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i was rudely reminded that i should specify what nationality i'm looking for in a male friend, male significant other... isn't this koreanfriendfinder? should i be blamed because i don't prefer certain ethnicities? if i wanted to find someone of another ethnic background...wouldn't i be on asianfriendfinder, jewishfriendfinder, hispanicfriendfinder...etc. etc. gees people, don't get all mad at me because i prefer someone of my own race... |
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10/24/2007 3:31 pm |
nothing much hea to say but i'm here to look for korean guy and besides i'm not korean. Just looking for the right match.
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10/7/2007 2:10 pm |
it's a preference only...gees...look it up in the dictionary. my god...drop it. you'll never convince me to date outside my race anyways...so why are you all huffy and puffy about it????????????
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10/7/2007 10:09 am |
Hellidouris. It dosen't matter. It's what she wants! Since when did it become anyone else's business that whenther a certain person likes white, black, asian..? IT DOSE NOT MATTER. It's upto that individual's choice. Everyone who sorta questioned in responses here, TELL YOURSELF THAT YOU ARE NOT THE ONE WHO"S GOING TO BE DATING KOREAN< IT"S WHAT SHE WANTS! IT"S HER DECISION!
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10/7/2007 7:36 am |
DB--I ain't mad at 'cha... Some random thoughts: 1) The guys angry at DB should consider she has done them a favor! They could have been e-mailing her, winking at her, etc., hoping for responses. Now they know she isn't interested in non-Korean men, so they can move on... 2) A non-Korean man who ended up with DB would probably end up unhappy...after all, he is not what she wants! Why try to talk people into giving up preferences that they have? 3) You haven't lost anything that was yours because someone doesn't want to date you, for whatever reason. 4) It seems that some want affirmative action and anti-discrimination even in people's dating choices. If someone wants to date within his or her own race, or not do so, why is it anyone else's business? 5) Having said that, once you do open the topic of your dating preferences for discussion, you can't be surprised that all kinds will show up to comment...those who agree or disagree with you, disgruntled people, etc... 6) This is KFF, but there is no requirement that you must even end up with someone Korean! It could turn out that two non-Koreans who are both interested in Korea and Korean things could find something in common, and start talking!
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10/3/2007 12:31 pm |
Since when is 'Personal Preference' considered 'Racism'? If I prefer Honda Cars to BMWs, am I anti-German? Do you realize how stupid that sounds? Geez People, Get A Life....... To each his, or her, own. Some people just find a certain look to be more attractive than others. I once dated a beautiful Blonde-haired, Blue-eyed Lady. She was a former Elite Gymnast, and an Actress. She played the part of 'Catwoman' in Magic Mountain's 'Batman Forever' Stage Show. Smart, Charming, Slim, Athletic, and Extremely Attractive. Everywhere we went, Guys would stop and just stare at her. We went to shoot pool one night, and the entire Pool Hall was staring at her. But she really did nothing for me. As a matter of fact, every time I looked at her, I thought her eyes were the wrong color. Weird. That's why I only date Asian Women now. DB, You GO Girl! Madkore
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10/2/2007 6:26 pm |
Korn ! She also said that she will not accept an extramaritial adjustment with a married man even if he fulfilled all the criteria mentioned by her and even if he would offer her an apartment and a car at the beginning of the relation-ship itself.  hahahaaha.But at least i have been always honest from the very beginning that i am married.Regards dear friend sheen/BT
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10/1/2007 11:49 pm |
No, you should not be blamed for your love for Korean dudes 'cause I'm Korean plus I don't have to worry about such rude reminders because I don't receive any emails. lol In all seriousness, just brush it off and accept the fact that some people just can't help themselves when they get reeeeeeeeeeejected...hehe
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10/1/2007 5:47 pm |
Dangerous Beauty!Hello! Welcome back ! Inter-racial companionships and marriages are generally prefered because inter-cultural and inter- racial adjustment is easier than otherwise.This means that there are more chanses of a more stable relationship and a better understanding in an inter-racial / inter-cultural marriage.This no-way means that men from other races are inferior.There is better understanding between people belonging to the same race due to common language , common culture , common shared values.This has got nothing at all to do with racial superiority or inferiority.Often we come across instances of men and women choosing what others would consider an inferior choice.This is because they feel they can be better understood by the inferior spouse and result in a more comfortable and a stable associaltion. However ,there can be no such hard and fast rules.I mean men from other races can also be good spouses.So let all options be open.Afterall marriages are fixed in Heaven and Performed on earth.Ur Loverboy is already fixed by your destiny and he will meet u at the time , place and circumstances already decided by ur destiny. regards Brainteaser69
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9/30/2007 11:39 pm |
i respect your view, dangerousbeauty. everyone has his/her own preference in partners. fighting, ms. dangerousbeauty
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9/30/2007 11:34 pm |
this is why i luv u sooooooooo much...you are a true friend FNF!!! You ALWAYS know how to bring a smile to my face...
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9/30/2007 11:34 pm |
oh korn... and it is still true...isn't that why they put the Cupid Matches?
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 9/30/2007 6:37 pm |
Hey sister, I do not think you need to specify. No one owes anyone an explanation for why you are not into them unless you were in a relationship with them to begin with. Preference (outside orientation) is personal, and does not have to be disclosed. It's a courtesy if you do. Plus, if you put it in your "Cupid Preferences", you do not have to explain anything. They can look at the profile, and take what they get. Just a lil' plug for the KFF system there. That was free...tee hee. People that expect an explanation for not being accepted probably have a security issue if they cannot just dust off, and keep walking. That is not attractive...what kind of woman would wants a man that needed to be nursed? "I am not interested, but thanks for your interest." should suffice. If someone gets indignant about "no", then you kinda deserve to be annoyed a bit more. My parents told me I'd hear NO alot more than YES in life.
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9/30/2007 6:20 pm |
If someone is not Korean, on KFF, and looking for a relationship with a korean person can I call them racist against the other races they are not dating or trying to pursue? I dunno, you can play the "sour grapes" card like the fox in Aesop's fable, but you will be just as ignorant as the fox was because he didn't get what he wanted. People here (and most people in general) have too much inner turmoil when it comes to race. Kinda like that angry black guy that posted earlier on this month. I think you can be happy in the face of rejection without resorting to making assessments on a person's character that you do not even know. All rejection is is another opportunity presented to succeed elsewhere. But if you are the type to get hurt on it, then that is kinda small-minded. Everyone has a reason for their point of view. It's not our job to change others, or judge others. It's our jobs to get on with our lives, make the best of things, and not sweat the small stuff. I feel a bit put off by all of the shallow people I see here, but for the few that I like that are cool, rock on.
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9/30/2007 6:19 pm |
you did say that YOU WILL NOT DATE A DIVORCED MAN. I remember that much. KORN 
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9/30/2007 10:53 am |
for sure, for sure... thanks for your comments...i've truly enjoyed them...
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9/30/2007 10:19 am |
If someone gives you a smart-arse reponse when you blow him off just don't worry about it. I can think pf plenty of worse things I have heard people say rather than comments like you mentioned. What I mean is that it is 100% a reflection usually on them not you because they are feeling low. Besides, it is the internet so they could be a wacko-crazy! Shyoo, Ozee
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9/30/2007 8:57 am |
it is korean friend finder. in reference to that...i understand. people to meet koreans. ok...i guess i was wrong to not specify that i wanted korean men only. but this is true...and i think other people will back me up on that...koreans come on this site thinking there are other koreans. it isn't korean-korean friend finder because if it was, there would be a lawsuit b/c the site is limiting and being "segregate." but the thousands of koreans who are on this site will claim...they come on here with the presumption that there are other koreans. not saying it's wrong for other ethnicities to come this site, b/c there are the military and working professionals in korea just looking for friends. it's those that contact me wanting a relationship and they snap by saying "your loss", "should specify", if i was the person who just wanted any 'ol relationship, i would... so i admit, i should have specified...but they are wrong for being petty about my "turning them down." that is the only point i have...this does not need to be a long discussion. i admitted i was wrong that i didn't specify, they should admit they are wrong about their petty responses back.
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9/30/2007 8:50 am |
my preference korean. i don't need to explain more. if you're a non-korean, just know i will not respond. i have every right to keep my opinion, just as everyone else is. it's your right. i don't need to convince anyone, not like i am going to meet everyone that leaves me a comment. when it comes to dating, korean men. when it comes to friendship, all nationalities. but there is a limit to a male and female relationship. you can't start a new one without one wanting something from the other. this is a preference...don't jump down my throat and say i'm playing the racism card.
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9/30/2007 6:52 am |
The racism "card" , i dont have any to play. Dangerous Beauty can you please explane why you seek only a man from your own ethinicity. That would be the point of our discussion and not the generaliastion that i maybe tried. Why do you prfer a man from your won race? Because of the common culture? is that truth? is it really so? and much more qustions points... But first off all , do you look to be inlove? or to get married? Can you plan the love? do you knwo yourself so good that you allready know who you will love. If you are want juat to get married...that is able to plan..yes...and set criterias like ethinity. But also in that case you have to answer why do you have this prefernce. And after that all can every one give his opinion about it. And again..my comment is friendly and i dont stay in the matter of social racism. Except that i dont know the dicusion in the states.
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9/30/2007 3:05 am |
Nobody is agasint your perference for man.. But this is still a social discussion area. So, maybe you can still go for your perference, but while your're still here just keep the channel open.
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9/30/2007 2:42 am |
It's not Korean-Korean friend finder. It is Korean friend finder. The "Korean" refers to the person being found rather than the person looking. It is a place you can meet Korean friends. Not just a place for Koreans to meet korean friends. That does not make it an exclusively Korean site and if you took a few seconds to look on the lists of what kinds of nationalities of people are found you might realise that that is the case. Therefore, it is entirely plausible for a man who is not Korean to read your profile and he would therefore be confused. Shyoo, Ozee
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9/30/2007 1:19 am |
Hmmmm...well if I was specifically wanting a particular race I would be on that particular website. I'm not putting false advertisement. If I am on koreanfriendfinder...the majority here would be korean... isn't that the logic? that person and now several others are bitter because i chose NOT to give them a chance...that's the bottom line. now you...
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9/29/2007 10:18 pm |
You obviously didn't see it from the other persons point of view that he doesn't care what your preference is but since you didn't make it known on your ad he wasted his time to contact you or whatever transpired. If you saw an advertisement for cheap gym membership and travelled 100miles ot sign up only to find it was a mens-only gym, would you be miffed? Could they have advertised it a bit better knowing who might be looking at and respond to the adertisement so as to not waste other peoples time needlessly? Yes. And so could you obviously. Shyoo, Ozee
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9/29/2007 9:37 pm |
Good blog. There is nothing wrong with with a peference to date with in your own race. I pefer to date Korean women but thats only because Im tired of white womens game....LOL Two2tangoo explained it right on !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! KORN
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9/29/2007 6:53 pm |
thank you oppa for reiterating that it's my preference.
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9/29/2007 12:56 pm |
Hehehe....well, Helio...I think you have "misunderstood" what she was trying to convey with her message....let me try to clear this.... First of all, it is not a RACIST thing....far from that, amigo.. Her "logic" is very simple. It's just that you chose to believe otherwise??? I don't see how you come to your "logic" and state that it is seeing with "racist glasses"? You must remember it is her PREFERENCE, and nowhere did she mention about putting down other races. She doesn't dislike or hate other races. Her only "guilt" is....IF this is considered a GUILT??....finding someone of her own race. The emphasis here is PREFERENCE! She may or may not date someone outside of her race in the future....BUT, for now...she prefers Koreans. Who knows what future will bring??? Yes, you are absolutely correct when you have stated that we should approach anyone with "tolerance and open minds". I couldn't agree with you more, and I'm confident that she is aware of it, in terms of RACE that is.... A person can have open minds and tolerant of others, but is it a "racism" if one prefers to marry within one's own race? Hmmmmm....now why is that??  Incidentally here in the States, there are controversial issues regarding this "marriage within one's own race"....adamantly brought up by Whites......and by Blacks to a lesser extent. I hope you are not one of those "types" who tries to ameliorate the problems by the use of "race card".....because the case "here" is totally different. If you are even thinking about it, forget it pal. I know there are racists Koreans, like other racists ethnicities...but DB2 isn't one of them.....Anyway....... If I may put this analogy.... There is one particular person, and that person happens to be a vegetarian. In her previous years, she loved to eat....anything from ice-cream to a pig on a skewer. But recently, she has decided to change her eating habits and became a vegetarian. She is very open-minded and tolerant of others. She wants to date and marry other "vegetarians"..... Now, condemning this woman for being a vegetarian is ridicules and laughable. So, the moral of the story? It was her choice and her preference  And lastly....as for using Korean....she has stated very clearly. What are you reading, amigo??? Not Latin....lol Her situation is similar to mine....since English is her/my primary language. I, like her, know Korean..but to a lesser degree than English. So, "we" and many others use English INSTEAD of Korean 
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9/29/2007 11:48 am |
dangerousbeauty> you better take off your glasses or better yet get lasik like me. lol I'm ethnocentric myself but for some reason if your preference is Korean you almost come off bias..go figure. let me bust out my hanta for you. lol 안녕하새요...이분아가시.....후후후후후후후훟
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9/29/2007 8:13 am |
the reason why i use the english language is because everyone uses it. and i shouldn't be mocked because i prefer meeting a korean man for a significant other. if i knew how to use the korean font...i would use it. but i read korean and speak korean. but my korean writing skills are not up to par... don't blame me because i prefer someone korean...that's all. not stirring up anger here... it's just my preference. if i prefered a different race, i would go on another website...
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9/29/2007 5:44 am |
Sorry I disagree with you. Not for what are you looking in KFF, but with your logic. How can you see people so asbolutely with racist glasses. Yes we all have a nationality but we have to approache eachother first in mean of tolerance and open minds. My english is too poor to explane it in your language, but can you tell me why you use english to search for a korean? Why do you use the english language if you search ONLY someone from your ethnicity?
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