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 7/21/2008 10:57 am |
oh QT... i dont know anymore...
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7/21/2008 10:41 am |
i know you do...along with your father's family association along with my BF's family association. just merely a fly needing a swatting... Girls you realize flies love the feces right LOL!?.. they hang around it and swarm to it. lol Omg im just laughing how nature and chat and the gtgs and verbal battles emulate nature. OK im done with the corny jokes.
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7/21/2008 10:39 am |
oh sweetie. let's just let it go. too many ppl are so damn sensitive. ppl have too many fragile egos. ppl are so used to having their egos stroked that they can't stand it when others stand up to them and tell them otherwise. ppl don't know the whole story and they call me names. it's ok. i never was on here to make friends with the world. i am grateful for the frienships i've had for years and the handful of friendships i've made on here. i count my blessings and i am blessed. that's all that matters. Falsness will always be a little confusing and hard to swallow but I will accept it cause this is what others are and I can't change that. When someone doesn't extend a hand in friendship or one with good intentions pulls them back it's truly a bitter pill. I will swallow the medicine though because I want good people around me not people who let others who do bad things to me or my friends. I am still out of the loop in many ways, its probably my locale, ethnicity, and social surroundings. In my world even when i am in the heart of Asian media... these people are not around at all. It saddens me more people don't get along but it's not the end. Edmund Burke wrote - The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing. How true is this of the good people of kff who have no idea what friendship really is? I am happy to let these people walk by. I will count my blessings. Even the negative ones that taught me lessons about myself and others. I will not expect positivity from everyone anymore.. there are just some people who are incapable of that.
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7/21/2008 10:25 am |
wow i didn't think bringing up a girl's name was going to start such big hatred towards me its ok it amuses me. all ya'll think i'm ugly and butch it's ok. it just confirms everything i said in chat. i don't feel bad at all for what i said now bc you should see the comments from other blogs. i was only looking out for you, girl. but i do admire your fire and standing up to me. yeah let's see more pics... You apologized to nash thats what counts. Whatever they say now to you (directly or indirectly) are their issues. DB, You do realize that all these men that are talking crap about your looks once tried to get with you right? you do realize they all bent over backwards for your attention at one time. They are just trying to overshadow that you have it and that don't It = style, grace, humility, beauty, smarts. They are trying to play games and shake your confidence because thats what weak minded people do. Look at the situation from a weak mans POV. He tries to get with a chick and It doesnt work out because the chemistry isnt there. Its obvious he is more interested in her cause she moved on easily. So when he meets with other men from a like crowd he insults her jokingly, maybe her looks first then maybe her emotional being... maybe answers on a blog... this way she is discredited and other men won't make the play. Problem is My darling DB.. you didnt keep in that crowd. You met someone out of that loop who sees you for everything positive you truly are (and for that i am so envious). Now the situation doesn't add up for this first dude.. because if you were so horrible you would have never found someone to appreciate you... You proved them wrong by being happy. As for this situation with Nash. Cut your losses. She is a beautiful girl and the attention she recieves for being beautiful is deservedly so. It is sad that these fools must use her beauty to inspire such uglyness... but these other people on her blog are ugly to begin with in every way... which is further proof why they never stood a chance with you. CAUSE THEY BE UGLY! lol
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7/21/2008 8:38 am |
Unni, I got your back. just merely a fly needing a swatting...
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7/20/2008 9:27 pm |
recent light: the stabbing comment was meant to be a joke mango? twisted joke.
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7/20/2008 9:23 pm |
Unni, I got your back.
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7/20/2008 6:36 pm |
DB, It took a while to respond to your blog, mostly because of this great disappointment that plagued chat society lately. As much as certain people say “Chat is not real” I know different. There are tons of great people online via forums, websites and chat life. There are real people out there on the web that are genuine. It’s saddening to say that this place doesn’t have many like that anymore. I have come to the depressing conclusion that the cliquish attitude is related the selfish intentions of site users and the ethnic background of members (which tends to be cliquish traditionally). Originally people in chat fooled me for a long while, in what I believed. They made me believe that people care but time and time again showed me at what horrible people they truly are. It used to cause heart break now it just makes me angry that they are allowed to dump on others to make themselves feel better. It upsets me that others watch thinking it is a form of entertainment too, like no one really matters. It’s why I said what I said to FU that day. Anyway, you know how I feel. I do not think you should be chased out of a place that welcomes you because of a bully. And that’s what he and others are… bullies. You have never caused issues only fought back against others and their Sh*t-talking. What they say about you is wrong because you are a beautiful person both physically and emotionally. You deserve better treatment. The tactics to discredit you are to over shadow faults. He is guilty of what he accuses others of ten fold. The tactics to intimidate others in chat are just so childish and when you call them on it they get angry. He owes you an apology for everything. One for trying to discredit you, keeping rumors alive, calling you names, his emotional outbursts and ruining chat. He also owes you apology for his weak reasoning for keeping it up. The way he brought up other girls from the past was just a WEAK attempt at grasping at straws. When he called XQ and left her that threatening voice mail and then he said that stuff in chat about you I realized he had truly no respect for women. It made me realize even more at what a poor person his mother was (probably personality wise). Any woman that cannot instill common respect in her son towards women is a failure at being a mother. Any man that can take it this far when a woman is involved was probably raised wrong. I am sorry once upon a time he was a valued aqauintence of yours but at least now it’s a level of letting go. If others see different it is because they have selective sight. I hope that one they they will be inspired to be better people. I pray for the day when people who fight back for better treatment are seen as good people and nor drama starters. I dont want you to leave. In all honesty I want wish them bonvoyage. The people that feel Chat isnt real and people here that say they arent real. It should be very easy for them in real life without chat right? they are the so called better ones so why do they need chat at all? Why dont they just leave? let's just let it go. too many ppl are so damn sensitive. ppl have too many fragile egos. ppl are so used to having their egos stroked that they can't stand it when others stand up to them and tell them otherwise. ppl don't know the whole story and they call me names. it's ok. i never was on here to make friends with the world. i am grateful for the frienships i've had for years and the handful of friendships i've made on here. i count my blessings and i am blessed. that's all that matters.
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7/20/2008 6:26 pm |
wow i didn't think bringing up a girl's name was going to start such big hatred towards me its ok it amuses me. all ya'll think i'm ugly and butch it's ok. it just confirms everything i said in chat. i don't feel bad at all for what i said now bc you should see the comments from other blogs. i was only looking out for you, girl. but i do admire your fire and standing up to me. yeah let's see more pics...
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7/20/2008 12:08 pm |
DB, It took a while to respond to your blog, mostly because of this great disappointment that plagued chat society lately. As much as certain people say “Chat is not real” I know different. There are tons of great people online via forums, websites and chat life. There are real people out there on the web that are genuine. It’s saddening to say that this place doesn’t have many like that anymore. I have come to the depressing conclusion that the cliquish attitude is related the selfish intentions of site users and the ethnic background of members (which tends to be cliquish traditionally). Originally people in chat fooled me for a long while, in what I believed. They made me believe that people care but time and time again showed me at what horrible people they truly are. It used to cause heart break now it just makes me angry that they are allowed to dump on others to make themselves feel better. It upsets me that others watch thinking it is a form of entertainment too, like no one really matters. It’s why I said what I said to FU that day. Anyway, you know how I feel. I do not think you should be chased out of a place that welcomes you because of a bully. And that’s what he and others are… bullies. You have never caused issues only fought back against others and their Sh*t-talking. What they say about you is wrong because you are a beautiful person both physically and emotionally. You deserve better treatment. The tactics to discredit you are to over shadow faults. He is guilty of what he accuses others of ten fold. The tactics to intimidate others in chat are just so childish and when you call them on it they get angry. He owes you an apology for everything. One for trying to discredit you, keeping rumors alive, calling you names, his emotional outbursts and ruining chat. He also owes you apology for his weak reasoning for keeping it up. The way he brought up other girls from the past was just a WEAK attempt at grasping at straws. When he called XQ and left her that threatening voice mail and then he said that stuff in chat about you I realized he had truly no respect for women. It made me realize even more at what a poor person his mother was (probably personality wise). Any woman that cannot instill common respect in her son towards women is a failure at being a mother. Any man that can take it this far when a woman is involved was probably raised wrong. I am sorry once upon a time he was a valued aqauintence of yours but at least now it’s a level of letting go. If others see different it is because they have selective sight. I hope that one they they will be inspired to be better people. I pray for the day when people who fight back for better treatment are seen as good people and nor drama starters. I dont want you to leave. In all honesty I want wish them bonvoyage. The people that feel Chat isnt real and people here that say they arent real. It should be very easy for them in real life without chat right? they are the so called better ones so why do they need chat at all? Why dont they just leave?
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7/20/2008 9:38 am |
DB ya, I'm sorry you are in middle of this. Don't know what happened but hope you know I support you in whatever you do. Outcome might not be what you or anyone else have expected or wanted but I do know that you would not intentionally hurt anyone. As people get to know you more personally as I have had privilege to do so, I am very sure they will understand. if ppl can't see my intentions, then screw them. i can care less of their opinions now bc they don't see how mean people can be. telling them they deserve cancer and now the new rumor is, i want to "stab" him hence bluemango's comment and owen's on some other's blog. quite frankly i am satisifed bc some chatters have seen how mean he can be...he just dug himself a hole. i don't really care anymore bc he isn't worth it, he has pissed off enough people (men and women), i'm sure he'll get his without me so-called "hurting" him.
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7/19/2008 4:06 pm |
DB ya, I'm sorry you are in middle of this. Don't know what happened but hope you know I support you in whatever you do. Outcome might not be what you or anyone else have expected or wanted but I do know that you would not intentionally hurt anyone. As people get to know you more personally as I have had privilege to do so, I am very sure they will understand.
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7/19/2008 11:56 am |
hmmmmmmmmm<<<<< clearly,i think you should leave here! for your own sanity. this isn't healthy. it could also interfere with school and your special lucky guy. i wouldn't jeapordize all that! please, don't ever stab me! mr. mango
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7/19/2008 11:42 am |
hmmmmmmmmm<<<<< clearly,i think you should leave here! for your own sanity. this isn't healthy. it could also interfere with school and your special lucky guy. i wouldn't jeapordize all that! please, don't ever stab me! mr. mango i never said i would harm him but i will get in his face if he doesn't stop.
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7/18/2008 8:16 pm |
hummmmmm.................
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7/18/2008 9:06 am |
hummmmmm.................
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