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Do you regret doing it? How far is too far on a first date? I’ll really Appreciate your advice & comments in this one. Thanks 
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 5/2/2008 11:13 pm |
hmmm hard for a guy to take you seriously when you show too much on your pictures...if you just want s--e--x from the guys here...u are advertising it very well!!!! just a thought.
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5/3/2008 12:41 am |
sex on first date..means your desperate or you just want a 1 nite stand..or see how many guys you can get to bed. just my thought
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 5/3/2008 5:13 am |
we don't mind.... but guys won't respect ya. Any guy that is worthanything will wait a while.
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5/3/2008 6:34 am |
What DB and Ren say is true. but are we talking about someone you just met, say like a week or less? or is it someone that you have known a long time? someone that you have had long conversations with? Someone that has been a friend, and is now a love interest?
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5/3/2008 11:35 am |
If chemistry is there, why not. But if you are looking for something of substance though, I suggest holding off.
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5/3/2008 12:29 pm |
Hello Xylyl, Contrary to Korn, i mind. Having sex on the first date will "stamp" you as easy girl. It will not bring trust from the male (if you have sex with me at first sight, it means you do the same with other guys too... may be the day before ?) And reverse the situation, a male who will wait fews dates before having sex is worth more "consideration"... i think. Have a beautiful day
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5/3/2008 2:45 pm |
How far is too far on a first date? As far as to the front door, exchange goodbyes and walk away...dignity intact. "Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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5/3/2008 4:57 pm |
I don't put out on the first date. I am shy. PS -- nice pic. Don't listen to Juice.
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5/3/2008 6:36 pm |
"How far is too far on a first date? " With the price of gas these days, too far is not as far as it used to be. (mua huh huh...eheh...) Whaddya lookin at hah?
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5/3/2008 7:34 pm |
I disagree with some of the men especially. If a woman is madly in love with you then she might make love on the first date out of blind passion. Afterwards you might get married and live happily ever after. I don't think you can judge how a woman behaves with everyone by how she behaves with you. If you are her first 'love' then why would she act the same with you as to other people? Personally I am not interested in making love before marriage but i would not look down on someone i loved if they wanted to.
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5/3/2008 8:57 pm |
I disagree with some of the men especially. If a woman is madly in love with you then she might make love on the first date out of blind passion. Afterwards you might get married and live happily ever after. I don't think you can judge how a woman behaves with everyone by how she behaves with you. If you are her first 'love' then why would she act the same with you as to other people? Personally I am not interested in making love before marriage but i would not look down on someone i loved if they wanted to.
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5/4/2008 1:03 am |
If you have known someone for a while as an aquaintance or collegue, or else gone through some life-changing experience together , before you went on a date with them, then you may have such a deeper bond than two people who met on a blind date.
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5/4/2008 4:34 am |
I see, I see.
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5/4/2008 11:47 am |
Unfortunately in this society “The Book is judge by the cover” I opened this blog to gain a little be more knowledge about this subject, witch, I think, Is very controversial in both, male and female. Every body has a different opinion regards of were they came from, and totally respect that, also about my picture I feel Very confident about my body and my sexuality, I don’t see it as an “advertising“, but neither I’m going to change the way I dress, or the way I am so people don’t talk about me, they going to talk anyways… “Other people's opinion of you does not have to become your reality” I believe that is 100% in how a WOMAN carry herself. And how confident she feels about herself also. Others R only mirrors of u‘. U’ cannot love or hate something about another unless it reflects something u’ love or hate within about yourself. ______________________________________________________________________ but you changed your pic...so obviously i wasn't entirely wrong. it is true people are going to judge the cover before they know the inside of the person. but if your insides are bustin out then the men will definitely only want you for your insides and not your personality or your mind. men are dogs...will remain a dog. you just have to find a guy that acts less than a dog at times or is able to control his "dogness." i'm judged all the time whether i'm dressed in a suit or dressed for a night on the town. do what makes you comfortable but i think a woman shouldn't advertise wanting just a sexual relationship by revealing too much skin. just remember men think with their other head, not the one above their shoulders. thanks for your opinion.
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5/4/2008 7:39 pm |
hahahah any time girly...
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5/4/2008 8:49 pm |
How far is too far on a first date? As far as to the front door, exchange goodbyes and walk away...dignity intact. Thanks ^ ^ I think you are right in some part. ~~~> you erased my post? Yet, I do see strength in your character as you've taken the good counsel dished out to you by posting a more personable pic of yourself. You ARE a very beautiful young lady.... which is what others here want to see ...and get to know better. Thank YOU ^^ "Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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5/6/2008 4:12 am |
How far is too far on a first date? As far as to the front door, exchange goodbyes and walk away...dignity intact. no quotes? Juice, what s wrong with you? *checking Noni's forehead.... lol...
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5/6/2008 7:33 am |
I don't put out on the first date. I am shy. PS -- nice pic. Don't listen to Juice. Why Pepe? 'cause I'm human but not Korean like you? "Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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5/6/2008 8:11 am |
JUICE When I said not to listen to you, I was referring to your saying that her initial pic was inappropriate. I liked the pic. Your not being a Korean, well, that IS a handicap. lol...
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5/10/2008 8:42 am |
depends on you, i don't suggest to go for that one yr first date
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5/10/2008 1:00 pm |
JUICE When I said not to listen to you, I was referring to your saying that her initial pic was inappropriate. I liked the pic. Your not being a Korean, well, that IS a handicap. lol... Pepe... Where is your neck? (smile) "Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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5/17/2008 5:56 am |
xyly.. Everyday since this post, I've seen many of your profile pictures..Very nice!! I love em all!! You are a very pretty lady. I wish I can take good pictures - envious. I can't wait for the next one!
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5/19/2008 7:42 am |
Let me tell you, when you feel it's alright, just DO it!
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5/19/2008 3:26 pm |
Definitely NO!!.....sex should be that last one special and sacred thing between two people who make a connection. First dates should be viewed as an opportunity for two consenting adults to get to know each other & use it as a platform to decide whether they wish to see each other again. Why trivialize such a special moment in the name of lust.....they is plenty of time for lust and countless sexual encounters when you have chosen to commit to each other. YES, I am Old Fashioned!....but I have self respect & If you cant respect yourself you cant respect others!
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5/20/2008 5:18 am |
There is no rule in our universe such that a man and a woman should only have sex after x days they met. It can be one month after dating or 2 months, or it can be 2 hours. Sex is a special and scared thing, so do it when you have good feel to it, regardless what is the time duration of that relationship. I am a very old fashioned Korean man, I am shy and conservative too, but I can have sex immediately when I meet the person I like.
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5/20/2008 9:10 pm |
I think you should have sex before the date, that way there is no tension and you can get a feel for whats to come and have some hopes and expectation of the good times to come. Seriously, I do not think, sex on the first date is a measure of the person. I have enjoyed lasting relationships which started from sex on the first or second date. If you are not comfortable, or if the "sex" is about dominance not sharing then that is not the best condition conducive for a relationship, if that is what you are looking for. If you looking for quickie or a good time with no strings then more power to you.
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5/21/2008 10:23 pm |
Yes! Have you people watched those American motion pictures? A man asked a woman to have dinner, then the man walked the woman home and he would be invited in for a coffee, eventually the man would sleep with the woman and had breakfast at her place the next morning. So that is it! What's wrong? I can see none!
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5/24/2008 9:52 am |
You are very beautiful!
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5/26/2008 8:47 am |
Shall we hook up?
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5/30/2008 8:12 pm |
I advise to carry condoms alongwith as a contingency measure.hehe.I mean just in case........... noones BT
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6/6/2008 6:11 am |
Good advice BT! I place condoms everywhere (wallet, briefcase, glove box, golf bag, desk drawer, under pillows...you name it) just in case, so I am ready to do it even in car, office, toilet....
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6/8/2008 11:54 pm |
yes that's right
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6/8/2008 11:54 pm |
he's smart
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6/8/2008 11:55 pm |
she's thought about this
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6/8/2008 11:56 pm |
that's silly
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