I love being dismissed
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It's the greatest feeling on Earth. Dismissal comes in three forms: 1) The Narrow Mind (or the "That's never happened to me" route) Instantly, this puts me on the defensive, diminishing my pain and misery (or experience) into a "well, you haven't met the right people" or "you're wrong" line. 2) The Amateur Psychologist (or the "You need to look at yourself" route) Again, this puts me on the defensive. People like to point the fingers at me for my pain and misery. . .but I already point all ten of my fingers at me. How many more fingers can blame me? 3) The Ultimate Dismissal (or the "you're fishing for sympathy) route) I don't know where to start with this. It's destructive, defeating, demoralizing and destined to make me sink even more inside my shell and inside my walls. There is a fourth, which I call the Evangelist (or the "put your faith in God" line). THERE IS NOT GOD DAMN GOD!!! Don't convince me there is. There isn't. These are the typical reactions to the misery and pain I have. It fuels the pain and hurt into a spiral the size of the Niagara River whirlpool. I'm 26 days sober and on my 10th attempt to remain so, and all I hear is the bottle calling me back. |
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1/22/2009 12:37 pm |
1) I wouldn't call that narrow minded. It could just be that they view things differently. Maybe they've experienced the same thing as you have but have different perspective on the experience. For example, you call it misery, others may call it a life experience and laugh it off. I'm not saying you're perspective is negative all the time, it may or may not be. OR, of course everyone has different experiences. What is it that you want other than "well, that never happened to me" answer? 2)Hmmmm you need to look at yourself? How the hell is that pointing fingers? You definitely take things for granted and not see the beauty of things. Isn't the psycologist trying to help you? Instead of being so defensive, did you take his advice and look at yourself? Why don't you criticize his skill AFTER you have tried what he suggested? In my opinion, I think you are being arrogant. You're too busy criticizing other's reaction toward your behavior that you are forgetting the reason for such behavior. Didn't you go to the psycologist to get advice and not criticize him? have a little faith dear. 3) Sympathy? Well if everyone says that your just seeking sympathy. Maybe they are right. or maybe not. If you sincerely are not seeking sympathy. Why don't you just say screw them and move on? what's the big deal? Go clubbing, dance the night away, and forget those people who said you are asking for sympathy. If that's not the truth, soon the truth will be revealed. 4) LASTLY, hmm.. about the existance of God, think of it this way. Case 1 -----> There is no heaven or hell. Case 2----> There is heaven and hell. If you had NOT believed that there is God and Jesus had died for you, there is no loss for you in case 1. But in case 2, you go to hell. Let's say you had believe that there is God and Jesus died for you, there's still no loss for you in case 1. But in case 2, you would go to heaven. So my suggestion is, why don't you just go with the safe side.. you know..... just in case....  If I may, let me ask you this, what reaction is it that you want from others in reaction to your "misery and pain"? I mean it looks like you are not satisfied with the reactions that you've gotten so far. And do you see that if YOU have misery and pain, others have misery and pain also. Others' misery and pain may be slightly different from yours but apparently, others are dealing with their misery and pain differently. ANWAYS, ur soju bottle is calling you, lols. Gum bae~
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1/22/2009 2:10 pm |
As long as you love something, your case is not so desperate...
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1/23/2009 12:05 am |
Future, your incorrigible. Here is a tribute to folks like you on the internet. And when you do get the chance, sit down take a deep breathe and think about yourself and your need to find ~a n y b o d y~ to dump on and fight with just because they've extended a hand out to assist you in any way that they can our of concern and/or love for your well-being. And think about why YOU have urges to watch certain people you do not seem to like due to their response, and then go on to target that person, (inside of your mind...), to fight with. Think about things that make you mad and sad and then try not to project your own low self-worth onto others in an attempt to save face. Learn about yourself and make some positive changes is the best advice you have gotten so far from others here, seriously,...They seem to have more RESPECT for you than you tend to have for yourself. Whenever you follow the online crowd here around on the chat forum and they dont do the same to you that you do and say to them, ...that's when YOU know its time for you step off, and reevaluate the insecure-complexities within your own mind. The sacrifices of others, although now necessary, and despite your ungrateful response here resorting to personal abuse been unwarranted and unfair. Look in the mirror, Future, and then look at the clock and realize how old you are. Pull yourself together as this world is only what YOU make of it, with or without your 'concept' of 'God'...that is whoever he may be for you. Yep and of course Im laughing now,... because its funny ...yet sad. The extremes you go too... Tsk Tsk... Makes me sad. Really. No sarcasm intended. Ya got serious problems. Possibly because you forget GOD? Go figure. "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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1/24/2009 8:11 am |
lol slumdog wow
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1/24/2009 11:57 pm |
AeG ! U such an intellectual  I thought u were good at only hating people adamantly. reg sd854 You seek for hatred, man, and you are quite successful at least in this domain...
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