OMG!!! SUCH a LOSER!~!~!~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get a Life and do NOT harrass me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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so, i come home and log on to kff...i've noticed that i have 3 e-mails, all from the same guy, so naturally i open them... these are the hate e-mails i got BECAUSE i was NOT INTERESTED in him and explained EXACTLY why...actually there is another nasty e-mail under sabine but i'm sure he did his best to "kick me out" Date: Jan 18, 2007 12:26 am PST Subject: I know why?? I know why they kicked you out!! cause your a big trouble maker and you don't like yourself so you try and make other people not get along by causeing trouble in koreanfriendfinder!! I am sick and tired of you telling bad things about me to people!!! I have been nice to you and was trying to know you and things, and what do you do to me?? you lie about me and tell bad things about me, you have a big problem and you need serious medical help from doctors all over the world!!! I reported you sabeeneh for abusing me!!! You need alot of medical mental help!!!! Date: Jan 18, 2007 12:44 am PST Subject: I got kicked out! Sabineh, I would like to know why are you talking bad and telling bad things about me?? I have been nice to you, and I haven't done anything bad to you!! God will punish you someday!! ------ Profile Attached ------- If you receive a Valentine's Day-worthy bouquet of flowers on July 11, don't be surprised. It's not that I forgot the real date - I simply don't believe that I should need an excuse to shower you with affection and romance. Don't worry, though - you'll get an even better surprise on Valentine's Day. I know your friends will ask. I am a very sensitive, open, and romantic person who has a broad range of interests, including TaeKwonDo, reading, fishing, surfing, walks on the beach at night, and working out. I also love animals. I have a dog, a rabbit and a desert turtle, all of whom I would love to share with you. I also love children and they seem to love me. I am the kind of person who cannot help himself but be amazed in their presence. Basically, I am a child at heart. Although I have matured a great deal. I have not lost my playful, loving, happy and easy going nature...or my babyface, for that matter. If I sound like your kind of guy, contact me. I'd love to take you out for Asian food or whip you a barbeque at my house. Sound good? I'm an American native born and raised in Los Angeles California. Been here all of my life. I have dark blonde natural curly wavy hair, blue eyes, 5'9, with a babyface, I look younger than my age. I have never been married and don't have any children. Don |
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1/18/2007 6:46 pm |
lol
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1/18/2007 7:35 pm |
Never really understood the "stalker" mentality. Guys who call and harass women when they have been clearly told that they aren't wanted. Who is their right mind would want to be with someone who doesn't want them? Yet, another real world definition of insanity. Whimps, bullies and cowards can appear to be larger than their "real" pathetic life when they can fire off such crap from behind the anonymous computer veil... such harassment and cyberstalking is childish, oh, and against the law. Looks like you chose wisely in not connecting with this man. You Saved yourself much time in discovering how mean and abusive he is. Guess this is a good filter to see how gracious one is under rejection.
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1/18/2007 8:30 pm |
hello Sabine, Well...  Don't know what to say...  Have a wonderful day, frenchguy.
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1/18/2007 8:38 pm |
HEY SABITA!!!........WELCOME BACK TO KFF.
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 1/18/2007 8:50 pm |
This is the sort of stalker I DON'T have sympathy for. Another thing: My birthday is July 11. Should I expect that bouquet of flowers? ~ Brian
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1/18/2007 9:31 pm |
monsieur frenchguy, you also receive an awful e-mail while back...no??? sabine
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1/18/2007 9:34 pm |
This is the sort of stalker I DON'T have sympathy for. Another thing: My birthday is July 11. Should I expect that bouquet of flowers? ~ Brian if i ever get to talk to you perhaps you will give me an address...=p who knows, i might drop by chicago just to say "happy b-day"... would that be considered stalking??? hehe i'm so tempted to write his handle...i don't even know what is stopping me...
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1/19/2007 1:27 am |
yeah people usually who cry and whine about others needing therapy are in serious need of some mental assitance themselves. People like him who usually badmouth others usually have a reason for trying cloud the real problem which is their lack of being worth anything. LOL sorry you had to go through that. I had to change my handle too because of people liek that as well.
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1/19/2007 1:47 pm |
HEY SABITA!!!........WELCOME BACK TO KFF. gracias... but where are you? =< sabine
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1/19/2007 2:55 pm |
Angel, he is one of the semi-regular in a chatroom... sabine
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1/19/2007 3:38 pm |
Sorry you have to deal with this guy, Sabine. Unbelievable.  Jelly
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1/19/2007 5:21 pm |
Sabita........i had gone to sleep.....it was getting too late for me......i didn't want to wake up with my eyes all puffy.......then i would have to use extra make-up......cya later.
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1/19/2007 7:03 pm |
I think this guy has secretly made a voodoo doll of you Sabineh and is playing with it in some dark corner of his hovel. Sab you're so sweet and caring you attract many ppl to you but unfortunately a few pshychos get by. Don't let this crap get to you. Just remember the good ppl love you. Like me! 
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1/20/2007 8:43 am |
Macdaddy, you might be right!!! i've been sick since sunday and just when i thought i was getting better, i got worse again!~!!~ sabine wow, my handle SABINEH and the blogs have been gone!~!~!
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1/20/2007 12:21 pm |
Hmmm... very interesting. In my humblest opinion, it seems somewhat unfair to bash a person I don't know, simply based on a one-sided account. As I don't know the relationship history between you and this person except that he seems to have pursued you romantically and you rejected him, it would be presumptuous, to say the least, to judge this person or you. From what I've read, I see this person clearly was nice to you. What we don't know is the manner in which you rejected him. Also, if you indeed said negative things about him to others, wouldn't it be fair to say he has a right to question that or at least be somewhat disturbed by it? In any case, if you truly don't care for this person, I think the best thing to do is discontinue writing about it and discussing it with others as this will only drag on the retaliations. Jilted lovers' stories are common and usually warrant the advice of not egging it on and just move on. Typically, if you are unresponsive, he too will eventually move on. In this case, it seems that neither of you are jilted lovers as you probably have never met. It seems this person is not so upset about being "rejected" by you, but more upset about a tarnished reputation. In both emails, he wrote, "I have been nice to you and was trying to know you and things, and what do you do to me?? you lie about me and tell bad things about me, you have a big problem and you need serious medical help from doctors all over the world!!!" and " I would like to know why are you talking bad and telling bad things about me?? I have been nice to you, and I haven't done anything bad to you!!" Who knows what really happened since we haven't heard the other person's account? I just find it very interesting that people will jump to take a side without knowing the facts. Sab, you know that bad people exist on and offline. Just be careful what you say to anyone as it may tarnish a reputation. I would say the same to the person who reported you. Again, he seemed to have respected your privacy by keeping things in emails, but you are publicizing him. You see the difference in both behaviors?
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1/20/2007 12:36 pm |
hey sab. sorry you have crazy people accusing of stuff you are not or did not do. just be you and hopefully a wonderful guy will come and sweep you off your feet. (i am trying to lose weight so my guy will not hurt his back when he sweeps me off). hehe.
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1/20/2007 2:57 pm |
Fawnzee quotes, "Typically, if you are unresponsive, he too will eventually move on. In this case, it seems that neither of you are jilted lovers as you probably have never met. It seems this person is not so upset about being "rejected" by you, but more upset about a tarnished reputation." fawnzeee, all i can say is that if he can defend his words, go for it other than sending hate messages, whether through posts or chat room...the reason he canNOT is because he doesn't have anything to validate himself because i didn't write back to him other than one e-mail about few months ago... so it wasn't on going thing...maybe in his "mind" but never on my side, as you mention, "one side of the story"... he is someone that i've met in chat room, at least couple months ago... after receiving his first e-mail through regular e-mail, i told him straight out that i was not interested... WHY??? do you remember the handles such as "horndog", "imastud", ""hard4u"?? you even commented about one of them in the chat room recently... well his e-mail addy was in a similar matter so i told him that i wasn't interested and explained why and that was more than two months ago... he would write me an e-mail once in awhile...which all of them i've ignored and deleted... around x-mas, he wrote me a "nice e-mail" wishing me merry Christmas an happy holidays... sometime after that, i saw him in a chat room so i told him thank you and same to you, that i've been meaning to write... within a week, around new year's, he wrote me a really mean e-mail, calling me names and all, but as usual, i just ignored it... after that one night i was in a chat room and so was he, and he started saying some stuff about me, so i said, directly, "please just ignore me and do not bother me"...he said, okie... which ended up with e-mails mentioned above... fawnz... you've been in a chat room enough... as you know i really haven't been in a room lately... in addition, you can ask EVERYONE/ANYONE in a chat room who knows me if i ever talk about other people... should i be "harassed" because i told him i wasn't interested solely based upon an e-mail address which i was not so keen of??? would any girls correspond with someone with handle or e-mail address like that??? fawnzee writes, "Again, he seemed to have respected your privacy by keeping things in emails, but you are publicizing him. You see the difference in both behaviors?" fawnz, you must be kidding me!!! RESPECT??? What RESPECT??? did i post his handle? NO! i consider myself very patient and considerate, but felt that he has gone too far...
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 1/20/2007 3:31 pm |
Fawnzee has a good point. And she is not playing devil's advocate (this time, haha). I think your old profile can still be salvaged. You will have to call KFF for the ID to be reactivated. It is not deleted yet. If you didn't say anything at all out of line, I am sure it can be audited and your profile turned on. But if you blew the guy out of the water without provocation, then your old ID is gone. Anyway, you should scrap the sabeeneh, and create a new profile called 'subpoenaed', as that's what happened to your previous handle. It's on trial, haha. If you did no wrong, I guess the people here are more pathetic than I thought. There are too many dammnned ugly weirdo guys with no photo (and many lies), and lazy women with fraudulent pics (with even more lies) that are damaged goods on KFF. Not to mention the spam profiles. This site needs a major cleanup, as the member body generally sucks nuts. I feel the management does not care though, as they are probably making money hand over fist. Of course I cannot go without acknowledging the precious few that are actually norrmal people with no bad intentions. But trust me, they are very, veeeeery few in number. Welcome to 'Men and Rejections Part ummmm,' what part is this? HAHAHA. Or shall it be renamed 'Hell hath no fury, as a profile scorned'.....? Have a nice weekend, I know I will. f/f
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1/20/2007 8:23 pm |
As I stated in my previous post, how could anyone know what truly happened when we don't even know who this guy is? In no way was I saying that anyone did wrong here. How could I? However, all that anyone can do in response to this post is to examine the information that you offered, which is only a morsel, I'm certain. Based on the tidbit, which indeed is one-sided (because your story is the only side I've read), he seemed somewhat "nice". You didn't post anything really negative about this guy other than his 2 emails, which don't seem like "hate" messages. Even in your last comment, you mentioned that he wrote you a "nice" email. I also stated in my previous post that I don't know your history with this person other than what you've written. I don't know you, let alone your online activities or with whom they might be. You asked me to read you blogs and specifically requested that I comment on this one. As I know how passionate you are about the slightest topics and can be quite emotional at times,I've never had the desire to comment. This one was strictly at your request and nothing more. It may not be easy for you to see, but my response was strictly objective. There was nothing personal against or the person you're referring to. Furthermore, I don't recognize any of the handles you mentioned. You say that I've mentioned one of his handles in the chatroom before? Who's handle? I type thousands of handles in the chatroom. Does that mean I'm able to link any of them to you? No. Do I care? No. You went on as if you were justifying something to me. I didn't ask for any explanation or excuses and certainly made no accusations. I don't keep tabs on you or any other chatter so how would I know or care whether someone I don't even know hasn't come online in a long time? Obviously, when I saw you with your new handle, was when I realized that indeed I haven't seen you in short while. Did I put any thought into that previously? No. Why would I? You're just another handle in the room to me. Nothing more, nothing less. Did I even wonder why you hand a new handle? No. People change their handles all the time. Now, when you asked me to read this one and post a comment, that's what I did. Yes, I've been in the chat long enough that I've seen just about every type of person, situation, and mood. You want me to "ask everyone" whether you talk about other people? Why??? You obviously take me for someone who cares whether you do or not. No, you shouldn't be "harassed". I never thought so or indicated that I thought so. Can you step back and put your emotions aside, bring in a bit of rationality and try to read my post from an objective standpoint because that's how I wrote it. And remember, just because I'm not praising you, doesn't mean I'm against you. Some chatters are really indifferent either way. I can't control how you process information, but I can assure you that nothing I wrote in my comment was negativity toward you. F/F ... yes, I knew you'd understand because you're a rational human being with the ability to read something and decipher its true meaning rather than seeing something that's not there.
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1/20/2007 9:59 pm |
fawnzee, you wrote, "You asked me to read you blogs and specifically requested that I comment on this one. As I know how passionate you are about the slightest topics and can be quite emotional at times,I've never had the desire to comment. This one was strictly at your request and nothing more. It may not be easy for you to see, but my response was strictly objective. There was nothing personal against or the person you're referring to. Furthermore, I don't recognize any of the handles you mentioned." fawnzee, you're right... i did ask you and the whole room to ask to read and thanks for your comment...i don't remember if i did ask for a comment specifically for this one...i did mention while back i like your comments and it would be good to hear yours... it's a good way to know how one sees other... in regards to above mentioned handles, those are "made up ones"...it was an example of type of the the handle/e-mail address which i didn't care for nor respond to...i would never put someone's handle just because i don't like it personally... you wrote, "Yes, I've been in the chat long enough that I've seen just about every type of person, situation, and mood." anyway, thanks for your input... it definitely gives me a different perspective... sabine
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1/21/2007 7:22 pm |
What happen to my comment? did it not go through? I swear I submitted it.  It took me ages to write that, do I have to write it again??
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1/22/2007 8:28 pm |
loveholic, either it's taking a while to post or it's gone... it has happened to me too...=< don't you hate that when it happens...especially you put some thought to it... =< hopefully i will get it since i do look forward to your comments... sabine
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1/23/2007 2:08 am |
Yeah I'm so peed off! It might be taking a while for it to go through because when i click on posts, it says I have posted 2 on this topic. So I'm thinking it might have actually gone through? I'll wait for a few more days and see if it gets posted and if not, I'll have to remember what I wrote last time.
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1/24/2007 8:29 am |
I'd love to see fawn and sab in a mud wrestling contest.....lol.
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1/24/2007 11:03 am |
I'd rather wrestle you, aigo. LOL
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1/24/2007 2:57 pm |
Why you erase my lol's 
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1/25/2007 10:52 pm |
Mac, i didn't erase your lol's... did you want me to erase your lol's??? sabine
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1/27/2007 4:45 pm |
Sabita........does this situation continue?.......is everything ok?
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1/31/2007 12:42 am |
sabin, I feel like if I every seen any stalker around I would do something to their brain and fix thier freaken brain up.. Some people would dare do that to our sabin. He will get the full pushniment from me if I every see that stalker. Sabin I will try to look this person up ... if I find them out, they will have a loong way to u know 
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2/6/2007 3:39 am |
Sab.. sorry to hear ur problem.. i can't help u myself.. but i can only give u advise .. one can help u out from that.. is urself.. have u ever read a book named "The Present" ???? I think it may help u from ur worries and troubles and problems.. hope a happy sweet nice sab can feel happiness.. TT
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2/6/2007 3:41 am |
hahahaha..  TNT.. so funny to read ur comment.. don't forget u will teach me Tennis.. heehee... TT
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2/12/2007 7:28 pm |
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2/14/2007 2:48 pm |
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2/19/2007 10:38 pm |
niennormanly, mo ga yo??? what happened to your other handle??? sabine
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2/19/2007 10:40 pm |
adam, jeh ga sabine eendae-yo...wae-yo??? sabine
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2/19/2007 10:41 pm |
thartar, thanks for your advise... i will check out the book next time i go to the book store... sabine
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3/25/2007 8:55 pm |
u never wanted to wrestle me and that hurts my feelings......im back .........EZlover.........but now im korn2020...long story. lol KORN 
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3/25/2007 8:58 pm |
Oooooppppps, I wrote this in the wrong place.....sorry Ezlover, now Korn.....Hey Fawnzee KORN
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3/27/2007 2:40 pm |
Sorry that I send that too ya. I meant for it to go to Fawnzee. lol KORN
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3/28/2007 1:23 am |
korn, welcome back... i personally haven't seen fawnzee lately but who knows... hopefully she will get a chance to read this just for your sake... sabine
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5/12/2007 1:49 pm |
OK I will not write~~~~~~~ again~~~~~~~~~ haah
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5/12/2007 1:52 pm |
what my nick? was and is........... today tomorrow aldays hah
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7/19/2007 11:26 am |
Hello from Toronto Canada, Seems as though there are many many many crazy guys out there, you certainly need to be careful with whom you contact. But I guess if you don't explore you never discover the treasure your looking for.
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