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u know ¼ö´É? it is korean SAT. daaaamn, i got report card today. well actually i was a good student and i have pulled sat. hmm but it is just the past and a mimic test. it means, I GOOFED UP THE EXAM! my father is in a stew about me and my grade sigh..... he really,really get mad and lose his mind oh yea, maybe he would kill me!! i really looked forward to going to one of the TOP university in korea, but my dream is...just gone,vanish,fade out! do u understand my feeling? no one but only 3rd grade on korean high school student can understand me haha...like me, who got bad, really bad result. i can hardly keep from tears,it just burst,you know i disappointed my father, my family, people who believed me and i am disappointed at myself, too. |
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12/10/2008 9:22 pm |
Hello Mari, Even if you don't get into the Top universities in Korea, still go onto college and find something that interests you to study. As long as you try your best in what ever you do in life, everyone will be proud of you. Even your father. He just had big dreams for you, like any parents. I did the same thing when I was younger, but my life turned out pretty well. Remember, it's not the end of the world, even if it feels like it now. You have a whole life ahead of you, so learn to deal with adversities. It will make you stronger and wiser.
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12/10/2008 10:29 pm |
Mari, I feel sooo bad for you! I can not begin to understand the pressures you face... since I am causacian living always in America. It's so different here. Please remember this, however...Universities are not the destination, but rather a path. Now your path can be what ever you choose!!!  Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!! Enjoy the ride!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Spider
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12/10/2008 11:36 pm |
Sucks to be you! I imagine you could have studied more diligently. However, standardized tests are a poor measure of academic acumen anyway. Therefore, my advice to you is never let some idiotic test define who you are. The real test is how we interface with society and overcome interpersonal challenges while becoming masters of ourselves. Anyone equipped with ambition and mental dexterity may succeed in life with hard work and a little luck. And if, the mere fact that you did not excel in the exam means Korea will not allow you to rise to your full capabilities, then perhaps you may consider seeking your destiny abroad. Human beings are resilient creatures who are hard-wired for adaptation. Most of all Mari, do not cry. You possess the gift of youth and your life flows like a golden river unto a future of possibilities. Do not fear what lies ahead. Now is the time to be bold and strong.
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12/11/2008 7:42 am |
Thanks everyone. I really appreciate. I know the university is not everything in life but for me, now, this is everything I studied over 15 hours in day, from 8AM to 1AM next day. And i know this year's exam has been the hardest since it was made. However, definitely someone got good grade and there must be a head boy. Everytime i think, 'why not me?' And i also know, that is not good thinking but everyone makes me think of it. I don't like regret but well..i have to regret now. Like why didn't i study harder or why did i have some mistakes on exam and so on...But everything's gonna be alright,right? i wanna believe it. Please keep ur fingers crossed for me. Thank u again.
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