Love...How It Fades...
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I was in love a while back…short yet very intense... it was weird, I didn’t think I could ever feel that way towards him, but I did...I didn’t even think I could even like a guy like him, someone who was vastly different from me...even though we were very different, there were things we were able to relate to and bonded... time passed and I still keep in touch with him on and off but now that love is gone...how can these feelings of love dissipate so fast??? Was it even true love??? I could have sworn that it was but now it's gone... song: Oh L'amour by Erasure book: Love in the Time of Cholera movie: In the Mood for Love |
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6/13/2007 3:09 pm |
Yikes! erase my first comment please. Oh L'Amour Broke my heart Now I'm aching for you. What's a boy in love Supposed to do.
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6/13/2007 4:10 pm |
first time replying to kff blog hehe: I've never been in this situation before, but I think this will happen to me in the future. Watching "When Harry Met Sally", I was wondering, what those old couples have in their minds, that they are still married and were looking at each other passionately, happily reminiscing moments wneh they first met, looking comfortable with each other, even after gazillion years? What do they have in that aged brain of theirs?
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6/13/2007 6:31 pm |
Sabeenah, Love is a rose And a rose is perfect until it dies....... Tendo, I bought my business from a really nice older Korean couple in their 80s. They would come every afternoon and help me organize and figure things out. Every day when they left, they walked down the hall together holding hands. And every time he looked at her, you could just see how much he loved her in his eyes. It was so real. So true. So powerful....... I can only hope that I will someday be that fortunate. Madkore
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6/13/2007 6:59 pm |
Eat chocolate it has the same effect.
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6/13/2007 7:04 pm |
WAS IT ME! WAS IT ME? I MISS MY SABI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SPIDER
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6/13/2007 10:12 pm |
Nature’s first green is gold, Her hardest hue to hold. Her early leaf’s a flower; But only so an hour. Then leaf subsides to leaf. So Eden sank to grief, So dawn goes down to day. Nothing gold can stay. Robert Frost
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6/14/2007 2:48 am |
gid, i'm sure you're one of the few who even know the song or the lyrics... tendo, i'm honored that this is your first comment (or is it? =p )... yes, i'm very envious of those types of relationships and i hope thath i can find that for myself... madkore, so true, but sad... hope you had a very special birthday this year... madman, where's ur new handle??? no wonder i like chocolates...haha sabine
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6/14/2007 2:50 am |
WAS IT ME! WAS IT ME? I MISS MY SABI!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SPIDER where have you been??? so good to see you again!!!! i missed you!!!!!!!! sabine
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6/14/2007 3:29 am |
axial, thanks... i'm not a big fan of poetry but i like it, it helps that i can actually understand it... =) btw. ayn rand is one of my favorite authors!!! sabine
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6/14/2007 7:36 pm |
Gideon> I saw it before Sabeen erased your comment lol
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6/14/2007 8:04 pm |
Sabeen unnie> Assuming things didn't work out between you and your ex... Since we are only human, it's possible we can fall in love with the people who are not compatiable with us. But we soon become logical and break up with the guys when we realize that they aren't right for us. I am glad that whatever you felt towards the man you dated faded away since you can now find someone who is more compatiable to your standards  Wish you good luck unnie
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6/14/2007 11:42 pm |
Love....know that feeling Well, you know what they say--"opposites attract"....hmmmm, but that's too bad. A true love, really? Or, perhaps more of an infatuation...for true love waits and endures, not fleeting like the passing seasons. Two of you were in love, but can you honestly say that it was true love? Will you give up so easily in the name of love? No, I doubt that true love will fade or dissipate quickly. One thing is certain. If it were "true", your "bond" is still intact...and time will tell. And, again...as they say---"absence makes the heart grow fonder".... A true love...indeed!
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6/15/2007 12:34 am |
Sporty... Shhhh...
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6/15/2007 3:42 am |
Sabineh... Im also a woman who is easy to be developed with a man i think what you feel for him is not Love at all.. i mean it could be love but it is not as extreme that yu thought,,,maybe you just admire him and you are just happy to be with his company,,but even though it happens you should'nt be sad...Theres a man who just only for you.. I think God is preparing your heart and it will give to you in a proper time... Be happy!!!! mwahh, Cuttie
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6/15/2007 11:24 am |
Bah ha bug. There is no such thing as "true love" (hehe). I always liked the phrase..."better to have loved than never to have loved at all". So, how intense was it?  tnt
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6/15/2007 2:09 pm |
TnT, It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. Madkore
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6/15/2007 3:43 pm |
Sabine, Went the moon hits your eye like a big pizza pie that's amore.  well it worked for Dean Martin free
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6/16/2007 2:59 am |
sporty, i guess i didn't make myself clear... yes, we did break up...lol my perspective is that even though i was in love with him, i feel that it wasn't meant to be... but still sad that to see how feelings can change... sabine unnie
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6/16/2007 3:03 am |
Love....know that feeling Well, you know what they say--"opposites attract"....hmmmm, but that's too bad. A true love, really? Or, perhaps more of an infatuation...for true love waits and endures, not fleeting like the passing seasons. Two of you were in love, but can you honestly say that it was true love? Will you give up so easily in the name of love? No, I doubt that true love will fade or dissipate quickly. One thing is certain. If it were "true", your "bond" is still intact...and time will tell. And, again...as they say---"absence makes the heart grow fonder".... A true love...indeed! i'm not sure what your definition of true love is... i know what and how i felt...it was love... i've had other "true" loves that didn't work out...again, i feel that it wasn't meant to be...F A T E... sabine
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6/16/2007 3:10 am |
Sabineh... Im also a woman who is easy to be developed with a man i think what you feel for him is not Love at all.. i mean it could be love but it is not as extreme that yu thought,,,maybe you just admire him and you are just happy to be with his company,,but even though it happens you should'nt be sad...Theres a man who just only for you.. I think God is preparing your heart and it will give to you in a proper time... Be happy!!!! mwahh, Cuttie thanks for your kind words... i'm not so sure if i have expressed my feelings clearly here... again, i feel that i've experienced enough to know that what i felt for him was LOVE... but i do believe in a destiny that perhaps he wasn't the right man... sabine
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6/16/2007 3:12 am |
Bah ha bug. There is no such thing as "true love" (hehe). I always liked the phrase..."better to have loved than never to have loved at all". So, how intense was it? tnt i too like the phrase...=) i will tell you how intense when i see you in la...=p sabine
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6/16/2007 3:14 am |
free... i love that song!!! especially at those Italian restaurants...hehe oh frank too... nice pic! sabine
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6/18/2007 8:57 am |
Sab, Maybe it is, as others have stated, the means to move on, to have the sharp vividness of our emotions be ever so slightly dulled and have it fade into the shadows allows us the space, freedom and inclination to find what we need. And perhaps it’s more compassionate (my saving grace) that our passed loves’ are allowed into the shadows to fade, a bit.
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6/20/2007 6:42 am |
Ive had those kind of relationships. I think it just takes time to find out that its not going to work long term. KORN 
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6/21/2007 3:53 pm |
twinkies, thanks for you wise comment... your comment is so eloquent... yes, i believe you and others are absolutely right... and life goes on... sabine
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6/21/2007 3:55 pm |
Ive had those kind of relationships. I think it just takes time to find out that its not going to work long term. i'm not sure that we are talking about similar relationship but it's nice to know that i'm not the only one... =) sabine
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6/21/2007 9:29 pm |
Hello Miss Sabine, Looks like it wasn't "true" love, being able to meet again someone after separation without feeling any attraction or thoughts about relationship... is, and means for me, that is was just a fun, hot relation with no future... But no worries, even if love fades sometimes, you are the kind of girl who can make blossom an ever lasting love with your companion. Beautiful day to you, Frenchguy.
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6/21/2007 11:25 pm |
frenchguy, i guess we all have different definition of "true" love... all i can say is that i've been true to my feelings and emotions and to myself... have a good weekend, sabine btw. your e-mail has been deleted and not sure if i can write back to ya...=<
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7/17/2007 5:57 am |
Ummm sab, u know u not getting any younger, well I guess I have to train some1 up to capture your heart oneday... 
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7/17/2007 2:55 pm |
Ummm sab, u know u not getting any younger, well I guess I have to train some1 up to capture your heart oneday... lol thanks for the reminder... did you know that i was trying to forget my age??? hahaha sabine
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