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what do people want out of life?  

DangerousBeauty2
10/4/2007 9:38 am

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10/8/2007 10:02 am

it's interesting how the dynamics of women and men. the whole aspect of female and male roles have changed too. more and more women are the bread-winners of the house. some are single parents. some men have to be the mom and dad in a child's life.

we are running so thin on energy. it's hard for anyone to take time for themselves. i was so exhausted from this past weekend...

1) fighting with a long-time girlfriend of 10 years

2) retarded 10 sec man who couldn't man up to not wanting to see me, used his "dying" father as an excuse

a new friend in my life brought alot of things into perspective last night. people will be people. there are some nice ones and some not so nice.

awaiting upon some things upcoming in my life, assignments due, readings to continue, i was in a slump.

i was depressed, angry, bitter, and hurt. but being the person that i am. if i am threatened and cornered...i come out fighting. i was doing that for the last couple of days.

now after a full nights sleep. accomplishing a week long accounting assignment last night.

things are going to be taken in stride. i am not going to have anyone bother me to that degree ever again. i was soooooooooo sick this weekend that i couldn't function at work or at school.

not going to have anyone take away my pride or my emotions again.

believe me...that dumb-a-- 10 sec man is gonna get it... but i feel sad for whomever he does end up with or his wife--if he was married as i suspected.

i am gonna be dangerousbeauty...the carefree, friendly, nothing-can-stop me, passionate woman that i was before all these dumb-a-- guys came into my life. sex? sure... commitment? sure... anything goes.

but i don't want to be your next mama. please...go home crying to your own that bore you out of her womb. i don't have time to babysit you!!!

just my thoughts...need to run to class now...
jjsk888
81 posts 

10/5/2007 9:34 am

DangerousBeauty2,

Once again, an interesting theme !
This posting reminds me of all the 'Complexes' that the shrinks like Freud & Jung named...Oepipus , Electra, Peter Pan, Cinderella, Mama Boy complex...

Which category do we all fall into?
Nevertheless.. we certainly do know whom not to fall for... don't we?

DB, better to spend more time with your classes than listening to all the excuses that Mama Boy makes...
Grades would give u more substantial outcome....!!!
,,,Have a good one...
JJ

kellykim000
2 posts 

10/5/2007 9:04 am

DB

well that is life...

DangerousBeauty2
1328 posts 

10/5/2007 8:35 am

thanks for your advice BT.

DangerousBeauty2
1328 posts 

10/5/2007 8:33 am

you are too funny...

DangerousBeauty2
1328 posts 

10/5/2007 8:33 am

oh CD...you are too funny...

Parandol78

10/4/2007 5:29 pm

Please store excess baggage in overhead compartment.

Whaddya lookin at hah?

brainteaser69

10/4/2007 5:08 pm

Jules!

Thats it.Thats the spirit.I appreciate and regard your individuality.To be honest , in fact , i like such individualistic women and thats what i call the 'woman of substance'.

Jules i do understand your feelings.I know that u are a very wise and intelligent woman and i trust whatever you have said.But i never knew that u were soo emotional and take things soo deep to your heart.Anyway its good coz u feel better by sharing things with your friends here.

Jules , i feel its not your mistake at all.That man might have lied to you that his father is sick and like a very nice woman you have gone there with flowers to meet his father.Jules often we get insulted , not for our mistakes but just because the other person could be a retard.We just cant help it.Your only mistake here seems to be an incorrect choice but then we all are human beings too.

Even if he is unmarried and not interested in you then why did he respond to/start a relationship with you.You are not a fool to go there with flowers just like that.This means that his intentions ab you were not clear.

So just let this matter go to the dustbin and have fun as beofre and i hope that comming weeks shall hold a better promise for you.

Regards
Sheen/BT

Carpe_Diem
339 posts 

10/4/2007 3:10 pm

The more I read your blogs the more I'm crushing on you! Lets balance our debits and credits under the balance sheet. Hubba hubba!

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