Winked...by a WOMAN ^.~
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The other day I received a wink by a woman who is a bi-sexual and bi-curious...I think it was a second time that she has winked at me actually...married on top of it... Was I suppose to feel “lucky” for the wink, whatever the wink represents...actually I was amused more than anything else... I don't even get winks from guys, with exceptions of guys over 50+(no offense please) Well something to share… What does wink really mean I wonder???  I think I was "hotlisted" by her too...ahahahhahahahah  Have you ever been winked/hotlisted by a same gender??? have a good weekend!!! sabine |
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6/16/2007 6:40 am |
...there, you have it.  Yes, isn't it frustrating? I view it as a "nothing-to-lose" gesture and usually ignore it altogether. I mean, it comes from someone who knows there really isn't any chance for them so they think to themselves, "Why not?"
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6/16/2007 7:50 am |
Never received winks from a man. but when i used to work at a drug store, gay men would always flirt with me. Maybe it was the pink ties that i used to wear. They said i should wear blue ties instead. Nice weekend 2U also.
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6/16/2007 8:27 am |
Yes. I have received winks from men, and hotlisted by men. I presume that they are gay. Of course I never reply to them. However, I have never been winked at by a woman. I was hotlisted by a woman once about a year ago, and I e-mailed her why she hotlisted me. At that time, I was not writing in the blogs, I was contributing in the Group discussions. She replied that my writing reminded her of her brother who has since passed away. She had a lot of good things to say about her brother. I thanked her and told her I was honored.
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6/16/2007 8:27 am |
Sabine you are hot 
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6/16/2007 10:20 am |
I have never experienced same-sex hot listing although I doubt I would take offense at such an overture. In fact, could we not regard such hot listing as an affirmation of our own hotness? Although a same sex union will never be possible for some of us, where is the harm in functioning as an object of homosexual covetousness? It is not as if they will hypnotize you into becoming gay. I would urge those who have found themselves in such a position to be secure in the knowledge that you are regarded as hot by both genders. Whaddya lookin at hah?
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 6/16/2007 11:26 am |
Genuine, literate people write. You got a wink from me Sabby, and that's all you need. So good, you can take it to the bank. Take it there, but don't expect any cash.  Madman, you scare me in a funny kind of way. Imagine a chihuahua using a megaphone. The sound is a bit frightening. Then, when you actually see it, it becomes surreal and funny at the same time. f/f
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6/16/2007 1:08 pm |
Imagine a chihuahua using a megaphone? wtf? Imagine a midget stuck in the microwave banging on the door as someone hits the "popcorn" button.
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6/16/2007 4:07 pm |
you go girl!!! more power to ya!!!
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6/16/2007 7:30 pm |
Sabine if I were a woman I'd wink you all the time
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6/17/2007 2:04 am |
oh no, this is where I find it creepy, even though i can tolerate a little lesbo related thoughts in my mind.
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6/18/2007 2:22 am |
...there, you have it. Yes, isn't it frustrating? I view it as a "nothing-to-lose" gesture and usually ignore it altogether. I mean, it comes from someone who knows there really isn't any chance for them so they think to themselves, "Why not?" hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm was that the reason that you never responded back??? hehe sabine
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6/18/2007 2:28 am |
gid, what about purple or paisely ties??? acon, still busy as usual??? guess where i might be going!!! madman, sweetie, as always, you're the best...lol so will you PLEASE change your handle??? i will love you more!!! sabine
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6/18/2007 2:35 am |
I have never experienced same-sex hot listing although I doubt I would take offense at such an overture. In fact, could we not regard such hot listing as an affirmation of our own hotness? Although a same sex union will never be possible for some of us, where is the harm in functioning as an object of homosexual covetousness? It is not as if they will hypnotize you into becoming gay. I would urge those who have found themselves in such a position to be secure in the knowledge that you are regarded as hot by both genders. i think i need to think before i write more...=p are you back to la??? sabine
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6/18/2007 2:39 am |
form, you know you are the best!!! oops, i already used that line...hehe i meant you're one and ONLY...but wait, i have to compete with sporty then...=p always, sabine
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6/18/2007 2:42 am |
Imagine a chihuahua using a megaphone? wtf? Imagine a midget stuck in the microwave banging on the door as someone hits the "popcorn" button. you know guys i do not want to be the next jerry springer!!! sabine
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6/18/2007 2:43 am |
jules, thanks!@!@!!@!@ girl powerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr sabine
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6/18/2007 2:46 am |
tendo, hehe haha hoho sabine
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6/18/2007 11:08 am |
Sabine - my guess is that you are going to your hairdresser.
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6/18/2007 11:53 am |
Sabine, I have not been winked at by any Men, nor have I been hotlisted by any Men, but I do regularly get winks from Women. It is nice to know that I am still 'winkable'. Madkore ps. I will wink at you if it will help........
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6/18/2007 3:13 pm |
I like the paisely that is not so paisely. The purple would be nice with some kind of stripes. Take care Sabita.
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6/18/2007 3:15 pm |
chingu, hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm was that the reason that you never responded back??? hehe sabine
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6/18/2007 5:02 pm |
I didn't think people care for those winks and hotlists at all I personally don't care for anything else other than the blogs and emails here. However, after reading your blog, I checked to see who winked & hot-listed me. I have over 100 people who winked me in last 30 days, 60 some people who put me in their hotlists, and some put me in both. Among which, I do have a few winks by women. As I joined here to make friends, I am very honored to receive the winks by women because I would think the ladies who wink me either liked what I said in my profile or blogs. I am gonna return all the winks back tonite
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6/18/2007 5:05 pm |
madkore> Yeah, of course, you are worth the wink. I can put you in my hotlist too if you want Just ask
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6/19/2007 1:22 am |
I didn't think people care for those winks and hotlists at all I personally don't care for anything else other than the blogs and emails here. However, after reading your blog, I checked to see who winked & hot-listed me. I have over 100 people who winked me in last 30 days, 60 some people who put me in their hotlists, and some put me in both. Among which, I do have a few winks by women. As I joined here to make friends, I am very honored to receive the winks by women because I would think the ladies who wink me either liked what I said in my profile or blogs. I am gonna return all the winks back tonite I've met one person from KFF and you know what happened with that! ...I faintly hear the lamentations of those women and children. 
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6/20/2007 6:15 am |
I winked at myself a bunch of times. LOL KORN 
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6/20/2007 2:33 pm |
madkore> Yeah, of course, you are worth the wink. I can put you in my hotlist too if you want Just askYou are just too Sweet. Thank you. Madkore
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6/21/2007 3:39 pm |
Sabine - my guess is that you are going to your hairdresser. i was thinking more of your blog =p sabine
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6/21/2007 3:41 pm |
Sabine, I have not been winked at by any Men, nor have I been hotlisted by any Men, but I do regularly get winks from Women. It is nice to know that I am still 'winkable'. Madkore ps. I will wink at you if it will help........ you DID wink at me...lol did you wink at so many girls that you forgot??? sabine
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6/21/2007 3:49 pm |
I didn't think people care for those winks and hotlists at all I personally don't care for anything else other than the blogs and emails here. However, after reading your blog, I checked to see who winked & hot-listed me. I have over 100 people who winked me in last 30 days, 60 some people who put me in their hotlists, and some put me in both. Among which, I do have a few winks by women. As I joined here to make friends, I am very honored to receive the winks by women because I would think the ladies who wink me either liked what I said in my profile or blogs. I am gonna return all the winks back tonite unlike some of us, i think it's a means to let someone know that they are interested, especially for the standard members who are not able to write e-mails... while you get over 100 winks per month, i usually get 3 or so; therefore, i'd like to get it from a heterosexual man than BI-sexual woman... sabine
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6/21/2007 3:50 pm |
I winked at myself a bunch of times. LOL can you even do that? 0-o sabine
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6/21/2007 9:30 pm |
Hello Miss Sabine, Pfff... i'm jealous Never been winked. LOL Happy day, Frenchguy,
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6/21/2007 11:27 pm |
Hello Miss Sabine, Pfff... i'm jealous Never been winked. LOL Happy day, Frenchguy, i thought you were the only guy that i've winked....^.~ happy weekend, sabine
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6/22/2007 8:32 pm |
Miss Sabine, Did you ? - winked at me - oups. Was thinking you e-mail me... I'm such a dork LOL... I wasn't sure to be honest. Well, looks like i made my stupid mistake for today LOL. See you soon... Beautiful day to you, Frenchguy.
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6/26/2007 1:32 am |
frenchguy, i think i actually winked, hotlisted (old handle) and wrote to you...lol good day, sabine
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6/30/2007 10:51 am |
Hi Sab, I was winked at too by same sex. It really creeped me out. Kind HearinMD
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7/2/2007 1:15 am |
kindheartinMD, it was more amusement than anything for me but i can understand where you're coming from... sabine
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7/2/2007 2:18 pm |
I had a gay guy randomly walk up to me at a bar and sit on my lap. I was pretty drunk so I assumed it was one of my other guy friends. I'm secure in my sexuality and so are my friends, so I put my arm around his waist and said "have you lost weight, I don't remember you feeling this light when you are on top." When the guy turned around I jumped, as in I stood to my feet-not the type of jump where a certain part of me stands up, but that jump where the chair flies out from under you. That's the same as a same-sex wink right? I didn't freak out at the stranger since I'm not homophobic, but it did startle me as I was expecting a familiar face. A friend of mine recently "came out". It does feel strange though and just reinforces the fact that people don't choose their sexuality. I usually take it in stride and assume it is a compliment.
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