Oxymoron: Beautiful Women
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If you grow up beautiful then you dont need to develop a personality or be a nice person as you will always have followers who adore you, if you grow up ugly then you develop personality but dont always become a nice person either, if you grow up ugly but become a beatiful adult you can learn to think that you dont need the personality you cultivated due to the followers you aquire. Beauty is only skin deep, most truly beautiful people are the plain ones who help you, they nurse you better and they help you through hard times. I grew up ugly and now Im a model but I think nice and nasty are inbuilt, no matter what you look like, as long as friends and family keep you grounded then I dont see why you cant be beautiful outside and in. I don't think beautiful women are mean. But, they are a wanted "commodity," and must control the demand. Like roses, they have to have thorns, or they would get picked to death. If we could just admire from afar, appreciate, smell the rose, but not cut it and put it in a vase to die an early death, I think our attitudes about beautiful women might change. Same reason some men are jerks.....people put up with it. Think about it if men didn't bow each time a cute girl walks in the door....or put up with her being mean...she would stop. I'm not sure if looks have anything to do with it. I guess if someone is more attractive they can get away with being a moron most of the time, but that's only if you let them get away with it. If someone is "mean", it best to just keep your distance regardless of how they look. "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler |
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4/9/2008 6:25 pm |
i thought oxymoron was jumbo shrimp or baby grand piano. never thought beautiful women or good-looking men was an oxymoron. well written tho...i love reading your thoughts.
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4/9/2008 9:34 pm |
Hello Noni, You wrote "If you grow-up beautiful then you don't need .... who adore you" Huh ?? I'm so disagree with that... as we say in french "appearances are often deceitful". I've never and never will judge someone from her/his appearance. It's true that, while living in LA, i still look at "pretty people" who act and talk as if everything is permitted to them. Due to their "status" ? They could cross my path and be surprise that being "pretty" doesn't work at all with me and to accept their "behaviors" respect and education are primordial... Reason why some people pictures me as rude. LOL and i don't mind. Beautiful day to you
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4/9/2008 11:13 pm |
Noni, I read it five time; five times I said HUH? Beauty is not about looks, but it's all about the mind. I don't see a beautiful (wo)man, until I see his/her inside. Looks shouldn't means chit to a (wo)man. True beauty holds to those who will see one's inside as a flower without a thorn. A beautiful ugly women is oxymoron indeed, but your mind, .. how fragile yet so beautiful.
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4/10/2008 7:50 am |
...and the top 20 Oxymorons are: Drum roll please....(tap, tap, tap...) 20. Government Organization 19. Alone Together 18. Personal Computer 17. Silent Scream 16. Living Dead 15. Same Difference 14. Taped Live 13. Plastic Glasses 12. Tight Slacks 11. Peace Force 10. Pretty Ugly  9. Head Butt 8. Working Vacation 7. Tax Return 6. Virtual Reality  5. Dodge Ram 4. Work Party 3. Jumbo Shrimp 2. Healthy Tan 1. Microsoft Works "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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4/10/2008 8:17 am |
lol Microsoft Works. 
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4/10/2008 8:47 am |
So, where is that beautiful lady that thinks she is ugly? lol. Memories, beauty is not about looks? That's because you're a woman. Now, tell me that handsome is not about looks..kkk.
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4/10/2008 9:19 am |
Hello Noni, You wrote "If you grow-up beautiful then you don't need .... who adore you" Huh ?? I'm so disagree with that... as we say in french "appearances are often deceitful". I've never and never will judge someone from her/his appearance. It's true that, while living in LA, i still look at "pretty people" who act and talk as if everything is permitted to them. Due to their "status" ? They could cross my path and be surprise that being "pretty" doesn't work at all with me and to accept their "behaviors" respect and education are primordial... Reason why some people pictures me as rude. LOL and i don't mind. Beautiful day to you Indeed, appearances ARE often deceitful...lol..I think that's a phrase eloquently stated as well in my childhood Bible. far from it, therefore, that I would ever judge anyone based on outward appearance alone. (Lol...I would like to see you cross paths with Angelina Jolie ("pretty people", "status")here in L.A. and STILL hold to the same philosophy though...(o; ...and I hear she can be a real 'cunt' in public at times...your 'rudeness' aside). good for you if your sincere here in not having to wait for 'beautiful women' to grow up, dump the thug-lovin' mentality, and turn 65 before rebooting her system with "ActRight 2.5 behavioral overdrive, hmm? (smile) Moreover, good for you that you that YOU have decided for yourself to do the changing and date women who are beautiful on the inside, not only on the outside. I think that SOME beautiful women are self centered because they are accustomed to receiving the kind of attention you're talking about. Just like you imply here, men overlook these beautiful womens "internal" flaws in exchange for their flawless exterior beauty. These same women are very well aware of that fact and therefore take advantage of their beauty. They know that many men will put up with their selfishness, their self centered, "snobby" attitude in exchange for the "pride" of dating an extremely beautiful woman. BTW, not ALL beautiful women are self centered, only "SOME"...the ones who "feed" off of the compliments of others constantly! Lol...reminds me of something: Don’t feed her, Granddad! Don’t feed her!... Don’t! Feed! Her! The cheddar! Biscuits!!!  [emphasis Boonedocks Episode Synopsis - Season 1, Episode 3: Guess Hoe’s Coming to Dinner] **Huey and Riley try to convince Grandad that his new girlfriend Cristal (like the champagne) is actually a prostitute. Of course, Grandad doesn’t believe them, even when she spends all his money. But when A Pimp Named Slickback shows up, the truth is revealed. "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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4/10/2008 10:05 am |
Noni, I read it five time; five times I said HUH? Beauty is not about looks, but it's all about the mind. I don't see a beautiful (wo)man, until I see his/her inside. Looks shouldn't means chit to a (wo)man. True beauty holds to those who will see one's inside as a flower without a thorn. A beautiful ugly women is oxymoron indeed, but your mind, .. how fragile yet so beautiful. You mean to tell me you read my blog five times??? Wow...sweet! TY.... I understand what your writing here, yet, I am not in total agreement with all...only some. Beauty encompasses much more than the mind alone. One can never exempt the outward appearance from this cenario at all. This is understandable, as one cannot see beauty...it has to be experienced. Contrary to your statement here that looks shouldn't mean err...'chit'take mushrooms...to a woman, I will beg to differ here; for as far as attraction goes, no matter what is postured, beauty IS in the expressed eye of the beholder...and the first inclination of men AND women on what beauty is to them...is to look. ( IF beauty is in the eye of the beholder is a true statement,then ~show me~  ... a fine specimen of a gentleman, and I damned sure am gonna peek, long and hard... I'm married...yet I assure you I WILL look ...respectfully and without offense to my own husband, as if viewing with awe the magnificent ceiling of Michealangelo Buonarroti's Sistine Chapel in Rome, perhaps the most amazing painting of all time, and much to be admired. ... Merely looking, noticing...and respecting what god has made... )True beauty... Ah...yet another oxymoron, huh? ...as we have all fallen from grace somewhere and nobodys perfect, right? A flower without a thorn? OIC... NOT a beautiful woman...but a mere poppy. Ah, how fragile is the mind...*sigh* Nutshell,... Beauty is only skin deep. Beautiful women disappoint everyone easily because they are somewhat mostly stupid. They always think they are the most important thing on this planet. They are not considerate because others care on them so much. A good-looking woman can easily allure men. However, men become tired of " that doll" so darned quickly (which is why 'beautiful women' can also be quite mean in competition for 'attention and entitlements'...like wh*res even.... ) More pointedly, please note that a self- centered beauty will never become considerate, kind and unselfish unless her beauty fade. and with SOME beautiful women, you can wait but I think you would be out of patience in doing so. eh...lol... so much for me trying to explain my 'fragile mind' of yesterday's post... Much Love and Respect "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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4/10/2008 10:40 am |
i thought oxymoron was jumbo shrimp or baby grand piano. never thought beautiful women or good-looking men was an oxymoron. well written tho...i love reading your thoughts.  ...who also should consider that her name too also means oxymoron...(smile) Yet another cute oxymoron (smile) ...likeMale Lady Bug (the character from the Pixar Studio's movie, 'A Bug's Life' ...that scene had me LOL with my children at the movie house...(o  Ok, Ok... I'll give you a hall monitor's pass for good behavior, ok? (wink, wink) Yet it is unfortunate that culture teaches women[/B]--through men's responses primarily, that being beautiful is the only value THEY should cultivate, and that physical beauty is what will bring them attention and significance. [Remember the character in the Disney movie, MULAN? I loved how she "spinned the tea..."(smile)] Men will readily confess that their own thinking plays into this viewpoint of women being 'seen but not heard'-beautiful, since most of them would like to have a beautiful girlfriend/life partner even at the expense of leaving their first love in order to achieve this end. Because of all this, many--but not all--women who happen to be beautiful begin to think erroneously that they really are superior to others and deserving of more, simply based on their appearance. These type of women are usually the one's who have nothing more to bring to the table. (Read def Poetry JAM as read by Jill Scott?) Change the culture and possibly male thinking concerning mate selection (lol...despite what frenchguy says here...) can change this situation. godd Luck wiff that... I've know a number of beautiful women back in university who didn't really think of themselves as 'beautiful', myself included. Many of are humble and sweet. Some are even shy. And I do mean physically beautiful....with hair covering their faces as if afraid of male response to their attractiveness...lol...as if living in saudi arabia and wearing a halio(?) If men and women, searching for a soul-mate, would only focus less on physical beauty and look for the total person, maybe we could all get it right, huh?. That 'perfect' woman might be a little shorter and fatter than Cindy Crawford, and her hair might be a different color, but she would project a beauty of her own, much of it in her personality.this is what Memories is possibly implying here...I now understand...as I would also think a woman a man is interested in would not be ugly in appearance and would not even be plain.Men are visual creatures.... She would be a person a man could spend his life with, however, and won't have to wait until she's my age--42--to have her....as she is not wrapped up in thug-lovin' mentality as a youth, and simpin' 'save me' mentality later after she had made bad choices in her life and wants a good guy to clean up her mess. SOME beautiful women (not just women, but men too ~smile~) are self-centered. Being a "10" is almost saying, "they're perfect". you'd think that we would never want a person who's rated as a "10", because everyone else would think so. Then the attention gets to their heads (and if they really feed into what others think of them) and that causes them to think "the world revolves around them". That becomes important to them...about how they look. Then other things to them doesn't really matter. ALSO...sometimes, we THINK beautiful people on the outside are SUPPOSED to be beautiful on the outside. Yeah, it's sad that a lot of attractive people are all of the bad names and oxymorons we can think of. To look at a beautiful person is pleasing to the eye (when you don't know the person...we imagine this person with a beautiful personality). NOT!!! It's beacause WE are focusing on THEIR beauty. A lot of people ARE all the bad names and oxymorons we can think of...it's only the attractive ones that gets away with it! Simply because they're beautiful on the out! And' because their beauty has SOME kind of perfection...WE think they should have/are the WHOLE PACKAGE. BTW, Trust me...there are non-attractive people who are just as self-centered as the attractive ones) Longwinded, but... Much Love and Respect, Noni  "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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4/10/2008 6:54 pm |
LOL....I used to drive a Dodge Ram..I never thought about it but it is an oxymoron, ain't it ? Ok....I got one, how about wet water...ok LAME.....lol....as always a good read.. KORN
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4/10/2008 6:55 pm |
WTF?!?! Huh?! . Is it just me, or is this just a bunch of psyco-babel?!?!
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4/10/2008 7:52 pm |
GOOD LOOKING PPL R OFTEN MISJUDGED & OR STEREOTYPED UNDER CERTAIN NEGATIVE STATUS... UNFORTUNATELY~ INTELLIGENCE, PERSONALITY,INTEGRITY, & OTHER POSITIVE ASPECTS OF GOOD LOOKING PPL R OVERLOOKED BY MANY CONDESCENDING MINDS ALL AROUND US... & THE NOTION OF GOOD LOOKING PPL BEING ABLE TO GET AWAY W/ ALMOST ANYTHING IS SO UNTRUE. MORE JUDGMENTLE EYES R FOCUSED ON GOOD LOOKING PPL THAN UGLY OR PLAIN LOOKING PPL,THEREFOR MORE FINGERS R POINTED @ GOOD LOOKING PPL FOR THE SAME MISHAPS CAUSED BY BOTH GOOD LOOKING & NORMAL LOOKING PPL. THE POINT I'M MAKING IS IN REALITY, PLAIN LOOKING PPL CAN GETAWAY W/ MORE THINGS THAN GOOD LOOKING PPL... BTW... INNER BEAUTY REFLECTS ON OUTER BEAUTY... IF U HAV BEAUTIFUL MIND IT SHOWS FROM OUTSIDE ALSO... UNLESS U GOT A PLASTIC SURGERY DONE.. HEHE  & IF U HAV UGLY MIND IT ALSO MOLDS UR OUTSIDE APPEARANCES
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4/11/2008 12:56 am |
korn, wet water is not an oxymoron... it s redundant. Noni, just one thing. Guys are branded "shallow" when we adore beautiful girls. And most of the time, rightfully so. But you girls have to understand, when we express awe, it s the awe in their physical beauty not necessarily the person. MOST GUYS WILL AGREE THAT THERE IS ALMOST A SPIRITUAL VIRTUE WHEN YOU FIND SPECIFIC BEAUTY IN WOMEN: THE DEEP PIERCING EYES LONG SLENDER LEGS SHAPELY LINE RUNNING DOWN FROM WAIST TO BUTTOCK TO NAME ONLY A FEW.... WHY NOT CRITICIZE PEOPLE WHEN THEY ARE CAPTIVATED BY NATURE'S BEAUTY? WE MEN FIND GOD IN BEAUTIFUL BODIES.... DON T GET ME WRONG, BECAUSE I AM A FIRM BELIEVER IN KEEPING BALANCE.
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4/11/2008 5:01 am |
thank God I am ugly!! very interesting read, noni 
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4/12/2008 11:54 pm |
SOME beautiful women are spoiled ! KORN
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4/14/2008 5:56 pm |
It s our fault. Us guys spoil the lood gooking ones.
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4/16/2008 12:51 pm |
thanks for the long winded response noni. didn't know my name was an oxymoron. puahhahhh. i know i'm okay in some eyes, ugly in some, and beautiful in others. it's those that have positive attitudes i like. don't really care for those who have ebonics mentality
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4/16/2008 2:35 pm |
Oh shit. You're welcome, DarkBeauty. BTW, The iron horse is the train and champaign is bubbly A deuce is a honey that's ugly If your girl is fine, she's a dime A suit is a fine, jewelry is shine If you in love, that mean you blind Genuine is real, a face card is a hundred dollar bill A very hard, long stare is a grill If you sneakin' to go see a girl, that mean you creepin' Smilin' is cheesin', bleedin' is leakin' Beggin is bummin, if you nuttin you comin Takin' orders is sunnin', an ounce of coke is a onion A hotel's a telly, a cell phone's a celly Jealous is jelly, your food box is your belly To guerrilla mean to use physical force You took a L, you took a loss To show off mean floss, uh I know you like the way I'm freakin' it I talk with slang and I'ma never stop speakin' it Much Love and Respect "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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4/17/2008 9:06 am |
Interesting Reading.......and also Interesting comments.....Enjoyed your comments and everyone else's also.. Christine
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