Hon3sty is th3 b3st policy????
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Hi All you lonely people! HONESTY IS DA BEST POLICY!!But seems like most of you into online dating has forgotten this awesome rule! That's kinda sad..... It's like you can't trust any one, trust is two way street. U don't trust them they don't trust u. I got into online dating maybe just about 3 months and already heard enough deceptive stories, makes me wonder why i am still online. But hoping maybe 1 day just 1 day i will find that someone special i could trust and respect. p.s. I really felt that this addendum was necessary in order to correct any informations misread/ misunderstood by friends on this site. i was not the victim of deception, the stories were about the incidents that happened 2 others i met online. they were just kind enough 2 let me on a warning signs to watch for, so that i can b safe online. thanx and b safe 
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10/11/2007 10:00 am |
WOW!!! Funny Joe... Dats pretty powerfulstuff u wrote there... Now... Do u practice wut u preach?????
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9/17/2007 5:15 pm |
Hi Jamie, I'm normal, want to talk?
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9/6/2007 11:32 am |
honesty = act of straightforwardness deception = act of false impression da world is full of... no its made up of deception. with passing of time, it gets worse. we r consistently bombarded with deception. do we stop trusting people? should we take in everything with a grain of salt? no, my policy is to give everyone da benefit of doubt. we all make mistake at 1 point or another. extend grace to whom dat do. forgive and move on. cuz grudge is a disease dat eats away at core and consumes our life if u let it take control of ur life. i tend to look at good characteristic of a person... even those who has done me wrong. however, i don't let others continue to misuse honesty with me. in time, trust will be bestowed upon who are honest. knowing how lack i am personally, i strive on daily basis to live a life of integrity. i found out its not about looking others for honesty, but it was about looking within... as i can control who i am, not others. yes, honesty is da best policy, but don't pull ur self down cuz others are not honest with u. instead, forgive and move one to a brighter day... never lose hope in people!
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8/7/2007 10:21 pm |
i coulnd't agree more with ur blog =)
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8/3/2007 12:54 am |
damn ..... Jamie please take a look at a your own addendum. thanks.
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7/30/2007 10:13 pm |
What the h..is going on?......why are people so into talking about the worst in people, who cares, at the end of the day if your radar antennas are not sharp, you'll buy into some dumb laim stories and be deceived. If your the half the girl you think you are, you won't be deceived or played by some pretender......don't we all in some ways direct people to what we want them to think about us? Why don't we all post the not so good looking honest pictures or tell each other some of the dumb dumb things we've done that would be identified as borderline or right on family member of stupidity.....Jamie, I will give you one clue...beware of anyone starting their sentence with "let me be honest with you" a dead givaway........lol
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7/25/2007 7:56 pm |
Jamie, Very hard to comment on this, Jamie. Patience and time will help you find the right person. Try to understand why that significant person has been doing to you instead of jumping into conclusions that you were deceived by that someone special. Only expected to be pampered by that person instead of giving that person a degree of understanding and love to understand the reasons behind those lies? This world is such a wonderful world if you know how to enjoy and make it be. I believe that the relationship is such a things so you can make it better or worse. It is all up to you! Get angry once you know the reasons behind those lies.
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7/22/2007 11:04 pm |
jaime...why do you think ppl are online? they want to live a life outside of their own. from previous ppl who have commented on your blog...honesty is the best policy. but at times, they don't even know what they want in life...that is why i don't date divorced men anymore...
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7/12/2007 6:59 am |
I believe in what I believe in, be it Hohesty, or otherwise only you know what kind of person you are, my suggestion is that you should be more open and dont take it seriously, if its the true LOVE that you're looking for, then when the time come.. it will be there with out you knowing it.. Stearing at you. Just be patient.
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7/11/2007 9:48 pm |
Jamie is real simple.. People just lie all the time.And ourself is part of the b;ame to believes they say.See we get so wrap up about finding that person what Else they say make us lol and smile. try working outside the box...
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7/10/2007 11:22 pm |
Sorry to hear that your experiences so far have not been good. I personally am a firm believer in honesty, especially on a site like this. If you lie, the person will forever distrust you and you are not going to get anywhere. There is no point in being deceitful in any way since it only end up hurting or frustrating everyone. Also, if you are not honest, you are actually not only making someone elses life more difficult, but you are making yours more difficult for having to maintain the lie. There are so many bad things that come with lying and so many good reasons not to lie. If the person that you are talking with does not like the real you, then they are obviously not for you. It is a lot easier to find that out at the begining of a relationship than months or years down the line. Being honest will weed out those people from your life. Unfortunately you do get the game players and the just plain mean people, and realy I hope that karma gets them in the end.
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7/10/2007 1:42 pm |
We have all been hurt. Probably the worst hurt is that society will not let us start over. Honesty makes a relationship both exciting and intimate. Without honesty there is no intimacy. If two people can be truly naked and honest, they will enjoy true intimacy. At that moment, peace will also come and heal every hurt
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7/10/2007 9:48 am |
I can honestly say that honesty is not what is used to mean. What is honest to you may not be honest to someone else. Whenever someone introduces themself to someone new, they usually are introducing themself to their "new self" as well. The only way a person can find honesty to trust 70% and keep 30% doubt or shall I say caution. Then as time passes, you will either find out that the rest of the 30% can turn in to trust or reverse everything and turn it into 100% distrust. I am the first one to admit (although I bet others won't) when I was in my twenties that I tried to play the game and say anything to see if I could meet girls. But as time passed and I got older, wiser, and married (and divorced though had nothing to do with honesty on my part), I found out the best way to find the person you want is to be straight up, foward but nice, and see what comes out of the other person's mouth. Games and mistrust are for those who don't know what they want. For those who know what they want, honesty is the only way to find what you desire most. If the other person does not want to be honest, well, no loss on my life. But hey, that is just my observation. Marcus
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7/9/2007 6:44 pm |
Hi Jamie, This is actually my first day on the site and to be perfectly honest, I am a bit leary myself. I to am hoping that I will find someone who was raised to respect others as I have. However, I think that one of the biggest problems that we face in our society is the fact that people don't respect themselves. Of course if you cannot respect and love yourself then you are in capable of treating others as they should be treated. Oops, I guess I need to get of of my soap box!!! Rob- username: Trynit
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7/9/2007 8:59 am |
Hi Jamie Sorry to hear that you ve been deceived online. But you know... it happens a lot offline also. It s so much easier to lie than to risk being disliked, I guess. You WILL find that someone, Jamie. Pete.
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7/6/2007 9:09 pm |
That is just it. Everyone doesn't use this site the same. You learn that quickly as many people do not take their actions on here seriously. They use excuses that this is the internet their for they can forget to have common respect and humanity. They use the internet to line their pockets, sexual urges or egos. Be careful With any matchmaking tool. I wish you much luck in your endeavors. Keep Safe -Mia
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