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4/22/2008 3:03 pm
A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through this little hole. Then it seemed to stop making progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it had and it could go no further.
Then the man decided to help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors and cut the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily. But is had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings. The man continued to watch the butterfly as he expected the wings would enlarge and expand.
Nothing happened. In fact, the butter fly spend the rest of his life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.
What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the opening were nature's way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly wings, so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved it's freedom from the cocoon.

This is a nice story to demonstrate that sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our life. Allowing us to go through our life without obstacles would cripple us. We would not be as strong as we could have been.
And we could never fly...
Well, in another words, i don't need help from anyone to help me fit my old pair of jean. Even if i struggle... maybe the fluid from my stomach will be "send" to a more appropriate body part

Have a beautiful day,
Frenchguy

Song of the day : CATATONIA "Dead from the waist down"
korn2020
1871 posts 

4/22/2008 7:17 pm

Good one ! Well, I have had my share of stuggles and it always made
me a stroner person afterwards.

KORN

frenchguy38
799 posts 

4/22/2008 8:37 pm

Hey Korn,
As you, i had already my share of struggles. But it doesn't seems it's ready to stop LOL.
Beautiful day to you.

sweetpepe
1329 posts 

4/22/2008 9:39 pm

Frenchy.... good story, BAAD analogy... but funny tho...lol

Memories2Me

4/23/2008 8:21 am

French, it is really nice story.

Have a beautiful day too!

korn2020
1871 posts 

4/23/2008 9:43 am

    Quoting frenchguy38:
    Hey Korn,
    As you, i had already my share of struggles. But it doesn't seems it's ready to stop LOL.
    Beautiful day to you.
No my friend the struggle never stops...Like running against the wind
all the time. Then sometimes the wind stops and we get a break here
and there.

KORN

NoniJuice4

4/23/2008 8:09 pm

Great one, French.
I Love it! Seriously...

It reminds me of the poem that was written by Erma Bombeck that appeared in her book, "If Life is a Bowl of Cherries, What am I Doing in the Pits?" I made sure years ago when my eldest son graduated middle school that I purchase space to place this poem into his yearbook...along with his most recent pic.

Let me share it with you:

Children as Kites

"You spend a lifetime trying to get them off the ground.
You run with them until you're both breathless...
they crash...
you add a longer tail...
they hit the rooftop...
you pluck them out of the spouting...
you patchand comfort,
adjust and teach.
You watch them lifted by the wind
and assure them that someday they'll fly.

Finally, they're airborne,
but they need more string
and with each twist of the ball of twine,
there is a sadness
that goes with the joy,
because the kite becomes more distant
and somehow you know
it won't be long before
this beautiful creature will snap the lifeline
binding you together
and soar
as it was meant to soar...
free
and alone."


"Only a few things are really important."
-- Marie Dressler

NoniJuice4

4/23/2008 8:10 pm

lol...
<~~~Me Trekker! Love the pants.

"Only a few things are really important."
-- Marie Dressler

frenchguy38
799 posts 

4/23/2008 10:33 pm

Hello Noni,
I return the comment, this is a nice poem...
I will look for E. Bombeck's book.
Have a beautiful day.

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