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| The Pimp Game... and Women Who Love It. |
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NoniJuice4
5/18/2008 1:07 pm
Last Read: 7/14/2008 7:24 am
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Why do some women think a real man has XYZ traits... and do not account for the possibility that they are wrong about a guy until the fallout? ...and even then many of these women still do not learn...*sigh*
How these women figure men treating them like sh*t equals masculinity I'll never know, as disrespect is disrespect.
IMO, women who accept this sort of treatment gravitate towards it or literally prefer that guys deal with them like they're some kind of stray-dog, b*tch-in-heat, off the street type. They are either just stupid, or, they are just...a b*tch off the street, ...and STRONGLY in need of some good, old-fashioned home training.
I was watching this episode on The Shield the other day, and they were interrogating a pimp. They were trying to find out how he was able to turn out(prostitute) a woman who was a PhD in law, held an MBA and was a corporate laywer...
...how he was able to get into the mind to have her thinking it's better to sell punta out of a community center...than stand on the strength of her credentials.
He said,..
"Every woman has a hole in her heart to match the hole between her legs. I just have to figure out how I'm gonna fill hers. I find that thing that she needs and I keep feeding it to her and feeding it to her...
...then I take it away,...
...and she can't live without it...
then...I am God..."
Here, here said the unjust thug...
And what he basically said,... ...I now understand:
THIS is the pimp game.
THIS is how pimps turn women out, messing with their emotions...like a dope pusher who gives the first hit free, then sticks it to you when you come back feignin' for more of the same.
IMO pimps, players, jerks, and bad boys are using the 'pimp game' to make women their 'emotional wh*res', at least from a mental standpoint; Yet, in the women's minds, there is nothing wrong with it.
But viewing these 'woe-men', tails wagging in anticipation, their behavior mimics the drug-seeking behavior: It's that 'dopamine-in-the- brain' mentality that's triggered by the emotional highs and lows of attention-whoring. Men become simply the pushers and women... merely looking to get high.
Pimp Game in a Nutshell:
...Pump a woman's head up, tell her the right things, compliment her, give her attention... Turn around the next day or next week and act like she never even existed..."It's not all about you. You ain't sh*t"... Works like a charm... Even if the guy doesn't get the goods, he can still keep these ~stupid women~ chasing after him forever using this method -- and then jump from one 'dog' to another as time and necessity allow *sigh*and woemen...rival in the possibility of having their turn in the 'spotlight'.
...Like I said, these women who cater to the dogish mentality of these types of men are something else! (and to think they come online weeping and in the state of victimization after they are finally 'pumped n dumped'-- as if they ever had the guy in the first place?) Yet, what's real dumb about it is that these 'type' of women don't seem to respond to decent guys unless they are spitting some pimp or player game.
Truly amazing.... for it takes a 'wh*re'... to fall for a 'pimp'.
"Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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11 posts 5/18/2008 11:47 pm |
Truly amazing.... for it takes a wh*re... to fall for a pimp
humm..very interesting post indeed, but i do not agree with your closing statement. What i get out of your post is: all women have the potential to be "whores" it just depends on the cleverness of the pimp.
I must say..i have seen highly educated women with pimps. Movies and tv show paint a picture of whores as 'the poor unfortunate girl", which can be the case.....but not the only case.
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314 posts 5/19/2008 3:45 pm |
Quoting jazzblowin2: Truly amazing.... for it takes a wh*re... to fall for a pimp
humm..very interesting post indeed, but i do not agree with your closing statement. What i get out of your post is: all women have the potential to be "whores" it just depends on the cleverness of the pimp.
I must say..i have seen highly educated women with pimps. Movies and tv show paint a picture of whores as 'the poor unfortunate girl", which can be the case.....but not the only case.
Hello Jazzblowin2.
Welcome to my carpet (blog).
You know, I have to respect your opinion on my closing statement:
"Truly amazing.... for it takes a 'wh*re'... to fall for a 'pimp'."
But please know, It is what It is...
Let the women who go after this sort of man have at the bad boys, Hmm? Any way you slice it: Sh*t women and sh*t men belong together. It is the law of nature itself....and proves out over anything in the long run....
These type of women can have these bad boys and keep 'em. Lol... They need not DARE step to any decent men like my impressionable sons after the "bad boy" encounter blowd up in their faces (like I already KNOW will happen). When these women are finally left hanging, knocked up, beat up, used up and weighed down with age, weight, STDs and/or 'thugspawn' kids, they should KEEP going to the bad boys, because decent men want WOMEN who spend their best years with making for themselves better contributors to future stable families, instead of woe-men who are screwing around until they are worthless casualties when reality cracks them upside the head.
Yes, It takes a 'wh*re'...to fall for a pimp in IMO. Better they leave decent men alone after getting used to and used up from their 'bad boy' period, hm?
Also, when a WOMAN wants to go around making 'bad boys' into 'good men', it always fails. They then always seem to want the already decent man AFTER they are all used up. Duh? ...and you got some really dumb ankles who support this mess, giving advice, and yet wondering why marriage rates continue to drop in this country. You Go ,Girl!! Eh right.
These 'stupid wh*res'( excuse my language...mad..)... continue to try and to turds into gold... and fail miserably.*sigh* I hope for better choices for my own son.... as nowadays these sort of woe-men keep doing the same sh*t,ever learning, expecting different results, and failing.
TOTAL FRICKEN NONSENSE! Talk about dogs spinning around, chasing the tail!
These girls are saying in essence:
"Give me a bad boy, a true thug; I have the mystical powers to reform him into a good man, a solid citizen, who will love, honor and cherish meeee!"
But... then 'ladies', he won't be exciting anymore, he'll be dull, predictable, devoted.... WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DOOOOOO????!!!
I KNOW!... You'll just toss HIM aside and find another rogue who could use your unique 'services', Hmm? I'm sure he's out there waiting, woe-men...*sigh* (Just not my son, alright? (smile))
(sigh) I just wish I could find a nice, decent man for a change...
Eh Right.
Now THAT was a NONI rant, Jazzblowin2.
Welcome to my blog.
"Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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11 posts 5/20/2008 3:02 am |
Now THAT was a NONI rant, Jazzblowin2.
This is your house, and if you can't rant in your house then where can you rant? 
In my experience it's the good girls that love bad boys. The boy next door dose not interest her, they prefer the excitement of the bad boy.
And i understand that.
I dated a bad girl for awhile. She was a beautiful sexy girl. We always had fun. The sex was intense, the romance high and passionate.
On the other hand, she loved to get butt ugly drunk with her girls and try to convince me to let her stay at my place. I never did.
It also took me awhile to make it real to her she may want to call the cops on her Bf that broke her arm (i had to convince her when he swung at her with an metal pole and she heard a crack...that was him braking her arm as opposed to him just playing around) and threaten to shoot her with a gun.
That lasted about 4 months.
I think a little bad boy and bad girl is fine to a point.
I love May West's line, when i am good i am good, but when i am bad i am better.
But for the long haul...i'll take the girl next door any time.
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1330 posts 5/20/2008 5:21 pm |
with all due respect, I think the mechanics of why some females are turned on by dominant male / male acts is a lot more complicated than what you portray.
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314 posts 5/21/2008 4:10 pm |
Quoting jazzblowin2: Now THAT was a NONI rant, Jazzblowin2.
This is your house, and if you can't rant in your house then where can you rant? 
In my experience it's the good girls that love bad boys. The boy next door dose not interest her, they prefer the excitement of the bad boy.
And i understand that.
I dated a bad girl for awhile. She was a beautiful sexy girl. We always had fun. The sex was intense, the romance high and passionate.
On the other hand, she loved to get butt ugly drunk with her girls and try to convince me to let her stay at my place. I never did.
It also took me awhile to make it real to her she may want to call the cops on her Bf that broke her arm (i had to convince her when he swung at her with an metal pole and she heard a crack...that was him braking her arm as opposed to him just playing around) and threaten to shoot her with a gun.
That lasted about 4 months.
I think a little bad boy and bad girl is fine to a point.
I love May West's line, when i am good i am good, but when i am bad i am better.
But for the long haul...i'll take the girl next door any time.
May West's line...lol
But for the long haul, I totally agree: 'Next door" is better.
Though I already know that I'm not spittin' some game you weren't already up on, Jazzblowin2...lol... I do understand that what most men need to come to grips with is that rampant promiscuity hurts them as much as it hurts women.
In relationships today, women no longer need to seek men out on the basis of how much he's willing to provide and take care of her; rather, they can now take advantage of their sexual and economic freedom to bed the men of their choosing, i.e. bad boys and thugs, while a great majority of men are forced to "pick up the scraps" these type of men leave behind.
In truth, the only type of men who benefit from the promiscuous system are the player bad boy types who can monopolize off of women's retarded, and somewhat primitive sexual instincts. As such, the nice, provider type males have to settle... for they can, and tend to, miss out on the most attractive women solely because these type of women tend to get used up by the 'bad boy' crowd.
To sum up, free s*x may appear to be a good deal for some men, but it will ultimately screw them out of the real women they really want to bring home to Mama, hmm?
Thanks for your thoughts on this, Jazzblowin2...
"Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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314 posts 5/21/2008 4:40 pm |
Quoting sweetpepe: with all due respect, I think the mechanics of why some females are turned on by dominant male / male acts is a lot more complicated than what you portray.
The Mechanics? 
what's that. Pepe? Reads like a book I never opened, Pepe. Summary please...
...as I think "Smart Mechanics" involves the picking up no scraps. Yet too many men do, and that is why females get the idea that they can be a sl*t and a wh*re for the 'player/bad boy/pimp' out there and then still get a 'good man' after they're burnt out on screwing everybody....and the ones who ~SAVE~ them, Simps, are also screwing it up for everybody in catering to them.
Desperation because of the PERCIEVED value of the female anatomy in one who looks somewhat decent sadly in some cases is a woman who is straight-up gutter trash.
What every right-thinking male who isn't about the b*lsh*t of picking up scarps need to do is to stop accepting 'sub-standard women' in his life. maybe they will all of a sudden get some act right...in the next century, that is...lol.
Mechanics of why some females are turned on by dominant male/male acts?? Alpha male behavior you mean? Mechanics, Hmm?
Well, IF you must pay attention to wh*re-like activity in woe-men, I suggest your renting a few good pornos, Hmm? You'll get more entertainment for your money from some pro's putting it down, rather than getting over-charged by amature street urchins who could very well give you a disease or two before they give you a good time.

"Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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314 posts 5/21/2008 5:12 pm |
Speaking of 'Mechanics"...let me go a bit deeper for the 'babes', Ok?
When promiscuous men ('players/bad boys/pimps') monopolize females' time and attention, the only person it is meant to benefit is him himself. In the old system, this was actually a good thing: the knuckle dragging ape man with 2 lb balls who could kill a tiger with his bare hands and a rock fought and lived long enough to impregnate many many many women and continue his line for at least one more generation...the man who could not, didn't. Obviously, it's more complex than this, because beta males always get some as well. However, the actions of the first man pretty much never benefited the interests of the second.
Now, today, in terms of 'mechanics', the scene is different: I'm not going to knock physical survival at all, but nowdays, the man who can act and think within the confines of society is generally the alpha male.
Rarely does one need to bash anyone or anything's head in with a rock. The biggest danger today isn't from outside predators, it's from doing something to get society to ostracize you so badly you can't possibly survive. If you don't believe me, take a walk outside, no weapons or anything, for about a hundred yards. Unless you are in the deep dark ghetto or terrorist land, you'll ~probably~ make it back alive. Now if you were to physically assault a 4 yr old child out on your front porch, you wouldn't make it 10 yards. Wild animals are not the biggest threat in today's world, a pissed off populace is.
Now (as to not rehash an old point), the people who once would have been alphas, are now dysfuctional in society, and the men who operate by society's rules and logic the best, should technically be alphas. Yet unless they're making huge amounts of money, in ameriskank society they aren't getting alpha or beta females. This is due both to women's outmoded metrics of attraction, as well as the banishment of shame from the mating game.
Back in the day, only 9 and 10 classified women pursued 10 men, and so on and so forth. Now, 700 lb Rasputia women think they're the new Helen of Troy,... and if you don't treat them like that they're insulted. Simps out here blowing up these females heads to think more of themselves than what they are ain't helping either. It is the feminist/sexual revolution has removed any incentive for women to settle down with alpha male/provider men cause they simply can use birth control to screw the men of their fantasies: thugs. In old times, it was far more riskier for a woman to engage in irresponsible sexual relations because it was hard to avoid unwanted pregnancy. As such, there was societal, religious, and economic reasons why women married men who were more likely to settle down with them and provide for them. And even if women still manage to pop out tons of kids---like American females---there's still alot of benefits government confers onto women that further remove any incentive on settling down with 'good men' who'll provide for them i.e. welfare, child custody, paternity suits, divorce court rape, etc etc.
On sweetPepe's statement:
"with all due respect, I think the mechanics of why some females are turned on by dominant male / male acts is a lot more complicated than what you portray."
You're right... in admitting how women still maintain their primitive attraction to men who exude physicality and aggression. The thing is, the 'attraction' that women have is problematic to civilized society. Before the advent of human civilization, it would've been advantageous for women to hook up with a man who's more capable of fighting off wild animals. Nowadays, however,... there's no need to do such things anymore but women STILL retain that 'irrational attraction' to men who give off ~the appearance of~... being extremely aggressive. With the advent of the sexual revolution, these woemen can now screw these kind of men with upmost joy; and when they have a misshap YOU will get rampant illegitimate children and the 'Maury Povich Notoriety', hmm? 
"Only two things infinite, the universe and human stupidity, - I'm not sure about the former."
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11 posts 5/24/2008 6:24 am |
Juice, once again you got me laughing
This is due both to women's outmoded metrics of attraction I get that you think the "cave man thing" is an outmoded methoded to find a mate, what are some others?
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11 posts 5/24/2008 6:26 am |
Quoting sweetpepe: with all due respect, I think the mechanics of why some females are turned on by dominant male / male acts is a lot more complicated than what you portray.
Hey sweetpea, what do you think the reasons are? Can you explain your view?
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1330 posts 5/24/2008 9:22 am |
Quoting jazzblowin2: Hey sweetpea, what do you think the reasons are? Can you explain your view?
I have a strange feeling that you know this answer already, old man.
IT might have a lot to do with a woman's father.... can t explain it fully... if I did, I d write a book. Some women have rape fantasies (known a few personally). Some are really aroused when male tries to dominate her. I m not talking about freaky women, I m talking about well educated women with high self-esteem. The kind of people that very few males would even DARE raise his voice let alone his eyebrows. Know what I mean?
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11 posts 5/27/2008 9:31 pm |
Well sweet pepe, i think i understand in part where you are coming from and what you are trying to explain.
I have met women that wanted to be dominated, and some desire it with intensity. I found, as you said, some were well educated but not all.
I have lived in Major cites, Los Angeles (5years in Korea Town) and San Francisco, been around all types of people. But i've never met a women that wanted to be raped.
So, be careful with that type of thinking, you don't want to get yourself in difficult situation.
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14 posts 6/9/2008 12:03 am |
Quoting NoniJuice4: Hello Jazzblowin2.
Welcome to my carpet (blog).
You know, I have to respect your opinion on my closing statement:
"Truly amazing.... for it takes a 'wh*re'... to fall for a 'pimp'."
But please know, It is what It is...
Let the women who go after this sort of man have at the bad boys, Hmm? Any way you slice it: Sh*t women and sh*t men belong together. It is the law of nature itself....and proves out over anything in the long run....
These type of women can have these bad boys and keep 'em. Lol... They need not DARE step to any decent men like my impressionable sons after the "bad boy" encounter blowd up in their faces (like I already KNOW will happen). When these women are finally left hanging, knocked up, beat up, used up and weighed down with age, weight, STDs and/or 'thugspawn' kids, they should KEEP going to the bad boys, because decent men want WOMEN who spend their best years with making for themselves better contributors to future stable families, instead of woe-men who are screwing around until they are worthless casualties when reality cracks them upside the head.
Yes, It takes a 'wh*re'...to fall for a pimp in IMO. Better they leave decent men alone after getting used to and used up from their 'bad boy' period, hm?
Also, when a WOMAN wants to go around making 'bad boys' into 'good men', it always fails. They then always seem to want the already decent man AFTER they are all used up. Duh? ...and you got some really dumb ankles who support this mess, giving advice, and yet wondering why marriage rates continue to drop in this country. You Go ,Girl!! Eh right.
These 'stupid wh*res'( excuse my language...mad..)... continue to try and to turds into gold... and fail miserably.*sigh* I hope for better choices for my own son.... as nowadays these sort of woe-men keep doing the same sh*t,ever learning, expecting different results, and failing.
TOTAL FRICKEN NONSENSE! Talk about dogs spinning around, chasing the tail!
These girls are saying in essence:
"Give me a bad boy, a true thug; I have the mystical powers to reform him into a good man, a solid citizen, who will love, honor and cherish meeee!"
But... then 'ladies', he won't be exciting anymore, he'll be dull, predictable, devoted.... WHAT ARE YOU GONNA DOOOOOO????!!!
I KNOW!... You'll just toss HIM aside and find another rogue who could use your unique 'services', Hmm? I'm sure he's out there waiting, woe-men...*sigh* (Just not my son, alright? (smile))
(sigh) I just wish I could find a nice, decent man for a change...
Eh Right.
Now THAT was a NONI rant, Jazzblowin2.
Welcome to my blog.
preach it
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14 posts 6/9/2008 12:04 am |
Quoting sweetpepe: with all due respect, I think the mechanics of why some females are turned on by dominant male / male acts is a lot more complicated than what you portray.
it's a nature/nurture thang
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