize. That 'gut feeling' we all experience at times can guide us towards caution and alert us to danger. Give it more trust? i think so... Much Love and Respect Noni 1 comment

On "Stepping up to the Plate" ... May 3, 2008 1:46 pm 770 Views Poll Question: Which group is more delusional about their prospects for a romantic future? In other words, which category of broads is less likely to accept their fate, chalk it up to the game, and move on with life? Who's more likely to resort to cheesy shaming tactics? (Sorry, Time Warner subscribers, your remote is useless here. ) **Comment on single women: I think it's important to distinguish between the types of single women: 1) single women who are single because they are decent and are holding out for someone decent 2) single women who are single because they aren't relationship material due to a string of failed relationships or chronically picking bad men...and have too many battle scars and baggage 3) single women who are single because they have kids from previous relationship and nobody wants to stick around long term and be the surrogate daddy Feel free to add... and tell us why you think, ok? Handicapped Women Obese Women Ugly Women Incarcerated/Ex-cons Women under psychiatric care Single Mothers Women with 'Tramp-Stamp' tattoes Amerikkkan Feminists Masculine women Other (please specify) 4 Comments , 1 vote

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