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jamiexoxo
12/3/2007 9:01 pm

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SO... I'VE BEEN TO TALKING TO SOME OF U GUYS ABOUT FALLING IN LUV~~~
MY UNDERSTANDING IS DAT GUYS DO NOT OR @ LEAST NOT EASILY FALL IN LUV LIKE WE GIRLS DO...
UNLIKE US GIRLS WHO WANT TO B W/ DA GUY WE LUV, GUYS RATHER PICK & CHOOSE THEIR MATE, WHICH IS SO UNFAIR..
BY DA TIME WE'VE TOTALLY FALL IN LUV W/ U, U MITE HAV BEEN TESTING OUT FEW TO SEE WHICH FITS U DA BEST. SOOOOO NOT FAIR... BREAKING GIRLS HEARTS!!!

LADIES!!! HERE'S DA LIST OF THINGS GUYS LOOK FOR IN GIRLS WHEN THEY DO THEIR COMPARISON~~~
1- HOW HOT U LOOK
2- HOW GOOD U R IN DA BED
3- CAN U COOK & CLEAN
4- CAN U LEAD INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS
5- DO U HAV SENSE OF HUMOR
6- R U ONE MAN WOMAN


HONESTLY... I THINK GUYS SHOULD WAKE UP & SMELL DA COFFEE!!! LIKE THEY HAV SO MUCH TO OFFER!!!
BIG CHAM NAH!!!
jamiexoxo
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QQ010
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jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/26/2007 6:42 pm

    Quoting Casper21:
    Hey Jamie,

    Long time no talk. Sorry about that but my new job is keeping so busy... Hope you are doing well... How you know who? Driving you nuts yet?

    Hmm.... So far so good with me... Grace and I are doing better as we move along...

    As far as ur blog goes... You know what I think without me stating anything, but then again, I am against the norm wouldn't you agree?

    Best wishes always,

    Marcus
OMG!!! MARCUS... HOW NICE OF U TO DROP IN!!!
WELL... I'M GLAD ALL'S WELL BTWEEN U & GRACE.
I KNOW.. I KNOW... COURSE I DO KNOW WUT UR THINKING...
I KNOW UR HAVING SO MUCH FUN W/ GRACE... BUT DO CHECK UP ON ME
ONCE IN WHILE.. OKEY???

brainteaser69

12/23/2007 4:39 am

    Quoting Ozee316:
    Na, I didn't edit it. Whats yur deal?

brainteaser69

12/22/2007 1:28 am

    Quoting Ozee316:
    My profile doesn't say "have become" it says "to become", have another look. I guess you are not yet familiar with the nuances of English grammar which allow my profile to imply that it may not be an immediate progression to Professor but rather one that could take many years. In fact, you are right it will probably take me more than 10 years to become a full professor after I get my PhD.

    So what?
Ozee! hahaha!u edited ur profile after my comments.I wish i really had some time to spare out of my busy shedule to read profiles of all common men/members in kff.Anyway good luck Mr Professor.

jamie!i am myself going bad times these days.Maybe bad office / sad personal life.Thats why i am so bitter these days.Thanks for being nice.I appreciate ur patience and ur sportive spirit.I am concerned about u.Honest.Take care.

regards
Bt

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/21/2007 8:13 pm

    Quoting DangerousBeauty2:
    what is normal...people have their own definitions. they create their own world.

    anyways...i'm just rambling.
HEY DB...

WUTS TROUBLING U NOW???
U WANNA TALK ON DA PHONE OR E-MAIL ME???

UNNIE

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/21/2007 8:11 pm

    Quoting Ozee316:
    I think Brainteaser69 is gettinhg a little bit strange.

    Anyway, on your post I think you might have been spending too much time with the wrong guys. Maybe it is American guys, or maybe the particular crossection of American guys you have been dating. Do you have a certain preference yourself that leads you to these men who all have these particular traits?

    For example if you only liked men with good jobs and strong careers then this may be a particular quality of that group of men. Also if you are only going for Korean-American men then again maybe they operate on a preference list basis.

    It doesn't work that way for most guys who fall just as hard as you do by the way.
OZEE...

BT TOOK WORDS OUTTA MY MOUTH!!!

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/21/2007 8:09 pm

    Quoting brainteaser69:
    ozee or whatever !

    Your comments on this blog ; giving such a valuable advice to a woman much older to u in age and experinece and your looks in your profile pic definately suggest that u are not a 26 year old man as shown in ur profile but a more matured person of say about 56 years of age.

    Plus in addition u have mentioned in your profile that u have become an english professor in a Korean UNIVERSITY ; and that too when u are just 26 years old.Do they make u a Professor directly in any university around the world?I thought u have to start as a reader , then lecturer , then assistant professor etc.R u aware that Masters may not be enough to be a Professor anywhere in world.U need 2 be a min PHD for that?But anyway since 'You think''due to ur rare thinking skills maybe they consider your case as an exception.haha.

    And OMG U think too ? Please dont think too much.Ok.

    BT
HEY BT... NORMALLY, I WOULD B VERY UPSET FOR U TRYING TO PLAY DA HOST...
BUT I HAVEN'T BEEN MYSELF LATELY... I'M OVERWHELMED BY SO MANY THINGS THAT JUST DROPPED ON ME!!! SO I'LL LET U SLY THIS TIME... K???

brainteaser69

12/21/2007 1:03 am

    Quoting Ozee316:
    I think Brainteaser69 is gettinhg a little bit strange.

    Anyway, on your post I think you might have been spending too much time with the wrong guys. Maybe it is American guys, or maybe the particular crossection of American guys you have been dating. Do you have a certain preference yourself that leads you to these men who all have these particular traits?

    For example if you only liked men with good jobs and strong careers then this may be a particular quality of that group of men. Also if you are only going for Korean-American men then again maybe they operate on a preference list basis.

    It doesn't work that way for most guys who fall just as hard as you do by the way.
ozee or whatever !

Your comments on this blog ; giving such a valuable advice to a woman much older to u in age and experinece and your looks in your profile pic definately suggest that u are not a 26 year old man as shown in ur profile but a more matured person of say about 56 years of age.

Plus in addition u have mentioned in your profile that u have become an english professor in a Korean UNIVERSITY ; and that too when u are just 26 years old.Do they make u a Professor directly in any university around the world?I thought u have to start as a reader , then lecturer , then assistant professor etc.R u aware that Masters may not be enough to be a Professor anywhere in world.U need 2 be a min PHD for that?But anyway since 'You think''due to ur rare thinking skills maybe they consider your case as an exception.haha.

And OMG U think too ? Please dont think too much.Ok.

BT

brainteaser69

12/21/2007 12:48 am

    Quoting Ozee316:
    I think Brainteaser69 is gettinhg a little bit strange.

    Anyway, on your post I think you might have been spending too much time with the wrong guys. Maybe it is American guys, or maybe the particular crossection of American guys you have been dating. Do you have a certain preference yourself that leads you to these men who all have these particular traits?

    For example if you only liked men with good jobs and strong careers then this may be a particular quality of that group of men. Also if you are only going for Korean-American men then again maybe they operate on a preference list basis.

    It doesn't work that way for most guys who fall just as hard as you do by the way.
ozee or whatever !

Your comments on this blog ; giving such a valuable advice to a woman much older to u in age and experinece and your looks in your profile pic definately suggest that u are not a 26 year old man as shown in ur profile but a more matured person of say about 56 years of age.

And OMG U think too ? Please dont think too much.Ok.

BT

Casper21

12/19/2007 11:06 pm

Hey Jamie,

Long time no talk. Sorry about that but my new job is keeping so busy... Hope you are doing well... How you know who? Driving you nuts yet?

Hmm.... So far so good with me... Grace and I are doing better as we move along...

As far as ur blog goes... You know what I think without me stating anything, but then again, I am against the norm wouldn't you agree?

Best wishes always,

Marcus

brainteaser69

12/19/2007 3:05 am

    Quoting jamiexoxo:
    IT IS VERY COURAGEOUS FOR A MAN TO CONFESS HIS LOVE IN PUBLIC... IF DATS HE TRUELY IS IN LOVE... BUT HOW DA HELL DO U FALL IN LOVE W/ SOMEONE U HARDLY KNOW + DA FACT THAT I HAVE DONE NOTHING.. I MEAN NADA, ZIP... ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LEAD U ON ??????

    SORRY BT... I DON'T BELIEVE IN CYBER DATING NOR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP...

Jamie ! U r really soooo goood! n thats why i love u.((((HUGGS)))take care.
bt

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/18/2007 8:22 pm

    Quoting brainteaser69:
    JAMIE OK !
    I CONFESS 2 U PUBLICLY THAT THAT GUY ( IE THE GUY WHO LOVES U UNCONDITIONALLY )IS ME.NOW WHAT ?
    LOVE U
    SHEEN/BT
IT IS VERY COURAGEOUS FOR A MAN TO CONFESS HIS LOVE IN PUBLIC... IF DATS HE TRUELY IS IN LOVE... BUT HOW DA HELL DO U FALL IN LOVE W/ SOMEONE U HARDLY KNOW + DA FACT THAT I HAVE DONE NOTHING.. I MEAN NADA, ZIP... ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LEAD U ON ??????

SORRY BT... I DON'T BELIEVE IN CYBER DATING NOR LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP...

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/18/2007 7:57 pm

    Quoting seanmkim:
    Well, my ass is pretty flat. My mom slapped me in the ass too much 'cause I was a naughty boy.

    You don't have to offer anything to have your own preference. I can't satisfy everyone but I do have some things to offer. If someone likes what I have, that's good or she needs to move on but I'll always love nice asses no matter what. lol

I'M REALLY REALLY..... I MEAN REALLY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT UR ASS & UR MOM

& Y WON'T U DISCLOSE WUT IT IS DAT U HAV TO OFFER??? HUH?? SEAN... HUH??? KKKKKKK

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/18/2007 7:50 pm

    Quoting viv77f:
    About the comparison thing.. Except for #2(In my opinion, I don't think that guys who are in for long term really care about that anyways), I don't think it's all bad up to certain extent. We all only have one life, and can have one boyfriend/girlfriend at a time. So, we have to be certain we are spending our precious time with the "right" man/woman
HEY VIV??? COMPARISON THANG IS FINE AS LONG AS THEY TEST 1 @ A TIME & DO NOT MISLEAD DA GIRLS WHILE THEY R @ IT!!!

SORRY SISTER... BUT #2 SEEMS TO B DA MOST IMPORTANT QUALITY OF ALL ACCORDING TO MOST MEN... ITS NOT ABOUT HOW GOOD U R , BUT MORE LIKE HOW COMPATIBLE U R TO DA GUY...

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/18/2007 7:43 pm

    Quoting sabeeneh:
    jamie,

    MY UNDERSTANDING IS DAT GUYS DO NOT OR @ LEAST NOT EASILY FALL IN LUV LIKE WE GIRLS DO...
    is it really falling in love or just being infatuated???
    why do girls fall in love easily???

    LADIES!!! HERE'S DA LIST OF THINGS GUYS LOOK FOR IN GIRLS WHEN THEY DO THEIR COMPARISON~~~
    1- HOW HOT U LOOK
    2- HOW GOOD U R IN DA BED
    3- CAN U COOK & CLEAN
    4- CAN U LEAD INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS
    5- DO U HAV SENSE OF HUMOR
    6- R U ONE MAN WOMAN

    i lack in numbers 1&2, no wonder i'm still single...
    can i find a guy who can be happy with 4 out of 6???

    sabine
SABINE... WHERE R ALL UR BLOG POSTS???
ANYWAY... BEING INFATUATED= FOOLISH, EXTREME, AND UNREASONING PASSION TOWARD SOMEONE... THIS IS DA CASE IF DA MEN WHO IS BEING INFATUATED HAS DONE NOTHING TO MISLEAD DA GIRL. OH PLZ SABINE.. DON'T TELL ME U NEVER RAN INTO THOSE LOSERS WHO'D SAY ANYTHING TO GET WUT THEY WANT?????
IF DA MAN MISLEADS DA GIRL WITH DECEPTIVE NOTION OF HIM BEING IN LOVE W/ DA GIRL AND DA GIRL HAS STRONG FEELING FOR DA MAN... THEN IT SHOULD B CONSIDERED AS FALLING IN LOVE..... I THINK

viv77f
105 posts 

12/18/2007 9:38 am

About the comparison thing.. Except for #2(In my opinion, I don't think that guys who are in for long term really care about that anyways), I don't think it's all bad up to certain extent. We all only have one life, and can have one boyfriend/girlfriend at a time. So, we have to be certain we are spending our precious time with the "right" man/woman

viv77f
105 posts 

12/18/2007 9:31 am

Oh, I meant play hard to get When [men] knowing that we [women] are just as much as happy being single, they will do anything and everything to persuade us being theirs

sabeeneh

12/18/2007 12:51 am

jamie,

MY UNDERSTANDING IS DAT GUYS DO NOT OR @ LEAST NOT EASILY FALL IN LUV LIKE WE GIRLS DO...
is it really falling in love or just being infatuated???
why do girls fall in love easily???

LADIES!!! HERE'S DA LIST OF THINGS GUYS LOOK FOR IN GIRLS WHEN THEY DO THEIR COMPARISON~~~
1- HOW HOT U LOOK
2- HOW GOOD U R IN DA BED
3- CAN U COOK & CLEAN
4- CAN U LEAD INTELLIGENT CONVERSATIONS
5- DO U HAV SENSE OF HUMOR
6- R U ONE MAN WOMAN

i lack in numbers 1&2, no wonder i'm still single...
can i find a guy who can be happy with 4 out of 6???

sabine

brainteaser69

12/17/2007 3:57 pm

JAMIE OK !
I CONFESS 2 U PUBLICLY THAT THAT GUY ( IE THE GUY WHO LOVES U UNCONDITIONALLY )IS ME.NOW WHAT ?
LOVE U
SHEEN/BT

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/16/2007 1:19 pm

    Quoting scottnjersey:
    I read the list someone listed as to what guys look for in women, it is a list based on immaturity, believe me, a mature guy looks deeper into who the lady is that what is on the surface. The surface qualities may attract a guy, but it is what is going on in the brain that will keep them, if they dont stay, they probably werent worth it anyway.
Scott...

But... Y r so many men judgemental based on ur surface qualities & refuse to go beyond to find out wuts deeper inside a girl?? Mayb dats da difference btween korean men & western men. Although they post opened minded on their profile, i find most korean men to hav smallest minds out of men of all cultures. If ur style is up to date & fashionable, Korean men automatically put u under immature airheaded divorced woman going thru midlife crises & don't care to get to know u better. Well my sense of style would b same whether i was stilled married or not ...& ppl who know me knows how deep i am... So fooey on narrowed minded losers.

scottnjersey

12/16/2007 10:13 am

I read the list someone listed as to what guys look for in women, it is a list based on immaturity, believe me, a mature guy looks deeper into who the lady is that what is on the surface. The surface qualities may attract a guy, but it is what is going on in the brain that will keep them, if they dont stay, they probably werent worth it anyway.

seanmkim
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12/15/2007 1:18 pm

    Quoting jamiexoxo:
    UHHHHH..... SEAN???

    DO U HAV NICE ROUND ASS??? KEKE
    IF U LIKE NICE ASSES FROM GIRLS, WUT DO U HAVE TO OFFER IN RETURN ???
    I LIKE TO KNOW...

Well, my ass is pretty flat. My mom slapped me in the ass too much 'cause I was a naughty boy.

You don't have to offer anything to have your own preference. I can't satisfy everyone but I do have some things to offer. If someone likes what I have, that's good or she needs to move on but I'll always love nice asses no matter what. lol

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/11/2007 6:13 pm

    Quoting seanmkim:
    What's up with this guy bashing? Is it really wrong to love a nice round ass? lol Seriously though, I thought girls have way longer lists than guys do?

    I don't fall in love easily and I don't think there's nothing fair or unfair about it. I think the reason why I don't is because I don't have any set of standards. I just take individuals as they come and go with the flow and I find myself attracted to different types of women. In other words, I don't know what I want. Oh actually I do...nice asses. lol
UHHHHH..... SEAN???

DO U HAV NICE ROUND ASS??? KEKE
IF U LIKE NICE ASSES FROM GIRLS, WUT DO U HAVE TO OFFER IN RETURN ???
I LIKE TO KNOW...

seanmkim
71 posts 

12/8/2007 2:10 pm

What's up with this guy bashing? Is it really wrong to love a nice round ass? lol Seriously though, I thought girls have way longer lists than guys do?

I don't fall in love easily and I don't think there's nothing fair or unfair about it. I think the reason why I don't is because I don't have any set of standards. I just take individuals as they come and go with the flow and I find myself attracted to different types of women. In other words, I don't know what I want. Oh actually I do...nice asses. lol

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/7/2007 7:18 pm

THANX FOR UR ADVICE VIV77... HOWEVER...

WHERE I LIVE, WE HAV DOUBLE STANDARD.
MEN CAN GET AWAY W/ ANYTHING... WHILE WOMEN EARN REPUTATIONS...
HOPE U KNOW WUT I MEAN...

MUST B NICE TO B SINGLE & YOUNG AND WORRYFREE OF EARNING REPUTATION
DAT CAN COMEBACK TO HUNT UR CHILD...

viv77f
105 posts 

12/6/2007 1:44 pm

Just play their games, it's fun!!!

EvanLi
78 posts 

12/6/2007 2:57 am

dear jamie,

According to the Declaration of Independence,
Article I. All men are born free and equal,and....blah blah blah........(I'm curious....what would you say about this? you agree or disagree? what's your standpoint about this? it's a origin,or it's more like a goal...)

for me,the answer is equivocal.........
Referting to the relationship,equality may or may not exist between you and your mate.(depends on the person)

There's a old saying ,"A distant journey tests the strength of a horse and a long task proves the character of a man."
You may not able to control him,but you can control urself.Take your time,do not mislead by him,you are on your own.

yeaaah....mostly women are tending to emotional appeal than men.(there's not thing wrong about that...that's why you ladys are so lovely in love....lol)

in the end,FOR YOU ONLY
All men are created equal. All women are superior to men.

Evan

SFSG

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/5/2007 9:24 pm

EVAN... ITS SAID BETTER THAN DONE !!!

LOTA GUYS INTENTION SEEMS TO B WUT U R REFERRING TO START OFF AS FRIENDS, CASUAL DATING... ETC. ETC. BUT ALONG DA WAY... U GUYS FORGET
WUT CASUAL DATING MEANS & START MISLEADING, CONFUSING US POOR GIRLS JUST TO GET WUT U GUYS WANT... OFTEN END UP BREAKING OUR LITTLE HEARTS & HURTING US !!!!! THIS IS WUT I MEAN BY " NOT FAIR "

OUR HEARTS R VERY FRAGILE... PLEASE HANDLE W/ CARE!!!

EvanLi
78 posts 

12/5/2007 1:01 pm

    Quoting sweetpepe:
    Dear XoXo

    Jamie, your premise is not altogether correct.
    Some guys do fall in love.
    Some girls I ve known, do the "comparison" thang
    better than any guys that I know.

    At least is men are a lot less likely to fall in love
    with a girl's bank account....


    "well my hands are shaky and ma knees are weak
    I caint seem to stand on ma own two feet, who
    do you thank when you have such luck? i am in love
    I m all shook up... uh huh uh... uh huh...yay, yay~~"
    - Elvis

jamie & pepe,

I'm with you 2 all!!!

btw,my opinion is....
A casual dating or a unconditional relationship are always a good way to develop a good relationship.

Dating a new boy/gal friend as if he/she is just a male/female "friend".
Starting the relationship as if he/she is just another frined before you have got ready to take the next step.

you never know what happen until it's happened...
you never know who is the one until you have found the one...

SFSG

brainteaser69

12/4/2007 10:42 pm

    Quoting jamiexoxo:
    NO .... HAV NO IDEA WHO NOONE IS.... BT
Jamie!
That guy is shy type and he told me that he already sent u a mail ab it ab 5 mins back.
cheers n love again
bt

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/4/2007 10:24 pm

NO .... HAV NO IDEA WHO NOONE IS.... BT

brainteaser69

12/4/2007 9:42 pm

    Quoting jamiexoxo:
    HEY BRAINTEASER...

    WHO DA HELL IS NOONE?????

Jamie!
u know well who this noone is.he already confessed 2 u.
love again
bt

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/4/2007 9:25 pm

HEY BRAINTEASER...

WHO DA HELL IS NOONE?????

brainteaser69

12/4/2007 9:24 pm

Jamie!
When someone loves unconditioanlly all the points at sl no 1 to 6 mentioned by you are immaterial.
love
bt

brainteaser69

12/4/2007 9:21 pm

Jamie!
It is definately not fair on ur part to say that guys love just like that.I have not ever dated a woman in my life - honest.Reason i did not want to go against the wish of my father for an arranged marriage for me as per family traditions.I was sensitive guy and i thought that if i am out with a girl i will never backtrack and so i never went for it.Always exercised a restraint on myself.
Jamie are u honestly sure that noone has ever loved u seriously?Maybe u could not understand his love.Or u wrongly misunderstood that he did not love u seriously and UNCONDITIONALLY.Jamie UNCONDITIONAL love is rare these days and if someone loves u unconditionally dont let it go a miss.
take care my dear Jamie
sheen/bt

brainteaser69

12/4/2007 9:16 pm

    Quoting jamiexoxo:
    HUH?? HUH??? HUH??? BRAINTEASER...

    WUT DA HELL U TALKIN ABOUT????

    WHEN DID U TRADE UR PIPE 4 DA HAT???

jamie i had to shave my head on the 10th day of my fathers recent expiry as per our religious customs and so this hat.
love
bt

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/4/2007 8:41 pm

HUH?? HUH??? HUH??? BRAINTEASER...

WUT DA HELL U TALKIN ABOUT????

WHEN DID U TRADE UR PIPE 4 DA HAT???

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/4/2007 8:38 pm

HAHAHA DB...

I C UR FAN OF BRAD PITT...

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

12/4/2007 8:36 pm

UHHH.... SWEETIE???

GIRLS' COMPARISON LIST IS MUCH SHORTER THAN GUYS... HEHE

I KNOW LOTA LAZY GUYS LOOKIN 4 SUGAR MAMAS...
WUT DO U THINK THEY FALL IN LUV WITH??? KEKE

R U STILL IN KOREA???

brainteaser69

12/4/2007 1:00 am

sorry sorry sorry ;
but just dont leave me alone.dear dear jamie.
sheen
bt

sweetpepe
1329 posts 

12/3/2007 11:15 pm

Dear XoXo

Jamie, your premise is not altogether correct.
Some guys do fall in love.
Some girls I ve known, do the "comparison" thang
better than any guys that I know.

At least is men are a lot less likely to fall in love
with a girl's bank account....


"well my hands are shaky and ma knees are weak
I caint seem to stand on ma own two feet, who
do you thank when you have such luck? i am in love
I m all shook up... uh huh uh... uh huh...yay, yay~~"
- Elvis

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