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xxxxxxx 10 tHiNGs tO lOsE wHEN itS oVEr xxxxxxx  

jamiexoxo
2/4/2008 8:39 pm

Last Read:
2/20/2008 6:55 pm

1... CLINGING ONTO DA MEMORY

2... HOPING UR X WILL COME BACK TO U

3... PRIDE OF THINKING THAT UR X CAN'T DO ANY BETTER
THAN U

4... HOPING TO KEEP DA RELATIONSHIP GOING @ LEAST AS
FRIENDS

5... EXPECTING UR X TO HAV HARD TIME GETTING OVER U

6... HOPING UR X WON'T HOOK UP WITH ANYONE ELSE

7... REGRETTING FOR DA THINGS U WERE UNABLE TO
PROVIDE

8... HOPING FOR 2ND CHANCE

9... JUSTIFY REASONS FOR FALLING IN LUV

10... LAST BUT NOT DA LEAST... UR EMOTIONS

SOMETHING I READ IN MY FRIENDS SCRAP BOOK...
I AGREE W/ SOME OF THEM...
WUT DO U THINK???
jamiexoxo
597 posts 

2/11/2008 9:01 pm

    Quoting fxybxy:
    Jamiexoxo,
    A friend send below to me recently, gave me some comfort...

    People come into your life for a reason,
    a season or a lifetime.

    When you know which one it is,
    you will know what to do for that person..

    When someone is in your life for a REASON,
    it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
    They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
    to provide you with guidance and support,
    to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
    They may seem like a godsend and they are.
    They are there for the reason you need them to be.
    Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an
    inconvenient time, this person will say or do
    something to bring the relationship to an end.
    Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
    Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
    What we must realize is that our need has been met,
    our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
    The prayer you sent up has been
    answered and now it is time to move on.

    Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
    because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
    They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
    They may teach you something you have never done.
    They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
    Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

    LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime l
    essons, things you must build upon in order
    to have a solid emotional foundation.
    Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person
    and put what you have learned to use in all
    other relationships and areas of your life.
    It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

    Thank you for being a part of my life,
    whether you were a reason,
    a season or whether you are a lifetime.

    Hope you enjoy it!

    fxybxy
FXYBXY...

DAT WAS VERY MOVING...
VERY INTERESTING CUZ DATS MY PHILOSOPHY OF RELATIONSHIPS BETWEEN ME & DA PPL WHO COMES IN & OUT OF MY LIFE...
SOMETHING I MADE UP TO COMFORT MYSELF WHEN I GET SO WRAPPED UP WONDERING
Y IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME, Y DID I END UP HOOKING UP W/ THIS PERSON???
FUNNY HOW THERE 'S SOMEONE ELSE OUT THERE W/ SAME THOUGHTS AS MINE...

WELL.. I DID ENJOY IT & THANX FOR TAKING TIME TO STOP BY...

fxybxy
3 posts

2/10/2008 8:46 pm

Jamiexoxo,
A friend send below to me recently, gave me some comfort...

People come into your life for a reason,
a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is,
you will know what to do for that person..

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an
inconvenient time, this person will say or do
something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been
answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime l
essons, things you must build upon in order
to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person
and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason,
a season or whether you are a lifetime.

Hope you enjoy it!

fxybxy

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

2/6/2008 10:21 pm

    Quoting korn2020:
    I lost all of my CDs .....but kept my respect.....lol
LOL!!! KORN...

korn2020
1871 posts 

2/6/2008 9:08 pm

I lost all of my CDs .....but kept my respect.....lol

KORN

Tadao2
35 posts 

2/6/2008 12:52 pm

I stand corrected jamiexoxo and SailingBleu! I thought there were only a few "girlie men" like me out there!

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

2/5/2008 9:30 pm

    Quoting SailingBleu:
    its not only girlie men there yoda, its all guys, some just wont admit it.
TADAO... UMMMM... I TOTALLY AGREE W/ SAILING, CUZ DA SCRAP BOOK I TOOK THIS LIST OFF OF BELONGED TO A GUY & HE WROTE THE LIST RITE AFTER HE FILED FOR DA DIVORCE...

SO... YEAH... TADAO... IT AIN'T GIRLIE THING!!!

SailingBleu

2/5/2008 3:55 am

its not only girlie men there yoda, its all guys, some just wont admit it.

jbunny012

2/5/2008 12:00 am

amen...lol

Tadao2
35 posts 

2/4/2008 10:35 pm

LOL!

Being a certified "Girlie Man" I remember doing all these things and losing even more respect than I thought possible.

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