How do u judge ppl..... that is.. if u do judge them?
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I'm not sure about everyone... but I personally don't like to judge ppl from what I hear. I'm more of "show me what you're about" person. Here's some of the ways I think most ppl judge... What's you're method... if any.. JUDGE: 1. from what you hear from others. 2. from the way a person looks. 3. from what you see in their actions. 4. from their past. 5. from your gut. 6. from their personality. 7. from your own interaction with the person. 8. from their education level. 9. from their beliefs. or ... does it even matter.. why judge ppl.. when you dont like to be judged yourself??.. |
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4/22/2008 7:39 am |
lets b honest here... u judge ppl based on ur feelings toward a person... for instance , there r two ppl who takes exact same action ,whether it b positive or negative thing.... One is a person u like & one is someone who u despise, u would definitely judge the one u like as being a human... To b human is to make a mistake in the case of negative action taken, while u would judge the one u hate w/ worst condescending thoughts in ur head.... Unfortunately... Dats the reality of human nature~
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4/21/2008 7:10 pm |
To be human is to judge! We all judge in some shape or form. If you think you do not judge, then you lack good judgement(hehe) and are a big fat liar! Judging doesn't have to denote negativity!!! That is a reality check! The blueist of mangos   Let's be real folks. We all judge and make conclusions from "IT"....basically, the only difference is "acceptance" and "non-acceptance".... And....KORN, your insightful wisdom speaks with tremendous VOLUME that reverberates throughout the "four corners of the Earth"!!!
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4/21/2008 7:01 pm |
Saco, good or bad I will judge someone by the actions below... If I say I don't judge, then that is and will be lie... We all do judge in one form or another...I'm sure people judge me, by whatever criteria they judge people by... 3. from what you see in their actions. 5. from your gut. 6. from their personality. 7. from your own interaction with the person. All I can do is try to be a good person...(by my own book) I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated.... Christine
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4/21/2008 6:15 pm |
I form my judgment based on all the criteria you listed in your list. Am I judgmental ? Hope not.
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4/21/2008 4:24 pm |
i agree with pepe oppa.
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4/21/2008 4:04 pm |
There'll always be those that slander & label others. I wouldn't worry about them for they are losers that do not realize that they are projecting their own insecurities on others. COULDN'T HAVE SAID ANY BETTER ... 
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4/21/2008 3:44 pm |
To be human is to judge! We all judge in some shape or form. If you think you do not judge, then you lack good judgement(hehe) and are a big fat liar! Judging doesn't have to denote negativity!!! That is a reality check! The blueist of mangos
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4/21/2008 2:04 pm |
judge? i make my opinion with all the criteria you mention. My feelings are form my attention to them, and these felings come in to me spontaniusly. Prejudice? no Just insctivly i approach humans in poritiv way or on a negativ path
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4/21/2008 1:36 pm |
I just give them the benefit of the doubt for a while. I think it takes time to know a person. Also, I use my guy feeling based on what I have seen so far for the time I have know them. It is best if you don't judge too quick. If you do mis-judge someone I think you should tell them and apologize. KORN
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4/21/2008 1:35 pm |
only God can judge me! When I meet him at the pearly gates of heaven he'll tell me about my good and evil deeds.
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4/21/2008 12:10 pm |
There'll always be those that slander & label others. I wouldn't worry about them for they are losers that do not realize that they are projecting their own insecurities on others.
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4/21/2008 11:26 am |
smile... I think good people smile a lot and when they do, they make you feel warm and comfortable. Just a simple rule I have.
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4/21/2008 9:45 am |
I agree with KIMKIM. I like #3 and #7. I have been subjected to slander and rumors due to my blogs and my lifestyle. I have been labeled as a slut, a bitch, and a psycho. I'm sorry if those people perceive me as something from what they heard from others. I'm sorry that people don't have a life of their own that they have to be involved with people from "chat." Move on and find someone else just as miserable as you. I guess I should be flattered that people are so involved in my life and my well-being (in their eyes...ill-being) that they have to continue talking about me. You will encounter liars and manipulators of all kinds. I do not want to partake in this anymore. Please grow up and leave those that you are slandering alone. Saco oppa/Bada unni---thank you for writing this blog. In the mist of all this drama, there have been great benefits and peace. Thank you for being there for me.
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4/21/2008 8:57 am |
Saco, I have to agree with the last statement. Why judge ppl if you don't like to be judged in conjunction with #3 and #7. actions speak louder than words, it it what you make of it. Stick to your word, be true to your word and you will not be judged. kimberly
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