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* DO NOT DISCRIMINATE AGAINST PPL U R NOT ATTRACTED TO @ FIRST SIGHT... U'D NEVER KNOW UNTIL U GET 2 KNOW THE PERSON... HE/SHE MITE TURN OUT TO B UR SOULMATE  * DO NOT HESITATE TO APPROACH SOMEONE DAT INTERESTS U... SOMEONE ELSE WILL BEAT U TO HIM/HER WHILE U R HESITATING  * INNER BEAUTY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN OUTER BEAUTY IS WUT U ALWAYS HEAR ... BUT DON'T B A FOOL... APPEARANCE'S WUT GETS U NOTICED~ SO DO SPEND EXTRA EFFORT TO MAKE URSELF AS APPEALING AS POSSIBLE  READ THESE GUIDELINES FROM SOMEWHERE & WANTED TO SHARE W/ SINGLES ON KFF... HOPE THEY COME HANDY!!! 
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 5/15/2008 10:30 am |
If you followed your own advice, you wouldn't be single, right? That is why I say that. You get it? cham na won. ASSUME = ASS U ME really ~ like how many times do i need to do this joke????? Some ppl  One more ... Single= not attached .... Not necessarily unmarried... Aigo c... U must not hav been in u.s. Too long?
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5/14/2008 10:16 pm |
y NOT????? & y NOT ?????  
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5/14/2008 9:54 am |
Can a joong cut his own hair? Can a single person give this advice? lol & do I need to do assume joke again, or do u get it???
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5/14/2008 9:23 am |
Can a joong cut his own hair? Can a single person give this advice? lol & y NOT ?????
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5/13/2008 11:34 pm |
Can a joong cut his own hair? Can a single person give this advice? lol
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5/7/2008 8:13 pm |
Jamie. I understand what you said. And I agree. Thank you once again. I hope things are going better in your personal life. Kisses* je te veux.  WISH I CAN SAY THINGS R BETTER ... BUT NO... I MEAN I DUNNO WHETHER ITS BETTER OR WORSE... SOOOOOOOO CONFUSED... 
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5/6/2008 7:21 pm |
Jamie. I understand what you said. And I agree. Thank you once again. I hope things are going better in your personal life. Kisses* je te veux.
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5/5/2008 9:21 pm |
Dear Jamie I apologize for my late reply. I have been busy and didn't had enough time to reply to any of blogs in this site. I definitely won't disagree with your view. However I won't necessarily agree that it is either physical appearance or personality that will determine attracting others. I have seen people with both qualities and yet still can't attract others. I have used the term "deeper intuition of attraction" which "cannot be spoken" and thus be "pass to silence" as invisible chemistry. So in other word, the question can be whether if someone is attracted to Jamie, is he attracted to Jamie's physical appearance or Jamie's personality? However in my view, what is the more important which is more fundamental and unconditional is whether someone is attracted to Jamie herself. It's not "what" they are attracted(physical appearance and personality as well as other material possessions are both "what" of someone) to but rather "who" they are attracted to. I recently heard from Korean T.V. that "love is not something that one find but love is something that visits one." And when there is a development of chemistry in the most unexpected moment and the most unexpected way, it really won't be the matter of physical appearance or personality. However, I do agree with the importance of keeping in shape for physical appearance and personality because they are also very good tools for developing one's own confidence. I personally have deep problem with Korean society's expectation of women's beauty because I believe it's not the factor of women's confidence but rather is oppressive factor against women as social expectation. Anyway.... I also want to add that if (as I believe it is) physical attractiveness can only capture attention but not maintain the attention, quantities of capturing attention doesn't necessarily lead to more possibilities of maintaining attention and finally meeting that special someone. Because it really isn't the quantities of capturing attention but rather it is qualities of maintaining attention that is important. I really hope I answered your question and suggestion Jamie the beautiful. I KNOW & TOTALLY AGREE W/ U ABOUT PHYSICAL APPEARANCES NOT ALWAYS WINNING ATTRACTIONS FROM EVERYONE U GOT ATTENTION FROM... I NEVER MEANT SUCH A THING... WUT I'VE BEEN TRYING TO POINT OUT IS... HMMMMM.... OKEI... I DIDN'T WRITE THE GUIDELINES TO FIND UR SOULMATE... DO U AGREE DAT LOTA PPL FALL IN & OUTA LOVE MORE THAN ONCE IN THEIR LIFE??? WELL... SO , MORE PPL U GET ATTENTION FROM , U'LL HAV MORE CHANCE OF MEETING CERTAIN PPL WHO R ATTRACTED TO UR KINDA TYPE~ DO I MAKE ANY SENSE??? SORRY... NOT SURE WUT I'M SAYING, I MEAN I KNOW WUT I'M SAYING , BUT JUST SEEM LIKE HAVING TROUBLE WRITING DOWN MY THOUGHTS CLEARLY... U KNOW SO DAT PPL CAN COMPREHEND BETTER~ BIT NERVOUS...  TOOOOOOOO MUCH THANGS HAPPENING , MY MINDS CLUTTERED , SO HECTIC W/ MY BIZ & PERSONAL LIFE...SO HAVING SAID DAT... NO WORRIES ABOUT U NOT RESPONDING FAST ENOUGH, AS I'M IN SAME SITUATION AS U... TOTALLY UNDERSTAND~ THANX!!! 
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5/3/2008 10:41 pm |
Dear Jamie I apologize for my late reply. I have been busy and didn't had enough time to reply to any of blogs in this site. I definitely won't disagree with your view. However I won't necessarily agree that it is either physical appearance or personality that will determine attracting others. I have seen people with both qualities and yet still can't attract others. I have used the term "deeper intuition of attraction" which "cannot be spoken" and thus be "pass to silence" as invisible chemistry. So in other word, the question can be whether if someone is attracted to Jamie, is he attracted to Jamie's physical appearance or Jamie's personality? However in my view, what is the more important which is more fundamental and unconditional is whether someone is attracted to Jamie herself. It's not "what" they are attracted(physical appearance and personality as well as other material possessions are both "what" of someone) to but rather "who" they are attracted to. I recently heard from Korean T.V. that "love is not something that one find but love is something that visits one." And when there is a development of chemistry in the most unexpected moment and the most unexpected way, it really won't be the matter of physical appearance or personality. However, I do agree with the importance of keeping in shape for physical appearance and personality because they are also very good tools for developing one's own confidence. I personally have deep problem with Korean society's expectation of women's beauty because I believe it's not the factor of women's confidence but rather is oppressive factor against women as social expectation. Anyway.... I also want to add that if (as I believe it is) physical attractiveness can only capture attention but not maintain the attention, quantities of capturing attention doesn't necessarily lead to more possibilities of maintaining attention and finally meeting that special someone. Because it really isn't the quantities of capturing attention but rather it is qualities of maintaining attention that is important. I really hope I answered your question and suggestion Jamie the beautiful.
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4/28/2008 9:09 pm |
Jamie, Just remember that there are times to be selfish and times to be selfless. Don't look for the things that you want... just make sure the person you are seeing does not have the things you don't want like an alcholic, cheater, liar, player, rudeness, whatever you dislike in people... that way, at least you know that the negatives are not there and then you can compromise on the positives. Worked for me as you know, but then again, I was fortunate to find her practically next door... Smile, Marcus NO ALCOHOLIC???, NO CHEATER???, NO LIAR??? , NO PLAYER???, NO RUDE PERSON??? DAT PRETTY MUCH COVERS EVERYONE I'VE BEEN DATING~~~~~~ MARCUS... IF U KNOW A GUY WHO DOESN'T FALL UNDER THIS LIST, B SURE TO HOOK ME UP!!! HEHE
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4/28/2008 9:02 pm |
Women's physical beauty might capture men's attention however such physical beauty will not maintain men's attention. We may talk about the importance of character and personalities beside physical appearance but I believe, one of major factor that determines the chemistry between a man and a woman is deeper intuition of attraction. And it is not an issue of WHAT attracts someone but it is WHO attracts someone. So when one is deeply attracted to someone, one may never be able to point out the reason or aspects of a person that one is attracted to. As a German philosopher named Ludwig Wittgenstein once said "What cannot be spoken must pass to silence." .....just like the way I feel when ever I take a look at jamie's photo.  UHHHHH... [well... no fitting smiley here, yeah so~] ANYWAYZ~FYI~ MR. JE TE MONT PHILOSOPHY... IN ORDER FOR A PERSON TO GET IN TOUCH W/ SOMEONE WHO HE OR SHE MITE HAVE WUTS KNOWN AS CHEMISTRY BETWEEN A MAN & A WOMAN ASAP, DON'T U AGREE DAT INCREASING UR CHANCE OF MEETING THIS PERSON BY INCREASING UR CHANCE OF CAPTURING MORE ATTENTIONS WOULD B VERY HELPFUL???~ THUS LETS WORK ON OUR OUTER APPEARANCES AS MUCH AS OUR INNER PERSONALITY!!! YEAH?????~ WUT DO U SAY??? <- mE
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4/28/2008 8:37 pm |
Jamie, you needs glasses. so what crajee thangs have you been doing, lately? I DIDN'T ACTUALLY STATE DAT U WERE... I WAS MERELY ASKING U IF U WANNA HEAR ME SAYING DAT U WERE FINE~ KEKEKE..... SORRY !!! SOMEONE 'S BEEN TEACHING ME LATELY TO B POLITE , EVEN IT MEANS FOR ME TO B A DISHONEST LIAR~ & U KNOW MY POLICY " HONESTY IS DA BEST POLICY "..... SO HARD FOR ME... OHHHH~~~ & ABOUT DA CRAJEE THANGS..... ITS FOR ME TO KNOW & FOR U TO FIND OUT !!!!!!!!!
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4/28/2008 8:19 pm |
jamie, thanks for sharing... uhhh, i will try to abide... sabine  anywayz... think ur doing fine as far as guideline thing goes~ c ya soon~ i think
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4/28/2008 11:33 am |
Jamie, Just remember that there are times to be selfish and times to be selfless. Don't look for the things that you want... just make sure the person you are seeing does not have the things you don't want like an alcholic, cheater, liar, player, rudeness, whatever you dislike in people... that way, at least you know that the negatives are not there and then you can compromise on the positives. Worked for me as you know, but then again, I was fortunate to find her practically next door... Smile, Marcus
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4/27/2008 12:28 am |
Women's physical beauty might capture men's attention however such physical beauty will not maintain men's attention. We may talk about the importance of character and personalities beside physical appearance but I believe, one of major factor that determines the chemistry between a man and a woman is deeper intuition of attraction. And it is not an issue of WHAT attracts someone but it is WHO attracts someone. So when one is deeply attracted to someone, one may never be able to point out the reason or aspects of a person that one is attracted to. As a German philosopher named Ludwig Wittgenstein once said "What cannot be spoken must pass to silence." .....just like the way I feel when ever I take a look at jamie's photo.
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4/26/2008 5:57 pm |
IS THIS WHERE I HAV TO SAY UR OUTWARD APPEARANCE IS JUST FINE???!!!~ so what crajee thangs have you been doing, lately?
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4/25/2008 8:38 pm |
jamie, thanks for sharing... uhhh, i will try to abide... sabine
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4/25/2008 7:34 pm |
Good to see you writing again. Good advices. I'VE BEEN GOING THRU ALOTA CRAZY THANGS... I DID MISS WRITING FOR BLOG POSTS~
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4/25/2008 7:30 pm |
lol, Jamie, I was remembering my humble outward appearance doesn t do much for first impressions.... And NO, i would not DO BT if he had the last hole on earth...keke. No offense, BT, hon.
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4/25/2008 7:26 pm |
so true nuna but many people dun go by those guidelines sometimes... how are u ? haven't heard from u ? guess ur pretty busy with work ? well i'll ttyl hopefully tk nuna =) HEY INQ4... BEEN AWHILE, HUH~? SORRY FOR NOT BEING AVAILABLE... ITS BEEN LIKE CRAZYYYYYY FOR AWHILE~ THANX 4 STOPPING BY...
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4/25/2008 7:20 pm |
So, what time do you want me to pick you up for our date ? LOL U HESITATED 2 LONGGGGGG~ 
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4/25/2008 7:16 pm |
are u gonna ignore me this time 2? lol bt
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4/24/2008 8:28 pm |
Good to see you writing again. Good advices.
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4/24/2008 6:53 pm |
UHHHHHH..... SWEETIE??? R U DOING BT??? OR IS IT UR ARROGANCE... THINKING THIS BLOG POST IS ABOUT U???  KEKEKE~ J/K!!!!!! And NO, i would not DO BT if he had the last hole on earth...keke. No offense, BT, hon.
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4/23/2008 8:25 pm |
LOL bLUeSTONE... WHAT IS IT with you and scents and odors (fart)?  Whaddya lookin at hah?
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4/23/2008 7:25 pm |
so true nuna but many people dun go by those guidelines sometimes... how are u ? haven't heard from u ? guess ur pretty busy with work ? well i'll ttyl hopefully tk nuna =)
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4/23/2008 7:13 pm |
It always helps to smell nice too~ LIKE TOTALLY~ LIKE UR ROOM 9 WAY... HUH, NO???
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4/23/2008 7:08 pm |
Does Jamie like me now? lol R U DOING BT??? OR IS IT UR ARROGANCE... THINKING THIS BLOG POST IS ABOUT U??? KEKEKE~ J/K!!!!!!
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4/23/2008 6:32 pm |
Hello Jamie, Simple list but you hit all the right answers Beautiful day to you BEAUTIFUL DAY 2 U 2~
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 4/23/2008 8:44 am |
So, what time do you want me to pick you up for our date ? LOL
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4/23/2008 6:35 am |
are u gonna ignore me this time 2? lol bt
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4/23/2008 6:34 am |
jamie! how well u have said all these. 1) applies to you in relation 2 me. 2)this is what i always do when it comes to u 3)& 4 ) Yes u have inner and outer beauties and the former is more important.I also wish to share a lot with u ab me if u have time. love u bt
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4/23/2008 1:23 am |
It always helps to smell nice too~
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4/23/2008 1:09 am |
It always helps to smell nice too~ Whaddya lookin at hah?
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4/23/2008 12:12 am |
Does Jamie like me now? lol
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4/22/2008 10:37 pm |
Hello Jamie, Simple list but you hit all the right answers Beautiful day to you
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