what is love? what symbolizes love? Oct 14, 2007 11:00 pm 2014 Views in the next coming weeks, my cultural emotions class, i have to conduct a presentation on what love is... the things that represents love...but it cannot include hearts, cupid, pink or red...basically the westernized emphasis on valentine's day. what would your symbol of love be without those westernized labels? 9 Comments

catatonic Oct 14, 2007 2:47 pm 1612 Views i feel nothing now. i've been hurt...i just want to make good solid male frienships. if friendship then leads to something else...great! if not, great! i've been hurt time and time again...i'm a little wary of men and their intentions. what hurts the most is when people hurt each other intentionally by defying and degrading that sacred vow they made to each other. it's the lies and the deceit that destroy people. i do not want to participate in that. i don't want to be bitter or angry anymore. i want to just "be"... i want to just have fun, enjoy life. be carefree, not to read into other's intentions. leave me be, let them be. but i want to be selective in who i allow into my life. i have counted more than 10 guys this year that have said and lied about things...things that would make their loved ones roll in their graves. it's not nice to play with people's lives and their emotions. let's just be friends people. no hidden agendas, no hidden plots, no hidden anything. those who are married and attached, please stay true to your significant other and let those who are seeking their mate get a fair chance. everyone desires and deserves true happiness... 4 Comments

why so bitter people? Oct 11, 2007 12:28 pm 1854 Views just because i provoke thought and discussion on the blog world...people are calling me names... 1. grotesque 2. not dangerous nor beautiful 3. bitter hmmm...sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me. this is the philosophy of me...dangerousbeauty. i provoke thought. i provoke controversy. don't you get a kick out of my thoughts? my bitterness? my corkiness? my words? my silliness? my stubbornness? my stupidness? gees people...you need to relax. remember...everything you say and write as a response to my blogs, it goes in my paper due at the end of the quarter. people who have met me know that i am a carefree but honest individual. i give 110% in everything i do...and i mean EVERYTHING. so if you want to spit in my face because i stroke a nerve...go ahead. if you want to commend me in my thought processes...go ahead. i am who i am. very few will know me...very few will meet me...very few will really be my friend from here... but this is the internet...relax ppl. it's a blog... 7 Comments

FEEL SORRY FOR SINGLE PEOPLE... Oct 9, 2007 7:22 pm 1777 Views a recent blog from a male KFF'er brought my attention. normal...what is normal? there is always a degree of normalcy that is rated by each individual. each person has a different definition. what about the stupid bast--ds (i mean this equally to both men and women) that claim to be single and they are married... are they normal? how about the lives they destroy??????? does this help those who are single, both men and women, who are seeking for that special someone... what about those women on here that are married but are seeking the 40-60 y.o. to take care of them because their husbands are boring... how does this rate with those whom have never been married and seeking their special someone? are we to settle for those who had their chance at their first love, didn't work out, or isn't working out? there isn't a wrong or right answer... but i am sick and tired of those who are married and seeking fun with singles because their married life is too constraining or too tedious. explain that... 10 Comments

waiting for...lightning to strike Oct 8, 2007 9:25 pm 1575 Views I am hopeful. I want a real Christian man...not the ones I've been meeting lately stating that they are Christian. It's those men that bring Christianity a bad name. I want a confidant, my equal, a man who will challenge my thoughts, my emotions, my learning skills. Someone who will stimulate my thoughts... 2 Comments

what seals the deal? Oct 8, 2007 11:58 am 2096 Views how would you like a woman to end the date? a hug? a kiss? a french kiss? being able to get to second base? able to get to third base? all out...all the way? 18 Comments , 15 votes

item of clothing Oct 8, 2007 11:50 am 1705 Views what item of clothing would you like to help take off the other person? i love to start controversy... 6 Comments

lightning could strike... Oct 5, 2007 11:10 am 1747 Views love the movie...meet joe black. leivitating. getting carried away. fall deeply in love. people come in and out of your life. it's sad when things don't happen the way you wish it to be. a very good friend of mine yesterday helped me get some sense knocked into me. my rescuer from my horrible fiasco in NY stated that i am the sensible girl which needs to be swept away. a man who challenges me. a man who can satisy my every need--emotionally, physically, sexually, mentally, etc. etc. one who is so smitten with me that it's unbelievable. someone who always makes time for you. he also said, a guy isn't into you if he makes excuses. everyone has a minute of their day to call and say hello. if they say they are busy with work, family obligations, or just too tired..they are full of shiet. eventhough my friend and i haven't been friends for that long, he brought it into perspective. if a guy really likes you...he'll make any reason to hear your voice. want to know how your day is going... a few minutes less of sleep. on his way to grab a bite to eat. a few seconds before he lays his head on the pillow. if the guy doesn't do that...bottom line. he isn't into you or he's attached or he's married. excuses don't make the man. it's a guy who owns up to his manhood that makes him a man. my friend's words brought up the the phrase...who knows...lightning could strike. thank you my friend...i am hopeful. 5 Comments

ridiculous Oct 4, 2007 12:20 pm 1643 Views it's really ridiculous how men and women on here are seeking out the other for fun when they are married. don't they know that they are destroying their lives along with the lives of their spouse's and children (god forbid they procreated). why do people cheat and lie anyway? they can't play the fantasy world with their spouse at home? look at all the other sites where they welcome that fantasy and role playing. i just don't understand why they do that...that leaves all the real good people who are looking for that someone special being jaded and betrayed. for those who got caught and those who haven't been caught yet...karma. it's a funny thing. it'll catch up to you. it seriously will. 4 Comments

what do people want out of life? Oct 4, 2007 9:38 am 1850 Views it's interesting how the dynamics of women and men. the whole aspect of female and male roles have changed too. more and more women are the bread-winners of the house. some are single parents. some men have to be the mom and dad in a child's life. we are running so thin on energy. it's hard for anyone to take time for themselves. i was so exhausted from this past weekend... 1) fighting with a long-time girlfriend of 10 years 2) retarded 10 sec man who couldn't man up to not wanting to see me, used his "dying" father as an excuse a new friend in my life brought alot of things into perspective last night. people will be people. there are some nice ones and some not so nice. awaiting upon some things upcoming in my life, assignments due, readings to continue, i was in a slump. i was depressed, angry, bitter, and hurt. but being the person that i am. if i am threatened and cornered...i come out fighting. i was doing that for the last couple of days. now after a full nights sleep. accomplishing a week long accounting assignment last night. things are going to be taken in stride. i am not going to have anyone bother me to that degree ever again. i was soooooooooo sick this weekend that i couldn't function at work or at school. not going to have anyone take away my pride or my emotions again. believe me...that dumb-a-- 10 sec man is gonna get it... but i feel sad for whomever he does end up with or his wife--if he was married as i suspected. i am gonna be dangerousbeauty...the carefree, friendly, nothing-can-stop me, passionate woman that i was before all these dumb-a-- guys came into my life. sex? sure... commitment? sure... anything goes. but i don't want to be your next mama. please...go home crying to your own that bore you out of her womb. i don't have time to babysit you!!! just my thoughts...need to run to class now... 8 Comments

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