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jamiexoxo
3/16/2009 10:25 am

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8/15/2009 1:19 am

y r men soOOoo~ selfish???
if u need to test the water ,
just go do dat~!
dont b telling one thing
to someone who s sincere to u
then do something totally opposite~!
specially when u know dat person well enuf
to know dat u can b hurting dat person...

Y da greed???
u say u like things simple,
but yet ur da cause of complications,
heartache, all dat unnecessary turmoil...

Ur need to find out wuts out there
Is totally understandable ...
just... Dont b hurting others
who has genuine feelings for u...
go do wut u gotta do...
but dont expect to find the same
when u return...
jamiexoxo
597 posts 

4/17/2009 11:50 pm

    Quoting tomdku:
    hi jamie... i definitely respect you in many ways... very strong with firm thoughts and beliefs... whatever you do, i am absolutely certain that you'll be successful.... im here for you as your friend...
thanx Tom~!
very sweet of u...
so glad to have good friends like u~!

tomdku
2 posts

4/15/2009 12:50 pm

hi jamie... i definitely respect you in many ways... very strong with firm thoughts and beliefs... whatever you do, i am absolutely certain that you'll be successful.... im here for you as your friend...

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

4/8/2009 2:02 am

    Quoting faithful_anthony:
    Hello Jamie!
    How are you? I hope your fine.
    I want to be a friend to you.

    anthony
hello anthony ~!
thanx for stoppin by...
fine??? i hope so 2~ lol
1 can never have 2 many friends~!

faithful_anthony
1 post 

4/7/2009 12:13 am

Hello Jamie!
How are you? I hope your fine.
I want to be a friend to you.

anthony

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

4/1/2009 2:08 am

    Quoting brainteaser2:
    jamie ;
    could this be due to the declining moral values in our present society ?
    Or that a women fells for the wrong guy coz i believe that when a man and a woman are truly in love the woman knows for sure if she can trust the man or not.
    Or is it possible that the womans love for that man is not strong enough to bind him.
sorry bt...
i just been so busy looking for a way outa this mess most of us r in
due to almost global recession we ' r in now~
Bt... Its definitely due to declining moral value...
absences of respect to others , selfish selfcenterness growing in each one of us @ the speed of light....
I miss good old days when ppl were more innocent n naive...

brainteaser2

3/30/2009 3:01 am

Jamie!
It does so happen if u ignore right guys who come your way.hehe.
But its never too late 2 mend.
Take Care
BT

what u see in me is what u are .

brainteaser2

3/27/2009 5:06 am

jamie ;
could this be due to the declining moral values in our present society ?
Or that a women fells for the wrong guy coz i believe that when a man and a woman are truly in love the woman knows for sure if she can trust the man or not.
Or is it possible that the womans love for that man is not strong enough to bind him.

what u see in me is what u are .

brainteaser2

3/27/2009 5:00 am

    Quoting jamiexoxo:
    hey Bt!!! Steven is Steven~!
seeing u after a loong time hope u are fine and so is ur daughter.
take care

what u see in me is what u are .

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/23/2009 9:17 am

    Quoting Number5Lock:
    Jamie, sorry I'm a little late to this post, but I just wanted to add my sympathies. I agree with Owen, "Everyone's selfish, it's just a question of how much." The key is finding the right reasons to be together, not surface reasons that we hope will grow into something real. This rarely works out, and if it does, sooner or later it comes to some kind of bad end anyway. Time lost is no way to live life Jamie.

    Hey when you're done with Cali, come to OK where peeps keeps it real!

    Lance
omg~! # 5... I must b going crazyyy~
is it me or did u skip thru some of the things I wrote???
its about someone who was involved in a long veryyy long relationship
just got out by getting hurt big time .....

He wanted to have serious relationship w me.. I told him not sure
he should or can handle getting into another serious relationship
he s da one " o no ... Dats who i am ... I dont n dont like messing
around.. When i date its only one person @ a time ...
if u feel neglected its cuz i got alota things going on now ... So plz understand ...
ur da only one im interested in n seeing now..."

Ok??? # 5 yet .... Im no dummy ... Been around ... Can tell when
their action does not correspond to the words dat come outs their mouth...
i wouldnt call anyone selfish if it was one way thing~~~ -___-

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/23/2009 8:59 am

hey Bt!!! Steven is Steven~!

Number5Lock
160 posts 

3/22/2009 7:01 pm

Jamie, sorry I'm a little late to this post, but I just wanted to add my sympathies. I agree with Owen, "Everyone's selfish, it's just a question of how much." The key is finding the right reasons to be together, not surface reasons that we hope will grow into something real. This rarely works out, and if it does, sooner or later it comes to some kind of bad end anyway. Time lost is no way to live life Jamie.

Hey when you're done with Cali, come to OK where peeps keeps it real!

Lance

brainteaser2

3/22/2009 2:37 am

Jamie !
who is steven ?
bt

what u see in me is what u are .

Looking1313
40 posts 

3/19/2009 11:59 pm

Hi Jamie, stephen13132000 xxxatxxxyahooxxx Let me know if you get this. Steven.

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/19/2009 7:20 pm

    Quoting Looking1313:
    Hi Jamie, I would like to gtg with some kffers, but don't know many peeps here. Let me know when we can hang, if possible. I would like that. Steven.
Hey~ good~! Let me ask around n c whens best time for everyone...
just let me know how to get hold of u..

Looking1313
40 posts 

3/19/2009 2:32 am

Hi Jamie, I would like to gtg with some kffers, but don't know many peeps here. Let me know when we can hang, if possible. I would like that. Steven.

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/18/2009 1:32 pm

    Quoting Looking1313:
    Hey Jamie, Thanks for being so nice. I haven't chatted with anyone on kff lately, so don't know many peeps in s. cali. Anyways, hope you meet someone nice that interests you. take care,
hey lookin~ sorry .. I think we r having a little miscommunication problm here...
nor trying to brush u off or anything... Thought it mite b nice for u to meet some
cali peeps in person... Was asking if u want to gtg w some of us~ lol

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/18/2009 9:26 am

    Quoting TCB9Toxic:
    humans hurt and get hurted, intenionsnaly (as a game) and not intenionsnaly (weakness)
life to ME is already complex n stressful without all those mind games
ppl play to each other...
i think God created men n women so we can support each other of
wut the others lackin... Not go suck out wuts good in the other n leave
them hanging in pain...

How the hell do these mind game players have so much time in their
hands to waste on doing such bad deeds???

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/18/2009 9:16 am

    Quoting OwenMcCaffrey:
    Jamie,

    I feel for ya. I mean I can understand what you might be goin through. But hold out hope ok? I mean, there will be someone comes along and suddenly your day will turn from clouds to sunshine. I know it. You seem like a nice person so I hope this will be sooner rather than later.

    Everyone is selfish, it is just a question of how much, eh?
thanx owen for ur support n kind words~!
yea i believe someone so worth all these
hurting experiences im going thru will show up
sooner or later...
i m keep telling myself theres purpose for me to
go thru wut im going thru...
purpose is for me to recognize n appreciate n embrace
the rite one when he happens...
until then i shall improve my relationship skills~ lol

Looking1313
40 posts 

3/18/2009 9:14 am

Hey Jamie, Thanks for being so nice. I haven't chatted with anyone on kff lately, so don't know many peeps in s. cali. Anyways, hope you meet someone nice that interests you. take care,

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/18/2009 8:56 am

    Quoting tomdku:
    jamie...its all personal perspectives in regards to being selfish...i too can say the same when it comes to one of my ex-gfriend...i gave all the love, time and commitment to her but she was freakin selfish...only thought about herself..and said she cares and loves me but only words...words without action...i am certain that there are great gals out there and guys too...just need to weed out the useless... your a great gal and have a lot to offer...be strong, pursue your dreams...remember that challenges will only make you stronger and better..."true self of a person will only come when that person is under tremendous pressure"... this builds character...
Hey Tom~! Thanx for dropping in...^ ^
yea... All these wrong relationships im keep falling into
actually can be positive experiences , bad but i call it positive,
cuz its just learning process in which i can teach myself to scope
out wuts good n bad for me ... N also learning how to handle
relationship in different situations...
ur one of the good ppl I ran into... Just too bad nice ones finish last... Eh?
it is unfortunate n saddening for those who doesnt have respect for good ppl
but instead take advatage n hurt those who r true to them...

TCB9Toxic
66 posts 

3/18/2009 6:40 am

humans hurt and get hurted, intenionsnaly (as a game) and not intenionsnaly (weakness)

OwenMcCaffrey
324 posts

3/18/2009 4:28 am

Jamie,

I feel for ya. I mean I can understand what you might be goin through. But hold out hope ok? I mean, there will be someone comes along and suddenly your day will turn from clouds to sunshine. I know it. You seem like a nice person so I hope this will be sooner rather than later.

Everyone is selfish, it is just a question of how much, eh?

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/18/2009 1:32 am

    Quoting Looking1313:
    Hey Jamie, Would you have some coffee with me in ktown? Let me know where, while I'm here. I'd like to meet you, if that's ok. Just trying to make friends here. Steven.
hey steven... Dat would b nice but how about we do a gtg thing n
u meet some other kffers living near k-town ... We hav a small group
going here in s cali .. U know~?.. Hav u chat w anyone near LA area?

tomdku
2 posts

3/18/2009 1:02 am

jamie...its all personal perspectives in regards to being selfish...i too can say the same when it comes to one of my ex-gfriend...i gave all the love, time and commitment to her but she was freakin selfish...only thought about herself..and said she cares and loves me but only words...words without action...i am certain that there are great gals out there and guys too...just need to weed out the useless... your a great gal and have a lot to offer...be strong, pursue your dreams...remember that challenges will only make you stronger and better..."true self of a person will only come when that person is under tremendous pressure"... this builds character...

Looking1313
40 posts 

3/18/2009 12:04 am

Hey Jamie, Would you have some coffee with me in ktown? Let me know where, while I'm here. I'd like to meet you, if that's ok. Just trying to make friends here. Steven.

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/17/2009 12:39 pm

    Quoting Looking1313:
    Hi Jamie, I am korean. Most men our age seems to want to just play and not commit to a relationship. Maybe they were married once or just are that way, coz they are still single. There are a few good men out there still looking for love and not games, too! The search seems to be endless, but keep looking and you'll find them. PS, I came to visit my brother and will be here til the end of the month. I might move here, maybe next month if I like LA. Still think about the move.
true~true~ but wouldnt it b simpler to b involved in a committed relationship than wasting time n energy not to mention money to search n date n hook up then move onto exact same repeat of wut u just did?? N to b caught in dat same cycle... Is it dat much entertaining to guys???? N specially @ u guys age... Sorry to say this but early 40s
isnt really considered as young ... U know~!
yea... N there r just a handful of genuine nice guys but since there r so few if them very
hard to run into one dat strikes my interest... -__-

Looking1313
40 posts 

3/17/2009 10:04 am

Hi Jamie, I am korean. Most men our age seems to want to just play and not commit to a relationship. Maybe they were married once or just are that way, coz they are still single. There are a few good men out there still looking for love and not games, too! The search seems to be endless, but keep looking and you'll find them. PS, I came to visit my brother and will be here til the end of the month. I might move here, maybe next month if I like LA. Still think about the move.

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/16/2009 10:54 pm

y ACON~~~ THaNx 4 da compliment~!~!~!

Mayb I should take up a new career as a songwriter ... hahaha

Its always soOo good 2 c u~!

jamiexoxo
597 posts 

3/16/2009 10:50 pm

    Quoting Looking1313:
    Hey Jamie, Sorry to hear that. Sounds like you met a guy who is selfish in general. Maybe it's time to look else where. Take Care! PS, where are good places to go in ktown? just came here last week to visit. Let me know. Steven.
Hey steven~
move onto wut???
seems as tho most men r selfish when it comes to relationship...T_T
ur in k-town ??? For how long ???
u wanna meet some peeps fron kff in l.a. Area??
were u korean btw?? Forgot ~ sorryz .. Hehe

aconfusedman
531 posts 

3/16/2009 9:36 pm

This sounds like the lyrics to a song.

Looking1313
40 posts 

3/16/2009 5:49 pm

Hey Jamie, Sorry to hear that. Sounds like you met a guy who is selfish in general. Maybe it's time to look else where. Take Care! PS, where are good places to go in ktown? just came here last week to visit. Let me know. Steven.

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