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10/18/2008 6:20 pmLast Read: |
i chopped it all off. i have been meaning to chop it off for a while but since BF loved my long hair, i felt that it was time. since he and i are not together anymore, he doesn't have input in his preferences to impact my decision making. so it's short now. no more long, flowy hair. it's at my shoulders but with layers. it looks nice but tmw i'm going to punk it up... needed to get rid of things weighing me down...my hair...it's a start. |
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11/9/2008 5:49 am |
I also tired to chop my hear when i lost my love, I can understand that feeling, so painful, so helpless, just only tears out of eyes,but please be more courageous, please believe to everything be better, the hear also can be long again. a za a za fighting, blessed to you, kindness girl!!!
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10/20/2008 12:58 am |
It looks really good. I fresh new start. I hope that it is the start of a new and better beginning. It will be hard to forget the past. It is always good to have a new beginning. You just starting a new chapter. It is just part of our book of life. Take care of yourself...
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10/19/2008 8:08 am |
DB, I took the time to read several of your recent postings since my absence, and I must say that a true battle is happening in your life in terms of both your heart and your relationships. I can readily understand the urgency in the crisis that is seemingly overwhelming you at this time: Cancer is a serious matter, especially in the elderly. Even so, as I have had my own personal bout with breast cancer just last year (Stage IIIB, infiltrating ductal carcinoma with lymph node involvement)--of which, by grace of God, I managed to win in battle, it's best that you see this for what it is: a need for clarity as well as a need for you and boyfriend to hold onto life...and if possible...each other in making those final decisions for YOUR lives together. Cancer does not have to mean the overall death of everything involved. Take a definite stand under these circumstances and fight for what you need in this life by stepping back to first understand the nature of the conflict. As for your BF's Mom's condition (and whether or not it has to take center stage in the conflict you now have in your heart, PLEASE...take a close look at all the circumstances that have led up to this point and thus determine whether or not the battle to LOVE is worth the effort it brings for clarity. Decide if the ~FIGHT~ is worth the time and energy it will require. Believe me...with cancer diagnosis in any family, the fight for normalcy is all that matters. If your love for your BF is determined to be deserving, stand firm in your convictions. Hold on tightly to what YOU considered right and just. Faith in yourself and in the cause being fought over almost always leads to victory. Don't back down. Damn what BF say's! He needs you...and you him. Get back into the game.... In the event that the battle DOES NOT seem worth the trouble, yes, it is best to acknowledge this reality and let it go. As I see you cut hair in your posted pic (sigh), this time in your life clearly signals a time where values, love even, are being questioned... and indecision prominent. A 'heart-battle' is at hand, yet with certainty and a unwavering position in the matter on your part , I believe you can and WILL be a winner in this. As for your 'inlaws', try not to leave room in your two-fold relationship for overpowering and domination. Determine what matters most to YOU ...and take a definitive position therein. Short is better? It looks more professional, but... I liked it when it was long...and you...smiling...and contemplating a future with your beloved BF. I hope you (both) will get through this intact and ...still in love. Crises tend to do just this... It makes us focus on what things are important to ME. Smile Again... NoniJuice4  "Only a few things are really important." -- Marie Dressler
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10/18/2008 10:27 pm |
I think you look great with that hair style. Now you will look even more prettier with some smile in your face.  "If I could lead you into the promised land, i could lead you back out again."
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10/18/2008 9:23 pm |
short is better..!!! i dond understand the obsession with long hairs. Long hairs disturb by kissing. Short hairs give access to the neck...and neck is my fingers pleasure. You do look always good DB and changes are usefull.
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