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7/9/2008 4:11 pm |
Do you ever find yourself in complaint mode? Do you ever bemoan your luck, whinge at the people character or whine about people actions? It's not hard to find good reasons to complain about most things/people, if we look hard enough! For those who find themselves complaining a lot it does tend to be learned, developed and practised habit over a long period of time, probably since childhood. For them, it will always feel OK and natural to seek out the things that could be, should be, ought to be better! After all nothing is perfect in an imperfect world! (especially virtual) The Complainer expects others and the World to make them happy, thought happiness is a self-created state of mind. The Complainer tends to feel powerless and often hopeless, lost in thoughts of his own. The Complainer is essentially angry. They believe they can effect change and get what they want just by displaying their anger at what has just happened, or not happened. They would probably even start complaining if someone suggested that complaining is not such a bright idea! Then, you have at the other end those for whom the world is a wonderful place, constantly full of surprises and discoveries, despite what others may see as not wonderful. When things go wrong, or turn less than expected, they accept it, take in the way it is and just keep moving... Occasionally they are tempted to stop and jump in the light of a negative reflection, but it doesn't last long as they realise that life, in the meantime, is moving on. Have a beautiful day. Frenchguy Song of the day: RADIOHEAD "House of cards" |
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7/10/2008 3:54 am |
Frenchy, did you study my ex wife? Koudos to you my friend, I could not have said it better.
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7/10/2008 9:04 am |
++++ Regarding "Ever wonder?" post from QT ++++ Hello QT, Thanks for the medal, it's very touching. I was wondering if you felt targeted by my blog since you had to wrote an post to answer.  Anyway, as you wrote, blogging is just a way to express yourself and your toughts... and it shouldn't be taking too seriously. Isn'it??? Maybe my post did provoke what i was looking for, since your post became viewable to/only friends. As we said in french, the latest medallist in KFF: "Wash one's dirty linen in private" I just prefer to read interesting blogs, that's all. Spreading constant negativity isn't the best way to fight it. Beautiful day to all. -Thx again for the medal... woohoo!!!!!
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7/10/2008 8:29 pm |
Frenchy ... I appreciate this blog so much! Thanks for your thoughtfulness and positive energy. You are 200% right on target!
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7/10/2008 9:22 pm |
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7/10/2008 11:43 pm |
HMMM... I just wish people would just get along...and grow up!!
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7/11/2008 6:41 am |
I am going to be silent from now on... I heard this from my dad when I was growing up as well. Thanks for the reminder
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7/11/2008 1:12 pm |
My mom told me of a similar story as well.
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7/11/2008 10:14 pm |
Reminds me of the old korean saying, do dook nom bal e jul ri dah.
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