My Thoughts on Shaming Tactics...and YOU.
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5/21/2008 3:46 pm |
Have you ever seen crabs in a bucket or tub? When one of them tries to escape and has a good chance, the other crabs pull him down too. Same thing with SOME people: They don't like it when things are not in uniform... aka conformity -if you are not doing it THEIR WAY, you must be doing it wrong, no matter what. They HATE IT however they find out when someone is happy (either with his marriage or single life or getting paid a lot of money, etc.)! Duh? BUT they HATE IT EVEN MORE when someone they KNOW CLOSE made the right decisions and is really enjoying his/her life! Best way to reflect everything they say is to simply disregard them because IT IS ultimately YOU who is responsible for YOUR HAPPINESS! These shamers/blamers are dependent on outside sources in order to be HAPPY and never hold themselves responsible. For them, it is easier to blame someone/something else than it is say that they really F*CKED UP themselves. Who in the hell would say: "Yeah, I screwed up... my marriage is not worth it. I wished I stayed single doing whatever I wanted." Hmm... Let them "clown" around in their own lives. Ah, yes, the tears of a clown... ...except looking back, YOU are gonna be the one enjoying the fun ride in life! In the long run... THREE CHEERS to being true to YOU! To Life, Freedom, and Happiness!  "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler |
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5/21/2008 4:31 pm |
Noni, thanks so much for the "short" (relatively speaking) post... but I think I need more clarification. Dummy like me needs clear WHOs and WHATs. have a good one.
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5/22/2008 11:13 am |
so maybe you shouldn t be writing at all, to keep your dear pepe from contradicting himself.
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5/22/2008 11:14 am |
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5/22/2008 11:33 pm |
You write a good, oh! And you can pay a friend? Will be paid a return 
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5/23/2008 7:31 am |
so maybe you shouldn t be writing at all, to keep your dear pepe from contradicting himself.  "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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5/23/2008 7:43 am |
Thank you, Huanglu126. BTW, Welcome to my carpet (blogg).  Much Love and Respect, Noni "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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5/23/2008 7:43 am |
 "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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